RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Shirley49WV: I think we are sisters
If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.
RobbieM: If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.
Men and women are welcome, all are cabbages
ok now please explain to me Robbie what is a cabbage
Mercedes1: I was going to post this awhile ago and I didnt...
Something niggled at me this morning and Im so glad I have posted it now and Dru all your mates are here for you so take this time to reach out to your mates
Thank you, Mercedes. Funny, those feelings we get, eh?
RobbieM: If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.
slim1977: it truly depends on the person you are, me it makes me stronger, wiser, and better. the lingth is imaterial. I concider there to be two typs of people the 1. get busy living and 2. the get busy dying. I mean this in no way to offend anyone but we can eather sulk in our hardships what ever they may be, or grow from them and move on with life, as the saying goes life is not all a bed of roses
You have certainly grown from yours and I am very proud of you Slim!
hopefloats: Just know that I say what I mean. And mean what I say. ANY time sis, I'm here.
Thank you, Hope. And I know you mean it. The support from my friends here while I climb out of this, just knowing I have that friendship and support, is why I reached out during this thread. I need it now. And prayers/energy.
One thing I've learned is not to be so stubborn and proud and think I need to go through things alone. Even if I don't give out the details, just knowing I have the friendship and support helps. A lot.
I won't go into great detail but all the stuff I went through in the last couple yrs helped make me to be more humble,much stronger,more patient, wiser and growup.
druidess6308: Thank you, Hope. And I know you mean it. The support from my friends here while I climb out of this, just knowing I have that friendship and support, is why I reached out during this thread. I need it now. And prayers/energy.
One thing I've learned is not to be so stubborn and proud and think I need to go through things alone. Even if I don't give out the details, just knowing I have the friendship and support helps. A lot.
If I may be so bold Dru, I could tell for the past little bit now that something has been bothering you. I just didn't want to seem nosey in asking. You have my thoughts/prayers/positive energy sis. And much more if need be.
hopefloats: If I may be so bold Dru, I could tell for the past little bit now that something has been bothering you. I just didn't want to seem nosey in asking. You have my thoughts/prayers/positive energy sis. And much more if need be.
I'm in for the group hug, too, btw.
Thank you, Merky. And I've been trying hard not to let it show. To just be me. For right now, all I ask is to have my positive energy backed up. I've always been open about my past hardships, but closed about my present ones. I've always been one to deal with it alone. Call it pride, or stubbornness. So, this is a lesson that I'm taking out of this...I don't need to do that. I, too, can lean on others for support and help. I learned that earlier this year as I dealt with anniversaries. It hasn't been easy to do, but it has made my hard times easier.
somechick: I won't go into great detail but all the stuff I went through in the last couple yrs helped make me to be more humble,much stronger,more patient, wiser and growup.
I know the feeling, Anna. That's what I'm doing, too...growing up. Painful, but necessary, process.
Mercedes1: Hardship---Does it make you: Better? Stronger? Bitter? Frustrated? Angry? Exhausted? Sleepless?
Where does hardship take you to? Does it matter the type of hardship? Does it matter the length of the hardship?
I think all of those except bitter...frustrated...angry...exhausted and sleepless while I am going through some hardship....and better..stronger and a much more enlightened person when I am done...and no it doesn't matter how big or how small...however the bigger the hardship the more lessons to learn....
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If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.
Men and women are welcome, all are cabbages