RE: Deleting my profiles on dating apps and applying for a new job

Hello Mer,

No need to apologize. I understand where you are coming from.

Just to clarify something, I do not condone men sleeping around either...that leads to issues with men as well. The issues it leads to with men are somewhat different with the issues it creates in women sleeping around.

When men sleep around, it is mostly a physical connection that gets created...nothing more. That is with most men. When a woman sleeps around, for the most part, a mental/psychological connection gets created. I am not saying one is better or worse than the other...but they are different is the point I am making.

What the studies have shown, when women sleep with over 5 men, there is a large likelihood they will initiate the divorce in a marriage. If a college educated lady sleeps with over 5 men, there is around a 90% likelihood they will initiate a divorce. These are stats that exist.

So why is that? Why do women initiate divorce on such a high level?

When women sleep with 5+ different men, their ability to pair-bond diminishes greatly. They compare their current partner to all of their previous partners. They convince themselves that they had to "settle" for their current partner...and women are convinced not to settle. Therefore, through time, they become resentful toward their partner and eventually leave them. The more men they have slept with, the more comparisons they can make....the quicker they become resentful for settling. Look up the term "alpha-widow"....this happens so often that they actually came up with a term for it.

This is the main reason why men would want to avoid women with a high "body count." There are many more.

But to be clear, I do not condone anyone sleeping around....men or women.

If you want me to share other reasons why men should avoid women with high "body-counts," let me know. I am happy to share more.

RE: Deleting my profiles on dating apps and applying for a new job

Just a small tip to make a modern relationship have a chance at working....there is no guarantee here either...


The main tip I can offer is, the woman has to be more attracted to you than the man is to her.

There is a lot of information out there that men must now be aware of...remember, we are no longer living in a "traditional" way of relationships. Men need to understand what that all means.

RE: Deleting my profiles on dating apps and applying for a new job

...in addition,

Don't get me started on women who have slept with a large number of men and how it makes them undatable. laugh

One could argue, that the day of the "traditional" relationships are in the middle of being destroyed and a new "traditional" is being born.


So....modern men must be mindful of this when finding a potential partner.


Finding a woman who has not been "changed" to put it politely, is like finding a literal unicorn.

Do some research on what happens to women when they sleep with over 5 different men....and keep in mind, there are women out there who have slept with well over 100 men.

RE: Deleting my profiles on dating apps and applying for a new job

Hello Phil,

I would say, good call. From all the data I have heard about online dating, only the top 5%-ish of men have success on them. The huge majority of women on them all compete for those 5% of men.

Remember the old way of getting a date? The old way of getting a date is for the man to pursue the woman. So with these online dating sites, women are getting 100+ messages a week from men. Put yourself in their shoes. What would you do if you were getting 100+ messages per week? I know what I would do. I would only respond to the top percent of them. That would be the easiest way to deal with that many messages.

Then what happens after responding to those most attractive users...you may go on a date or 10 with those users to satisfy your curiosity of them. But in the meanwhile, you got another 100+ messages....and you see 8 other users that look even more attractive than the previous 10+ dates you just had...so now your curiosity makes you wonder about these new attractive prospects....and the cycle continues.

That is why many women have a huge "body count" of men they have slept with...that is why women have a roster of men they see on a regular basis....and most importantly, regarding your post here....that is why online dating does not work for 90% of men.

So, good call with deleting your profiles.

Men have brought traditional dating practices in to a modern era of technology that no longer works for the majority. Men have to change their dating practices....and update it to the modern environment of dating.
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Men start their own movement...

Hello Grand,

Nice to see you still around.

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Men start their own movement...

Hello Mar,

It is too bad we have moved away from those days.


If you ever get bored one of these days....check out women's dating profiles. I must admit, I have not looked at them lately. But back in the day when I was looking online for a lady...nearly every lady had a list of demands they wanted in a man. There was no sense of appreciation for these characteristics....they were posting them in a way that they were entitled to those qualities. Evidently, these demands have gotten worse. The proof is in the actual data from dating sites...showing that women only go after the top 5 to 10% of men....actually closer to the 5% side. Women want the best of the best.

Why is that?

Is it because they are selfish? Is it because they feel entitled? Is this a woman who can reciprocate love to the lower 50% of guys...or even the lower 70% of guys?

Again, men are just reacting now days to what women have given them.

Believe me, in the end it becomes beautiful for both men and women.

Let me tell you why...(speaking in general here)

Women are publicly exposing what they want in a man and what makes them happy.
Men now know what makes a woman happy.
Men know they cannot make a woman happy.
Through time, women are now discovering what they want in their younger years don't make them happy when older.
Men are now adopting new standards (as mentioned here in this blog).
Women will eventually genuinely learn the woes to their ways.
Women will soften up.
Men will soften up because they react to what women give them.
Happy family life...happier than ever...returns.





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Men start their own movement...

Daph,

In regards to your last paragraph....I think women have over looked men's shortcomings with personality and world outlook if the physical aspects of a man are there and his wallet is deep enough. With this new movement, I believe men can do the same thing.

Daph, don't some ladies look elsewhere in areas that men have shortcomings in when their man is at work? Why cannot men do that too? The woman is now at work and he will be home with plenty of access to whomever. ....just like some ladies.

Daph, do you not remember...a lot of women do not have respect for men now days?

Daph, do you not remember....80% of women initiated divorced?

Daph, do you not remember....most women back in the day were not happy in their marriages?

Why cannot men take over that position?

Why cannot men get divorced and take the woman for half of her money?

You need to remember, men are just reacting to what has been given to them by women.

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Great advice Daph. Men should be seeking these wealthy women in the appropriate places. The other women out there that are not wealthy, according to this new movement, might want to consider stepping up to the plate and making more money...maybe they should get a better education or another job.

Men will need to learn some tips from women on how to vet them.


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Men start their own movement...

Daph....

I think men want educated and working women in their lives. With this new movement, men want to be pampered by their woman. That requires money. The woman needs to make money now to accommodate this new movement. Depending on the man and his standards, a highly educated woman and her high income might actually be needed now. I suspect these new standards in men are going to require them to be driving nice cars and living in the best neighborhoods in a big house.

The money needs to come from somewhere.

Men start their own movement...

Hello Daph,

I am going to respond to in many different posts....just to accurately address each one of your points.

I really do not think men are trying to scam women for anything.

This movement is about men setting standards.
It is also said, that this movement is just a joke if somebody confronts one about it.
It is also said, no woman can complain about these standards because they are the exact standards that women are demanding of men.

So, I don't think it is really anything to do with scamming. I just think men are just tired of being disrespected because of the outlandish number of standards women have toward them...rendering 90% of all men undesirable to women.

Daph, do you think that is okay that 90% of men are not desirable by women?

Men start their own movement...

Hello Mb...

Perhaps you are or perhaps you are not. I don't think O.F. ladies care about the age of any man as long as their check cashes.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

Hey Danni,

I appreciate you absent candidness.

It is nice to see you back.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

Hello Dani,

I appreciate your absent candidness.


Nice to see you back.


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Is the real truth being hidden?

Daph...that would not be the first time I miss a point. laugh


Hello MG,

That makes sense.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

I agree Mermaid...I have actually been studying that lately...with learning what women value most.

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I am sure I will be writing some blogs in regards to this. There is plenty of information online regarding bedroom activities.....in addition, I would highly encourage men to study female attraction and how to facilitate it on a long term basis....

Female attraction is important throughout the WHOLE relationship, just not in the beginning of the relationship.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

Hello Daphne,

Thank you for sharing the results of that one test.

I encourage you to Google, "difference between male brain and female brain."

You will find plenty of differences there.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

Robert....exactly. rolling on the floor laughing


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Is the real truth being hidden?

Hello Suzie,.....I agree, FOMO is something that both men and women experience. However, which gender experiences that feeling stronger? Stronger feelings lead to actual motivation for action.

Is the real truth being hidden?

Thank you Jac...for your information. Some of it might actually be useful. I do agree about paid actors telling people what they want to hear. I think that is very important. Men and women both....must always deduce information with a very critical mind. Yes, there is intentional deception being spread.

The funny thing Jac...that is primarily the purpose of this blog. Let's find out some truth.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

Hello MMH,

True...it is a bit private, especially on a personal level. However, if it is spoke about in a general sense. Instead of making it a personal thing, maybe address it as all women in general.


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Freaky Story

Hello CW,

Maybe you are right...about something wanted blowing up in my face. Dreams use symbolism to convey a message.

No, I did not die. I did wake up a few minutes after being shot.


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Freaky Story

Hello Robert....nice to see you again and you are still around.

Hmmm, did the woman on your date get screwed, or was it you by leaving Robert? laugh


If you are interested Robert in making yourself more regular, just let me know. I think I can come up with some other ways, other than scaring it out of you. laugh


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Freaky Story

Hello MMH,

I have only had 1 dream where I jolted awake....this recent dream was not that one.

The jolted awake one was freaky too.

I was good friends with one of my school teachers. When I moved away after finishing school, one night I had a dream that jolted me straight up in bed...I woke up very concerned over my friend the teacher. The very next morning I found out he passed away that night. That was freaky too.

Thanks for reminding me that some of my dreams actually did relate to real life events. moping


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Freaky Story

Hello W&B,

No, I have never really took a fortune cookie's predictions too seriously. As mentioned with Daphne, it was just the strange nature of the dream and the timing of reading the cookie that was freaky.

Happy you did not attempt to fly the next day laugh ....but I did have a dream I could fly once to, I remember it was fun. :)

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Freaky Story

Hello Daphne,

That is my thought as well, it is just a fortune cookie. It was just the nature of the dream and the timing of opening the cookie. laugh

By the way, I have been making sure my doors are locked. rolling on the floor laughing


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Freaky Story

Yes...I freaked out. laugh

Is the real truth being hidden?

Hello Grape,

Well....I think you are telling the truth, but it is only a partial truth. There is more to it, a little more complicated than that.

...coming from a male here, not female. laugh


If you want me to elaborate more, I would be more than happy to.

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Is the real truth being hidden?

Fair enough Daphne. Thank you.

Is the real truth being hidden?

By the way, I am not saying there is anything wrong with a woman using her feelings to make decisions.

They are wired that way since caveman days. It is necessary for them to do so for their survival. Women are survival creatures. They need to use their feeling/intuition. Most of the time they are right.

I only point this out the display to people that men and women make decisions differently.

Is the real truth being hidden?

You probably wouldn't want to know what is said about women who have tattoos.

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