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Is marriage a tomb of love?

My closest friend called me last night and was crying on the phone because of her husband's abuse. Today she sent me a text message to say: they already signed on the letter to apply for divorce.

They were in love for 10 years before getting married last year. I was the witness for most of the struggles they were been through...It was so sweet when they were students and poor. Now he opens up his own company, the business is running good; the wife is working as a Human Resources Manager for an international company in Vietnam and they can afford a comfortable life...

How they can behave in such a way to each other? Where is the love gone? All the good memories and 11 years old love can't get them back?

Is it true that love just survives when it is half-fulled? Is it true that marriage is a tomb of love???
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how1e
how1e●NRW, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany
Oct 7, 2009●7 Blogs●346 Comments
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Well maybe "tomb" is not the right word, as it suggests you are already dead when you go into it. How about "cage", like in a zoo ?
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Kasih
Kasih●Jakarta, Indonesia
Oct 7, 2009●102 Blogs●1,482 Comments
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Haha 2 guys says yes but i would have to say no, tomb or cage is not the matching words . Marriage should start from the word COMMITMENT. So you choose to be married its a two way vows for better or worse I do! . . . But some people want the better not the worse, and one thing to add here PEOPLE DO CHANGE AND GROW so the best way to be married is to commit to grow together . . .
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RDM59
RDM59●Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK
Oct 7, 2009●299 Comments
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Married or not a couple can grow apart with time rather than the initial desire of that loving bond getting stronger and stronger.
People can change !!!
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Natália
Natália●Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Oct 10, 2009●3 Comments
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Where has the love gone? It's gone where it had to go: people change, love naturally goes somewhere else, seeking other purposes, there's no turning back, that's all. But I wouldn't say marriage is to blame.

I believe in happy marriages, happy married people - and happy single people when it is better to stay single than unhappily married. "The pursuit of happiness", that's what it's called.

But, strangely (to me), there are married couples who can live together for the rest of their lives no matter what... for the weirdest reasons... even after love "has gone somewhere else". Would you "recommend" this type of marriage?
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reb56
reb56●carthage, Missouri USA
Oct 19, 2009●230 Comments
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dont,have any luck,either way,so good luck,maybe some are,born to be alone?
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