Hardship...End Result! ( Archived) (47)

Mar 6, 2009 8:21 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
Shirley49WV: I think we are sisters


If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.

Men and women are welcome, all are cabbages laugh
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Mar 6, 2009 8:21 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
I am always here for you Dru. comfort hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:24 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
donnalou
donnaloudonnalouaccord, New York USA4 Threads 22 Posts
iagree with u i have been there and i have all of those
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Mar 6, 2009 8:24 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
RobbieM: If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.

Men and women are welcome, all are cabbages


ok now please explain to me Robbie what is a cabbagedunno blushing
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Mar 6, 2009 8:26 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
druidess6308: Thank you, Hope.



Just know that I say what I mean. And mean what I say. ANY time sis, I'm here.professor
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Mar 6, 2009 8:26 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Mercedes1: I was going to post this awhile ago and I didnt...

Something niggled at me this morning and Im so glad I have posted it now and Dru all your mates are here for you so take this time to reach out to your mates


Thank you, Mercedes. Funny, those feelings we get, eh? hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:27 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Shirley49WV: ok now please explain to me Robbie what is a cabbage



Shirley, you aren't alone. I was wondering the same thing.professor
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Mar 6, 2009 8:27 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
RobbieM: If there's a sisterhood out there i am going to do a "cabbage fan club" where anyone who understands my humour and laughs i will encourage to add me as a fan/friend and then i shall see how many people are of free mind in here.

Men and women are welcome, all are cabbages
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Add me to the cabbage list, Robbie!
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Mar 6, 2009 8:27 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Shirley49WV: I am always here for you Dru.


Thank you, Shirley. hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:28 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
webbs
webbswebbsLexington, Michigan USA3 Threads 283 Posts
slim1977: it truly depends on the person you are, me it makes me stronger, wiser, and better. the lingth is imaterial. I concider there to be two typs of people the 1. get busy living and 2. the get busy dying. I mean this in no way to offend anyone but we can eather sulk in our hardships what ever they may be, or grow from them and move on with life, as the saying goes life is not all a bed of roses


You have certainly grown from yours and I am very proud of you Slim!

hug

You've helped me more than you can ever know!

comfort
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Mar 6, 2009 8:32 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hopefloats: Just know that I say what I mean. And mean what I say. ANY time sis, I'm here.


Thank you, Hope. And I know you mean it. The support from my friends here while I climb out of this, just knowing I have that friendship and support, is why I reached out during this thread. I need it now. And prayers/energy. hug

One thing I've learned is not to be so stubborn and proud and think I need to go through things alone. Even if I don't give out the details, just knowing I have the friendship and support helps. A lot. hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:34 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
webbs: You have certainly grown from yours and I am very proud of you Slim!



You've helped me more than you can ever know!



thankyou hug wine
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Mar 6, 2009 8:35 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
I won't go into great detail but all the stuff I went through in the last couple yrs helped make me to be more humble,much stronger,more patient, wiser and growup.
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Mar 6, 2009 8:36 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
druidess6308: Thank you, Hope. And I know you mean it. The support from my friends here while I climb out of this, just knowing I have that friendship and support, is why I reached out during this thread. I need it now. And prayers/energy.

One thing I've learned is not to be so stubborn and proud and think I need to go through things alone. Even if I don't give out the details, just knowing I have the friendship and support helps. A lot.



If I may be so bold Dru, I could tell for the past little bit now that something has been bothering you. I just didn't want to seem nosey in asking. You have my thoughts/prayers/positive energy sis. And much more if need be.hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:37 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Okay, I think we all need a group hug here.
group hug group hug group hug group hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:39 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
hopefloats: Shirley, you aren't alone. I was wondering the same thing.


Glad I am not alone....I'm thinking Cabbage Patch Dolls, heads of cabbage....laugh

Dru what are we missing here.confused
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Mar 6, 2009 8:49 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
hopefloats: If I may be so bold Dru, I could tell for the past little bit now that something has been bothering you. I just didn't want to seem nosey in asking. You have my thoughts/prayers/positive energy sis. And much more if need be.


group hug I'm in for the group hug, too, btw. laugh

Thank you, Merky. And I've been trying hard not to let it show. To just be me. For right now, all I ask is to have my positive energy backed up. I've always been open about my past hardships, but closed about my present ones. I've always been one to deal with it alone. Call it pride, or stubbornness. So, this is a lesson that I'm taking out of this...I don't need to do that. I, too, can lean on others for support and help. I learned that earlier this year as I dealt with anniversaries. It hasn't been easy to do, but it has made my hard times easier. hug
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Mar 6, 2009 8:51 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Shirley49WV: Glad I am not alone....I'm thinking Cabbage Patch Dolls, heads of cabbage....

Dru what are we missing here.
A cabbage is a vegetable, right? Yet one with fiber, and substance, and kind of looks like a person's head. I just know he cracks me up with it. dunno laugh
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Mar 6, 2009 9:24 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
somechick: I won't go into great detail but all the stuff I went through in the last couple yrs helped make me to be more humble,much stronger,more patient, wiser and growup.


I know the feeling, Anna. That's what I'm doing, too...growing up. Painful, but necessary, process. laugh hug
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Mar 6, 2009 9:27 PM CST Hardship...End Result!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Mercedes1: Hardship---Does it make you:
Better?
Stronger?
Bitter?
Frustrated?
Angry?
Exhausted?
Sleepless?

Where does hardship take you to? Does it matter the type of hardship? Does it matter the length of the hardship?


I think all of those except bitter...frustrated...angry...exhausted and sleepless while I am going through some hardship....and better..stronger and a much more enlightened person when I am done...and no it doesn't matter how big or how small...however the bigger the hardship the more lessons to learn....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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