Apprehensive and hesitant !!

hie all...

Am sure all of us who are onto this site or some other social networking site surely would have noticed that its not at all easy to make new frnds and acquittance's... thou we come across lots of blogs and forums which keep indicating the users to hang onn and keep trying to make frnds and find THE RIGHT ONE"
but will we ever understand why we as human beings are so hesitant and suspicious towards someone new ? have we ever wondered why we don't trust others easily, why we are apprehensive to replying to mails and other communications ?

Am sure we all would have wondered on lot of such questions and am sure all this fear is probably because we at some point in our lives were hurt by
-- ppl who broke our trust, by ppl who played with our emotions, by ppl who hurt us and our feelings....

but i still feel its so unfair that all of us become so hesitant and apprehensive, let us be open to love and friendship; its worth going thru all the pains and emotional damage just to get that one genuine frnd or a perfect soul mate"

Imagine what this world would have been if we were less judgmental and less apprehensive'. Lets try being fearless and let our hands meet the hands of the other, and let our eyes dive into the hearts of other... lets give us a chance !!!
lets try.
cya'