druidess6308: Yes, we do. And some people just never can do it without being negative, can they?
I find it interesting that the ones who get the most feeling of attack for their opinions are the ones who state the most negative opinions, and then wonder why very few agree with them. Just an observation I've made in 5-6 months of being on the forums.
mylifewithu: Great thread Shelly. That is what I am looking for a man with real strength. I beleive the man I am now seeing has most all of those great qualities, Now will see if he wants to see me again.
I hope so, Lela! Awesome! Been wondering where you've been lately.
maybesoon: its it funny, i dont have a degree in anything, and i see from my forum remarks here, you all have hit the same subject, "I'm not a follower" "I'm follow no one"..
Did I hit on something here, as you all seem to think you are individuals here, but you all say the same thing...
and another forum comments here, "do we see it as a "pack" after the kill. yes it comes out like that!!! as others have seen it too...
So isn't that saying something...and another comment here, is that someone said, "dont they know can see it" "well they WRONG"
WELL WE SEE THE SAME THING..
Well isn't it shocking that more than one person on an international forum might be their own people...I said I am neither a leader or follower...I do my own thing and go my own way...and have my own opinions...but I still can agree or disagree with someone elses...simply because I think the same wayyyyyyy....and yes there will be more than one person on an international forum who thinks the same way also....
Hugz_n_Kissez: I have seen a lot of women bashing going on here lately...also threads like...Why do nice guys finish last???....Do women like bad boys and not nice guys??? etc. etc. etc...So I am here to tell you just how it is...especially the ones who think they need to control or be above a woman some how:The key is called strength...REAL strength..NOT physical strength and this is what it is.....REAL STRENGTH...will stand beside his partner not above or below her....
REAL STRENGTH...will be there to support his partner through all of life's trials and tribulations....not run the other way...
REAL STRENGTH...allows their partner to be who they are and loves them just the way they are....it has no need to control the way act or what they say....
REAL STRENGTH....opens up his heart 100% to his partner and isn't afraid to be vulnerable....it has no need to hide....
REAL STRENGTH...uplifts it does not tear down....it has no need to feel superior....
REAL STRENGTH....can be counted on no matter what...it has no need to check timetables or calendars for availability...
REAL STRENGTH....says I love you and means it...it has no need to be false and misleading....
REAL STRENGTH....appreciates and values their partner...it has no need to hurt her or make her feel less than....
REAL STRENGTH...thinks about what he can give...he has no need to think about what he can get....
REAL STRENGTH....lends a helping hand simply because...it has no need to discriminate and say that's not my job...
REAL STRENGTH....wants to see their partner happy....it has no need to cause strife and upset...
REAL STRENGTH....has depth and substance...it has no need to be superficial....
REAL STRENGTH....shows kindness...it has no need to be unkind...
REAL STRENGTH...shows feelings and emotions simply because they are human and makes an effort to understand their partners...it has no need to hide them and pretend they aren't there....Now for all you men who think machoness...control and superiority shows some kind of strength....you're wrong...it shows weakness....because at the first sign of any of the above...you run...because you simply don't have what it takes...REAL WOMEN...want men with real strength...not a good likeness of it...because we possess the same real strength...
now i'm not woman bashing here.......but i try to live by this and guess what.....my profile has cobbweb's on it from lack of attention.......and to boot 95% of the women i've met on here run when they find out i'm...(a nice guy).....but it's all good.sometimes makes for a good laugh...on the replies i get.. BUT again i am not and will not woman bash....thanks for your time, and come again......
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well isn't it shocking that more than one person on an international forum might be their own people...I said I am neither a leader or follower...I do my own thing and go my own way...and have my own opinions...but I still can agree or disagree with someone elses...simply because I think the same wayyyyyyy....and yes there will be more than one person on an international forum who thinks the same way also....
Oh noooooooo Hunn...if we agreed...we'd be called mindless or a pack.
mylifewithu: Thanks Dru!! I have been busy cleaning house for my company and talking on the phone for hours. And finally got to spend some time with my new man.
Glad to hear it, sweetie. 'Bout time someone realized what a treasure you are!
Charli15695: Oh noooooooo Hunn...if we agreed...we'd be called mindless or a pack.
Heaven forbid there are people on here that tend to think alike and agree with each other...and sometimes even form friendships. Dang...something must be wrong with that picture! After all, there are thousands of members on this site, and hundreds who participate in the forums at different times. Wow.
druidess6308: Yes, we do. And some people just never can do it without being negative, can they?
I find it interesting that the ones who get the most feeling of attack for their opinions are the ones who state the most negative opinions, and then wonder why very few agree with them. Just an observation I've made in 5-6 months of being on the forums.
its a opinion, not something negative, just as you have a opinion here, even if its a negative one!!!
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes it does...but people always quote the post they are replying to...so I don't have a problem with it.... Don't sweat the small stuff...
maybesoon: its a opinion, not something negative, just as you have a opinion here, even if its a negative one!!!
Yes, and each has a right to theirs. However, if the majority disagree with it, it doesn't mean a "pack attack"...it just means that most disagree with the stated negative opinion and chose to respond to it. Some do so positively, some do so negatively...but most will respond to the negative opinions since they are such a minority, and disagree with them. We have that right, too.
If I state a negative opinion on a subject, and a bunch of people disagree with me, I don't assume I've been attacked. I actually read what's posted in response and wonder if maybe my opinion does need to change...that maybe I need to evaluate my stance again. I consider it constructive criticism. And yes, I have come to see things in a different light, and grown, because of this...and not lost who I am. I have also held to my beliefs because upon evaluation I found that I truly felt that way, even if it went against the "popular" opinion on the subject.
rodolpho: Thats because if people keep quoting entire pages the thread becomes unreadable. polar from canada
It's easier for us to follow the conversations and threads if everyone does quote the post that they're responding to...makes it much easier to read it all. JMO.
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just you wait...knickers..