Will i ever find him

This is one subject that seems to be shared by all of us world wide. And I think modern times and changes in attitude and in dating freedoms and the loosening up of committment issues have a lot to do with many people being alone or on their own. While many people choose to have total independence and want to share their life with someone only on a casual basis, many want the committment. Its tough, no doubt.

I can only say to you, dont give up - NEVER give up. It just simply may not be your time and I have learned in life that timing seems to be everything. Take a deep breath and try to be patient.

I think you have to learn to be happy yourself first. Its a choice a concious decision. You need to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else. You may not be able to change all the things you feel are necessary to change at once. Start gradually even by just smiling tomorrow and deciding not to get down beet. Even if things dont seem to change quickly the idea that you are making an effort you will find is an uplifting experience. So dry your tears after all tomorrow is another day!

Have you been looking in my direction?????....