Listening to Kevin Samuels....for the men...What is a low value woman...

Thank you all for your comments. I feel that the message shared in the original post has been heard and those of you who have heard it can make your own determination as to its merits.

For me, the message has opened my eyes a bit to be more careful in the vetting process when allowing somebody to enter your life on a personal level.

Sea, I do agree about the message of love in the Bible. thumbs up Just because I decline to have somebody become a member of my personal life for traits they have that I do not value, does not mean I do not love them as a human being. The word toxic does not exist for nothing.

I hope others have found this blog of interest and of use.

Happy Friday once again all.

wave

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Jac,

This conversation between you and I has gone far enough. Until the next one.

gnite

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Jac,

I figured I would have gotten an apology from you for tell me I don't like women. Actually Jac, I am lying. I knew you wouldn't give an apology.


Regarding you answer the question, you really do not have to. Everyone knows the answer.

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By the way FF....I am not being an as*hole.

If I were being one, I would go after you for hating people for not letting just anyone into your home to live with you.

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FF,

If I were interested in dating you, we could converse with one another for a period of time where you could determine my SIGN for yourself. However, I am not trying to date a man.

Sorry.

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Do you see where I am going here or do I need to break it down even further for you 2?

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FF, the question was to let anyone (including women) into your home to live with....that includes complete strangers.

You would have to be nuts to let any complete stranger into your home to live with.

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Now, I need to ask you 2.....

Why not?

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Okay you 2....let me answer that for you.


The answer is...

Of course not.

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FF,

You and Jac are the ones trying to turn this blog into something else.

Okay FF...what about you then. Would you allow anyone (including women) into your home to live with?

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Jac,

Now, what about that answer to my question?

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Jac....your comment to me...

"You don't have the right to declare that some women are of a low value as human beings just because you don't like them, or the way they behave."

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Jac,

You still never answered the question.

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FF,

I am not trying to date men.

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Thank you Butcher. I am happy you are enjoying the entertainment value of it.

It is almost meant to be informative as well.

wave

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Jac,

Your first comment is not relevant here. Do you have something else?

What I mean by not relevant...you come out and say that I don't like women... First of all, that is not true. Second of all, I have already stated that countless times in this blog. So your first comment holds no water.

I think you are confusing things a bit here. Just because I don't value a woman who shames me, insults me, guilts me, and needs to be right with me all the time......I won't date them...I certainly would not off them. dunno

Do you understand that. I have respect for all human beings (women included)...but I would not invite all human beings (women included) into my home to live with them. Would you?

Jac....would you invite all human beings (women included) into your house to live with?

Would you?

Don't avoid this question. Please.

As far as your personal life question...what does that have to do with anything....well, whatever answer you give...you know this already....I have a valid point to make.




wine

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Another question for you two....are you two even looking for a relationship?

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So Jac...and I think FF would fit into this same question as well...


So you guys/gals don't think humans should have any sort of traits/characteristics that you should or should not value in another human being.

Women have things they value in a man, equally...now as we get educated....men have things value in a woman. Is that so wrong? Two both of you I ask.

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Kal,

With your final question about a submissive wife.

Submissive does not mean an obedient dog...where somebody tells their wife to lay down and roll over on command. Unless it is in the bedroom...rolling on the floor laughing ....just kidding. laugh

But...no...it is not that she is a dog and just reacts to commands.

It means that she is willing to follow her husband, be trusting, be non-combative, be loyal.

Yes...a dog is a loyal pet....but is a dog trusting and non-combative...and have the cognitive ability to discern?

She is submissive to her man.

She submits her whole self...mind, body, and spirit to her man.

This can get complex too....my response here, but I only have a couple minutes here before I need to get going. It was once said, that attraction is not an option for women. Meaning, attraction to a man is more of an impulsive/intuitive feeling for a woman. Being submissive has a woman override those traits...thus dedicating her life/body, mind, spirit...to her man.

I cannot get into deep detail with this right now.

But when a woman becomes submissive to her man, then the leader/follower dynamic (as I my 2nd response says) can indeed function between the couple.

wave

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Kal,

This is a complex question in my opinion...and a good one.

Relationships are give and take.

To make it clear here...a leader is not a dictator and a follower is not a slave.

A leader is somebody who is competent, respectful of others, and trusted.
A follower is somebody non-combative, trusting, and loyal.

Relationships are complex...that is why the question you ask is complex.

There are many aspects of a relationship....such as: finances, children, s*x, recreational...etc.

The people in this relationship should recognize that different elements of the relationship require a certain type of "specialized" traits within a person in order to achieve highly likelihood of a successful outcome with these different relationship elements.

Only after time together the two people in the relationship will know for sure who is better at understanding/managing each of these elements.

So with that said, if the man is better at finances, he will be the leader in that department. Whereas, if a woman is better with children, she will be the leader in that department.

Once again, a leader is not a dictator...it is not his or her way or the highway. If any issues arise in one of these elements, it should be brought up and discussed between the two. Say for example the woman does not like the way a man is handling the finances. She can just bring up to the man her concern and it can be discussed.

It is give and take...not a dictatorship.

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Hello Kal,

I will answer your questions in 3 different responses...my memory of each one of them is not that good. laugh


So for the first one about me dating a woman that will never shame/insult/guilt/need to be right with me.

First of all, never is a very strong word. It is an absolute term...meaning 100% of the time it will not happen...and personally, nothing in this world is that absolute. I would think and personally (because you are asking me if I would date a woman here) I would date a woman who would do those things.

However.......

This is important here....

However, a man knows whether or not he is deserving of shame/insult/guilt/needing to be right. If my woman continually uses these tactics in an undeserving way...in a way where you can see she is using it constantly...in a way where it makes me feel constantly belittled...I would not date her. If my woman truly respects me and loves me...she will not try and make me feel that way. I would prefer to have a woman who wants to have a two-way conversation about issues. At this point, she has a willingness to want to rectify issues.

Men should understand this about women.

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Jac,

There were things you had mentioned that I do appreciate.

The conversation was continually trying to diverted into a woman hating theme...and this blog has nothing to do with women hating. In addition, me as the OP, I have no hate for women....but I do have deal breakers, the same as most if not all women have towards men...they have deal breakers as well.

I would argue this blog is just the opposite to hating women. Believe it or not, I know many men personally...many men who are my age and younger who are single. Whenever the subject of women come up, it is usually always a negative one. I don't know if they are women haters or not...but this blog will hopefully help them understand that women as a whole are not bad...but there are some women that have bad characteristics, and instead of them, because of ignorance picking a bad characteristic woman, they can pick women with good characteristics to possibly restore their mindset in a positive way about women as a whole.

wave

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Jac,

I told you what I thought about the Hitler comment.

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That is fine Jac and that is fine FF.

Thank you for your opinion.


Patty. Thank you for your thoughts.

You know Patty, it is funny. I have been on these blogs for a lot of years....not really reading them as much as I did back in the day. But it is funny, because even back in the day...you can identify the people who are just outright disagreeable.... constantly.

Honestly....I do not recall once reading ever...and I mean ever...where some of these bloggers ever agreed with anything that was not from their own mind.

You can talk sense all you want...bring up valid points all you want...and they just cannot have any ounce of agreeableness. It is their way, or the highway. This is a simple blog with a simple question and most of the people who commented, got it. Somehow or another it got into women hating and Hitler.

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dunno

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That is fine Jac.

All I know is that I will not date a woman who shames me, who insults me, who guilts me, and who needs to be right all of the time.

I guess....that is all I can say.

I don't value those traits in a woman.

dunno

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Jac,

I do appreciate your insight and thank you for sharing it.

We got a little off topic here and that is fine. This blog was intended to get the opinion on what KS identifies as a low value woman.

I thought it was worth while to share to open they eyes to those wishing to become involved in a relationship, and possible traits to be aware of.

Of course, this does not discount the traits of a low value man. I think someone shared a video on that as well...and I think that is equally important to be aware of too.

However, with men being primarily visual creatures....they should be aware that that shallowness could indeed get them in trouble with the wrong woman, and to be mindful of other traits as well.

Thanks again Jac.

wave

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Jac,

What Sea has shared is what I recall the Bible teaching about women.

Thanks Sea...and I agree with you. We are facing something very intelligent today...and in my opinion...and it is not a good thing.


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Your Hitler comment is not even worth responding to.

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I think Jac....if you cannot point out where they teach disliking women in the Bible, I think you have something else already determined in your mind. ...and my conversing with you in all for nothing. You think you have a point to prove (where men are being taught to dislike women....or...men just dislike women)...and you think that is what I am trying to share....

Which, to be outright honest with you....is NOT what I am doing here.

You are having me trying to defend a stance or a point of view that I am sharing....and it is a stance or a point of view I am not even trying to share.

I do not dislike women Jac...and I honestly thing KS does not dislike women.

...end of story.

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Don't get me wrong Jac, I am not a Bible expert. But I do not ever recall hearing where they teach to dislike women in it.

dunno

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