If you ever get bored one of these days....check out women's dating profiles. I must admit, I have not looked at them lately. But back in the day when I was looking online for a lady...nearly every lady had a list of demands they wanted in a man. There was no sense of appreciation for these characteristics....they were posting them in a way that they were entitled to those qualities. Evidently, these demands have gotten worse. The proof is in the actual data from dating sites...showing that women only go after the top 5 to 10% of men....actually closer to the 5% side. Women want the best of the best.
Why is that?
Is it because they are selfish? Is it because they feel entitled? Is this a woman who can reciprocate love to the lower 50% of guys...or even the lower 70% of guys?
Again, men are just reacting now days to what women have given them.
Believe me, in the end it becomes beautiful for both men and women.
Let me tell you why...(speaking in general here)
Women are publicly exposing what they want in a man and what makes them happy. Men now know what makes a woman happy. Men know they cannot make a woman happy. Through time, women are now discovering what they want in their younger years don't make them happy when older. Men are now adopting new standards (as mentioned here in this blog). Women will eventually genuinely learn the woes to their ways. Women will soften up. Men will soften up because they react to what women give them. Happy family life...happier than ever...returns.
In regards to your last paragraph....I think women have over looked men's shortcomings with personality and world outlook if the physical aspects of a man are there and his wallet is deep enough. With this new movement, I believe men can do the same thing.
Daph, don't some ladies look elsewhere in areas that men have shortcomings in when their man is at work? Why cannot men do that too? The woman is now at work and he will be home with plenty of access to whomever. ....just like some ladies.
Daph, do you not remember...a lot of women do not have respect for men now days?
Daph, do you not remember....80% of women initiated divorced?
Daph, do you not remember....most women back in the day were not happy in their marriages?
Why cannot men take over that position?
Why cannot men get divorced and take the woman for half of her money?
You need to remember, men are just reacting to what has been given to them by women.
Great advice Daph. Men should be seeking these wealthy women in the appropriate places. The other women out there that are not wealthy, according to this new movement, might want to consider stepping up to the plate and making more money...maybe they should get a better education or another job.
Men will need to learn some tips from women on how to vet them.
I think men want educated and working women in their lives. With this new movement, men want to be pampered by their woman. That requires money. The woman needs to make money now to accommodate this new movement. Depending on the man and his standards, a highly educated woman and her high income might actually be needed now. I suspect these new standards in men are going to require them to be driving nice cars and living in the best neighborhoods in a big house.
I am going to respond to in many different posts....just to accurately address each one of your points.
I really do not think men are trying to scam women for anything.
This movement is about men setting standards. It is also said, that this movement is just a joke if somebody confronts one about it. It is also said, no woman can complain about these standards because they are the exact standards that women are demanding of men.
So, I don't think it is really anything to do with scamming. I just think men are just tired of being disrespected because of the outlandish number of standards women have toward them...rendering 90% of all men undesirable to women.
Daph, do you think that is okay that 90% of men are not desirable by women?
I agree Mermaid...I have actually been studying that lately...with learning what women value most.
I am sure I will be writing some blogs in regards to this. There is plenty of information online regarding bedroom activities.....in addition, I would highly encourage men to study female attraction and how to facilitate it on a long term basis....
Female attraction is important throughout the WHOLE relationship, just not in the beginning of the relationship.
Hello Suzie,.....I agree, FOMO is something that both men and women experience. However, which gender experiences that feeling stronger? Stronger feelings lead to actual motivation for action.
Thank you Jac...for your information. Some of it might actually be useful. I do agree about paid actors telling people what they want to hear. I think that is very important. Men and women both....must always deduce information with a very critical mind. Yes, there is intentional deception being spread.
The funny thing Jac...that is primarily the purpose of this blog. Let's find out some truth.
True...it is a bit private, especially on a personal level. However, if it is spoke about in a general sense. Instead of making it a personal thing, maybe address it as all women in general.
Hello Robert....nice to see you again and you are still around.
Hmmm, did the woman on your date get screwed, or was it you by leaving Robert?
If you are interested Robert in making yourself more regular, just let me know. I think I can come up with some other ways, other than scaring it out of you.
I have only had 1 dream where I jolted awake....this recent dream was not that one.
The jolted awake one was freaky too.
I was good friends with one of my school teachers. When I moved away after finishing school, one night I had a dream that jolted me straight up in bed...I woke up very concerned over my friend the teacher. The very next morning I found out he passed away that night. That was freaky too.
Thanks for reminding me that some of my dreams actually did relate to real life events.
No, I have never really took a fortune cookie's predictions too seriously. As mentioned with Daphne, it was just the strange nature of the dream and the timing of reading the cookie that was freaky.
Happy you did not attempt to fly the next day ....but I did have a dream I could fly once to, I remember it was fun. :)
By the way, I am not saying there is anything wrong with a woman using her feelings to make decisions.
They are wired that way since caveman days. It is necessary for them to do so for their survival. Women are survival creatures. They need to use their feeling/intuition. Most of the time they are right.
I only point this out the display to people that men and women make decisions differently.
However, one could argue that women enjoy being objectified (especially the highly attractive ones). Believe it or not, many other women objectify women just as much as many men do. However, when some of those many women objectify other women, it is viewed as competition. But it is also said today, that 50% of women are bis*xual...so those women are also objectifying them on a s*xual nature as well.
But you are absolutely correct about relationships becoming more transactional today.
I would advise that men guard their feelings and emotions toward a women they believe they love.
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I would advise that women not sleep with men until they are certain the man is very serious with having a relationship with them.
But you are failing to take into consideration the woman that has her social media accounts still up and running and what she does when the guy who piped her down good in her past contacts her to meet up again...while she is in a relationship.
I should say spot on with your initial comment....
The FOMO comment I do not agree with. I am just being open and non-biased with everything I write. I have yet to have anyone....at all....bring up any points where I was outright wrong with anything I wrote. In fact, I welcome it. I enjoy learning and becoming a better human.
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