risks of being true: win or lose?

I am referring to our truth. In order to speak our own truth and share it with another, it’s first important that you’re able to be honest with yourself. Whether it’s an upset, a crush, an idea or an apology that needs to be expressed, the first step along the path to authentic communication is identifying what’s true for YOU. This part of the process is crucial and can often be challenging for a number of reasons. The truth can be scary sometimes because it can reveal to us that we need to take action in a direction that’s uncertain, such as walking away from a relationship that isn’t fulfilling or a job that’s not in alignment with our purpose. Similarly, when we are communicating something that is not inherently positive, such as a disappointment or a point of contention with a friend, colleague or loved one, there are a few challenges that arise as well.
being open and honest is the key to maintaining a clear space in our relationships and the way to do this is by being authentic in our communication and expressing from a place of love and a desire for harmony
As cliché as it may sound, I also can’t help but point out that life is short and tomorrow is never guaranteed. We may have the chance to express something today, but we never know if we’re going to get a next time.
So let us not pass up the chance RIGHT NOW to make things right with those we love, to be honest with the people in our lives, to say “I love you”, to sing our song, to tell our story, to share our ideas and to speak our TRUTH!Let’s be honest with each other. Is there something that you’ve been keeping to yourself that you know you need to express but don’t know how? Or better yet, is there something within you that you’re dying to express but haven’t because you’re afraid of how it will be received?dunno confused
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Win or lose..this risk is worth taking....honesty warrants it..thumbs up
I am 100 % agree with you
Hi minnie, wave interesting blog and I agree on the being honest - to yourself and others.

I was never good at kidding myself for any length of time and I am honest and upfront with what I want. I did learn not to be too blunt sometimes. laugh
Good stuff Minnie. thumbs up After reading it....you just made me scan my mind to make sure there were no self-deceptions going on. :)


Did I find any? I don't know....maybe I am deceiving myself here. lol

But seriously....good stuff.
KNenagh..
blunt is nothing wrong, I've noticed that a lot of kindness often confusedlaugh
Johnny_Sparton

thank you!!!! something has to happen!bouquet
If we accept this, what about the corollary? Should we not make things 'right' with those we are angry with?
for some reason the diversity exists. doing things like 'should be' will do always make you feel satisfied, but everyone decides what to do depending on the circumstancesbouquet
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