is love real or i made up emotion?

I am the one who want to have someone ..... who i can see first person when i open my eyes when i wake up and he will be the last person when i close my eyes! No one know may be he still walking in my dream!

Your right it's not easy. But if you focus more on making yourself happy and focusing on bettering yourself for the next relationship by reading books and just trying to enjoy life for yourself it get's easier. Take long walks, enjoy nature, go hiking, biking and just get busy. Sit back and visualize yourself with someone else and how you will be different and how she will be different this next time around. Believe within yourself there will be a next time around.

Work on building your inner strength and knowledge. Think about all those concepts in relationships that all the experts are talking about, relate that to some of your past experiences and prepare yourself for picking the right woman and develop the skills to make the next one a real success.

I am in the middle of a divorce storm, but my heart is calm, my emotions are a little bit volatile, because of the holidays, but for the most part, I am happy with myself and no one is going to ruin me or get the best of me.

I use the new age concepts of the POWER OF NOW and the LAWS OF ATTRACTION. I wake up each morning thanking God for my two girls and how beautiful they are as human beings. I thank God for all those that interact and enrich my life both online and off. I thank God for my family and friends. Then I go about my day reflecting and pondering relationship concepts while thinking I ALREADY HAVE SOMEONE, she just hasn't arrived or revealed herself yet.

What has this done for me so far? I have meet, although strictly platonic online pen pals, the most intelligent, honest, warm, and understanding women in my entire life. A big difference from my usual attraction of the insecure, brainless, heartless, and manipulating types. After all, you can't love anyone unless you love yourself and you can't expect someone else to always make you happy, it has to come from within yourself.

Good luck and God bless!!

I think love is very much real, and it is something that everyone does want, even those who say they don't. It is hard to deal with the idea of being 'alone' but for everyone, telling themselves to get over it, does not work. It's a hard thing to sit and wonder why this person or that person is happy, and has someone and you don't. Then you really do question, do I deserve to be happy? Will I ever have that? Truthfully, I don't think anyone really knows for sure if they will or will not have that. I hope that I do someday, I know that I have been in-love before, but still search for that person who feels the same for me and won't just walk away.

I never punch myself in the face.
Just other people.
Then I feel ever so much the better.

I think humans, as social beings are lost when we cannot feel connection to another.
And you are very right. At some point in time we are all feeling alone and miserable.
I suppose not giving up, but somehow maintaining a positive outlook is the way to go.

And pity parties are never fun. Everyone just sits on the couch eating doritos and grumbling.

TO ME WE HAVE TO BE HAPPY WHERE WE ARE RIGHT NOW IN OUR LIFE, BE HAPPY WITH ONES SELF BEFORE ANY ONE CAN ENTER INTO OUR WORLD. LONELY YES . IT WILL COME TO US ALL ONE DAY.

TO LOVE AND BE LOVED I GUESS IS EVERY ONES DREAM IN THE FUTURE.
CHEERS TO ALL MARGO.