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May 25, 2010 10:38 PM CST The Couger
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
venusenvy: Me too Hi Kid



Hi Venusbouquet

grin
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May 25, 2010 10:43 PM CST The Couger
Venusruled
VenusruledVenusruledGolden, Colorado USA816 Posts
Who thought that whole cougar thing up anyway? It is fascinating to me when a fad starts and takes off like this one. Wouldn't it be fun to know that you were the first to name something? Of course, it would be great if it was something worthwhile and not crap...
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May 25, 2010 10:44 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Venusruled: Who thought that whole cougar thing up anyway? It is fascinating to me when a fad starts and takes off like this one. Wouldn't it be fun to know that you were the first to name something? Of course, it would be great if it was something worthwhile and not crap...
well I didn't but have heard of it.not calling anyone anything just looking and age don't matter to me.
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May 25, 2010 10:51 PM CST The Couger
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Im just making a point about the whole 'cougar" thingy...Im one lady who has never been attracted to younger guys...mucho trabajo man wine
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May 25, 2010 10:53 PM CST The Couger
Venusruled
VenusruledVenusruledGolden, Colorado USA816 Posts
venusenvy: Im just making a point about the whole 'cougar" thingy...Im one lady who has never been attracted to younger guys...mucho trabajo man


I'm with you, Ven! There are so many things about older men that are fascinating! Is it that they are truly more appreciative of women?
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May 25, 2010 10:54 PM CST The Couger
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
snowbunnie4U: WOW..u kind of missed my entire point....it seems..
I am not the one who posted a thread with that "label"..And, I am clearly stating that I don't like that label or many others...So, what was the meaning of your response to mine..? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm



Your entire post is written with "I" and "we", as though you accepted it to be what it is, (although maybe didn't like), in as far as the labels and connotations described throughout the entire thread are concerned.

Your post just happened to touch on most of the issues associated with the term "cougar" and differing ages dating, so it was the most convenient to quote.

Don't take it as me picking on you in specific, but if you want to see things change, don't repeat it as if it were an accepted norm for people see it as a bad thing, labels and all.

bouquet
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May 25, 2010 10:56 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
kidatheart: Your entire post is written with "I" and "we", as though you accepted it to be what it is, (although maybe didn't like), in as far as the labels and connotations described throughout the entire thread are concerned.

Your post just happened to touch on most of the issues associated with the term "cougar" and differing ages dating, so it was the most convenient to quote.

Don't take it as me picking on you in specific, but if you want to see things change, don't repeat it as if it were an accepted norm for people see it as a bad thing, labels and all.
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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May 25, 2010 10:59 PM CST The Couger
Venusruled
VenusruledVenusruledGolden, Colorado USA816 Posts
loverboy690: some of us are like me


I know you are younger, but I would like to call you Loverman, is that okay?smitten
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May 25, 2010 10:59 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
venusenvy: Not as much I dont think. maybe older men are more open to experiment? Not as hung on convention. I mean I like a man that can handle me...and Im a lapful ...not someone I have to teach yaknow?
doesn't this fall under double standerds?
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May 25, 2010 11:00 PM CST The Couger
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think it falls under preference wine
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May 25, 2010 11:00 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Venusruled: I know you are younger, but I would like to call you Loverman, is that okay?
sure names don't bother me
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May 25, 2010 11:02 PM CST The Couger
Venusruled
VenusruledVenusruledGolden, Colorado USA816 Posts
venusenvy: I think it falls under preference


I think, in general, both genders feel freer after the marriage and kid thing is out of the way. It is all about fun after that!!dancing
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May 25, 2010 11:03 PM CST The Couger
CherryBlossom73
CherryBlossom73CherryBlossom73Los Angeles, California USA1 Threads 307 Posts
NO...lol. I think the formula there is sticking to one's own age group.
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May 25, 2010 11:05 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Venusruled: Maybe just labels again...if it feels good it is good by me!!
agreedthumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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May 25, 2010 11:06 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
CherryBlossom73: NO...lol. I think the formula there is sticking to one's own age group.
mabey but I feel true feelings are more imprtant than age factor
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May 25, 2010 11:09 PM CST The Couger
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
I have found it is the young pups that do the chasing, not the other way around, for the most part. Don't mind....
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May 25, 2010 11:11 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Christmas1: I have found it is the young pups that do the chasing, not the other way around, for the most part. Don't mind....
oh but by the way it sounds there's some kittins doing the chasing to.
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May 25, 2010 11:11 PM CST The Couger
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
kidatheart: Your entire post is written with "I" and "we", as though you accepted it to be what it is, (although maybe didn't like), in as far as the labels and connotations described throughout the entire thread are concerned.

Your post just happened to touch on most of the issues associated with the term "cougar" and differing ages dating, so it was the most convenient to quote.

Don't take it as me picking on you in specific, but if you want to see things change, don't repeat it as if it were an accepted norm for people see it as a bad thing, labels and all.


Maybe there is someone out there who got what i meantfrustrated ...But, you still missed it, in my opinion.
Yes it was "I", cos it is "my" take on it, and I said that.
The poster was asking for "opinons", right? This is my opinion.
This is what i trully feel in my heart and mind about the subject. And, I did say that a 10 year difference was enough of an age diference, and later on...others said the same. I am not perpetuating any dogma of stereotypes here. The stereotypes already exist..C'mon..be realistic. I guess u have to be a woman to understand, and then again...maybe not all women would agree either. But, I still stand by what i said. Thank you for responding again.
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May 25, 2010 11:13 PM CST The Couger
CherryBlossom73
CherryBlossom73CherryBlossom73Los Angeles, California USA1 Threads 307 Posts
loverboy690: mabey but I feel true feelings are more imprtant than age factor


Different strokes for different .....rolling on the floor laughing confused

cheers
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May 25, 2010 11:15 PM CST The Couger
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
CherryBlossom73: Different strokes for different .....
that was a awsome show.so what would your age range be then?
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