O and by the way...I have found that it is the younger men putting the chase on the middle aged women.....(my experience and some other women's anyway). Maybe they are the "cougars"... ...and not the other way around... Food for thought.. (my bad..comming from one who hates he label)...
snowbunnie4U: Maybe there is someone out there who got what i meant ...But, you still missed it, in my opinion. Yes it was "I", cos it is "my" take on it, and I said that. The poster was asking for "opinons", right? This is my opinion. This is what i trully feel in my heart and mind about the subject. And, I did say that a 10 year difference was enough of an age diference, and later on...others said the same. I am not perpetuating any dogma of stereotypes here. The stereotypes already exist..C'mon..be realistic. I guess u have to be a woman to understand, and then again...maybe not all women would agree either. But, I still stand by what i said. Thank you for responding again.
Yes, it's your opinion, you believe it to be true, so you repeat it, and you prepetuate it, so on it goes. What's so difficult to understand?
Stereotypes and dogma only exist, if people actually believe them.
What's with the "have to be a woman to understand" comment?
No baby, me not full of it, a lot of young young men have contacted me (have seen various women say the same thing on CS). I usually block and delete. There are some very sweet young pups and we have conversations about nothing really. I tell them, find a woman your own age, I usually just give them my perspective on things.
Christmas1: No baby, me not full of it, a lot of young young men have contacted me (have seen various women say the same thing on CS). I usually block and delete. There are some very sweet young pups and we have conversations about nothing really. I tell them, find a woman your own age, I usually just give them my perspective on things.
I have been there it's better just to tell them better luck else where no feelings hurt and no leading on everybody takes things differently
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
loverboy690: Are middleaged women meant for younger guys?
No i personally think middle aged women are better with guys their own age. As the woman gets older, the guy looks for someone younger. I like guys i have something in common with, just my opinion.
why is it people say age don't matter but then become hippocrits and say they should be with people there own age instead of looking for the one they belong with?
Personally they don't interest in the least ... get a little closer to my age +/-10 yrs and I may take an look.
Biggest issue I find is the maturity level and that seems to come with time and experience. Alas though, there are many who despite their age, don't seem to have evolved.
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Food for thought.. (my bad..comming from one who hates he label)...