why do people?

agree with you ..
for this i'm a "little dreamer" , at least i can live a bit of what i wish ,
wish you the best

Since having first hand experience with this, people generally hurt others because they are disastisfied with their own existence and in many cases suffer from low self esteem so they take it out on the ones closest to them and say they are sorry later. The key factor is that they know the person they hurt will take them back and continue to take their grief. It is a release for them and a means to bolster what they lack within themselves by draining you of your life's energy. It is not real love, but a real need that makes them want you. Love should be about purity from the heart and not the ego.

People leave inspite of how much you want them and hurt over them because they are out to find what it greener on the other side of the fence. It may take them months to figure out that no one else wants them so they will return to the one thing they know can be relied upon, you. You will take them back unconditionally.

True love never hurts. It grows deeper with each day and each year. It is too easy for some to say "I love you" because they can play with your emotions and feed off your energy. It would be like guy having a secret affair and then coming back to you when it doesn't work out and say, "Oh she meant nothing to me." Apparently she meant enough for them to go to them in the first place and had things turned out differently, they would have remained with that other person.

There is nothing wrong with dreaming of a true love. The key is to not settle for anything less than what you want. That person will be out there and it takes time and patience to find them even in the real world. I have settled and learned some hard lessons, but I did learn that no matter what, there are worse things than being alone. Be true to yourself first because you are all you have.

Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

well said simba

it sounds to me that someone hurt you bad, im not a stranger to the pain...all i can say is good luck, and its always darkest before the dawn. best wishes