honesty (49)
alway's honest my dear kizzy
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kizzy27: Is honesty the best policy?
I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy
I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy
I believe in being honest. Where are the other people that are?
I'm usually honest but I don't think it gets you anywhere
kizzy27: Is honesty the best policy?
I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy
I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy
you know how it goes kizz
HONESTY!!!! top priority
take a rest but don't take too farkin long 
yep, I agree with the others...honesty is always the way to go. If people are gonna pre-judge on the fact you're just being honest, they'll soon realise they were wrong to have judged you in the first place....that's when you can stick it to 'em
yes but by being honest about everything do you find that some say oh well im not even gonna test those waters ...
given that using this medium we all get to ask alot of personal questions in the view of getting to know someone..
then to be judged by our honest responces well it hurts , it has me anyway, perhaps im just getting fragile maybe i should just suck it up toughen up but seems the honesty isnt always wise ...initially
given that using this medium we all get to ask alot of personal questions in the view of getting to know someone..
then to be judged by our honest responces well it hurts , it has me anyway, perhaps im just getting fragile maybe i should just suck it up toughen up but seems the honesty isnt always wise ...initially
Sometimes I think that we can be too honest. Laying everything bare before we get to know someone or they know us.
Geeze Kizzy its a question that seems easy to answer, but actually it isnt.
I think that one should be honest about the things that are important, the deal breakers, put them on the table. I also dont believe that because someone has asked me a question I am under any obligation to answer it.
In all though, I believe that honesty is the best policy, but maybe some of the answers need to be held until one gets to know the other person better.
If you are going to take a break Kiz, I hope that you have a fun time, but am gonna miss you terribly....
Geeze Kizzy its a question that seems easy to answer, but actually it isnt.
I think that one should be honest about the things that are important, the deal breakers, put them on the table. I also dont believe that because someone has asked me a question I am under any obligation to answer it.
In all though, I believe that honesty is the best policy, but maybe some of the answers need to be held until one gets to know the other person better.
If you are going to take a break Kiz, I hope that you have a fun time, but am gonna miss you terribly....
Honesty is the best way always but it doesn't hurt to leave out some things 
I always tell it like i see it, dont know how to do anything else. I may tame it down a bit, but always the truth
bubblesron: I always tell it like i see it, dont know how to do anything else. I may tame it down a bit, but always the truth
Yes, I know what you mean, Bubbles!! The truth just falls out of my mouth, i don't even get time to sugar coat it most of the time, and then everyone gets cranky at me coz they don't like the truth!! 
kizzy27: Is honesty the best policy?
I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy
I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy
honesty is important..
but i did that most of the time and my relationship didnt last.so now i think i have to wait longer to be honest.but there is also a good point in being honest early because you already know if he can take you for whatever you are..and love you for everything you are.
my point..be honest early on..its up to him if he will take you or not inspite of everything you are.that is called unconditional love.
redozichick: I'm usually honest but I don't think it gets you anywhere
never heard of itAbo_Idol2009: never heard of it
I keep hoping somewhere in the back of my mind that when i open a comment from you it may actually be something that is relevant , makes sense or even comes farkin close to being undrstandable !!!
disappointed yet again aboIdol2009...
Is this JMO...
I think maybe not !
Kizzy
plenty of honesty here, tell it as it is, lying is just fear...
CheekySmiles: plenty of honesty here, tell it as it is, lying is just fear...
Hey cheeky, you are right about people lying out of fear and i think it is a real illness for some too.ktulucherrylane: damn right...whats the point lying..the only 2 things i hate is a lier and a cheat!!
My aunt always said........., I would rather have a thief than a liar in my home anytime, a theif can take your possessions but a liar can ruin you!
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I always thought so
but have discovered that sometimes saying what we like, need, want, are, desire ,crave & feel can also make people prejudge you without eva even taking the time to get to know you...& It really bites!!!!
so the question
should we be straight up with others online
or should we wait .
footnote :I AM SOOOFARKIN OVA INTERNET Dating!!!!
({soon to be invisable}
Kizzy