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Hugz_n_Kissez: Some people can justify anything these days....
I really don't think we should be judging this poor woman's character.
She may have some emotional problem.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
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sounds to me she wasnt ready for a relationship
whatever she says even if they did go together i doubt it would have lasted i think she probally be to bored
either that she was very needy person and need someone physically in her life as opposed to long distance again i doubt it would have lasted
whatever she says even if they did go together i doubt it would have lasted i think she probally be to bored
either that she was very needy person and need someone physically in her life as opposed to long distance again i doubt it would have lasted
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Indyfella: I really don't think we should be judging this poor woman's character. She may have some emotional problem.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
Teen dramas not my thing...I get enough of it from my daughter and her love life....
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Indyfella: I really don't think we should be judging this poor woman's character. She may have some emotional problem.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
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Indyfella: I really don't think we should be judging this poor woman's character. She may have some emotional problem.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
Or...she may be celebrating Bush being out of office for 2 months.
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Teen dramas not my thing...I get enough of it from my daughter and her love life....
.....Phew,thank goodness I am not the only one that has to suffer from this situation,that makes two of us then........
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Well, here's how I see it...for what it's worth.
It would be no different if this were a guy from her own hometown. If you are going out with someone, obviously you are trying to find out about that person and whether or not that is the person that you want to be in a relationship with. You are basically trying that person on for size.
Now, your friend didn't necessarily cheat on this guy so she shouldn't really feel any guilt about it. But at the same time, obviously this guy didn't like what he saw and chose not to pursue a relationship with this girl. She shouldn't feel bad towards him, she should realize that he saw who she was and decided that she's not the one for him.
And there you have it. She made no promises to him, but needs to realize that he made none to her either and if he chooses not to continue going out with her then that's his right.
He needs to move on and so does she.
It would be no different if this were a guy from her own hometown. If you are going out with someone, obviously you are trying to find out about that person and whether or not that is the person that you want to be in a relationship with. You are basically trying that person on for size.
Now, your friend didn't necessarily cheat on this guy so she shouldn't really feel any guilt about it. But at the same time, obviously this guy didn't like what he saw and chose not to pursue a relationship with this girl. She shouldn't feel bad towards him, she should realize that he saw who she was and decided that she's not the one for him.
And there you have it. She made no promises to him, but needs to realize that he made none to her either and if he chooses not to continue going out with her then that's his right.
He needs to move on and so does she.
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If a guy were driving 3 hours every weekend for two months to see me the last thing I would want to do is anything that would even possibly turn him away. That aside, sleeping with three others in two days does not scream maturity. Obviously she isn't ready for a mature relationship and obviously he wants someone who is. I think he had the right to run the other way and she shouldn't be mad at anyone but herself. JMO.
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virgiomonkey: .....Phew,thank goodness I am not the only one that has to suffer from this situation,that makes two of us then........
Nope you're not and I have 17 year old twins...BUT thank god my son is not into drama like my daughter is...He isn't even interested in having a g/f right now...cause the last one he had for a year got on his nerves too much...He sounds like me....
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Hi linnypaint how old was the guy your friend was seeing,as maybe there was an age thing between them that made them also wait. and after 2 months of weekend travel did your friend want to take things further and the guy wasnt getting the hint so found some fun else where?.
If you can talk to your friend will she listen to you. If she wants to be respected by guys,one thing that travels faster than an std is guys telling guys who they can "score" easyerly, then maybe she needs time out from guys for a while,say no,and have some time with her friend-you, if she wants to find one guy she likes then stick with him, forget about the past, thats gone. she needs to think about the now and future and breaking a cycle that is starting to form with her.
you must care about your friend to come on here to ask advise so I hope you can be there for her and she work things out
how old was the guy your friend was seeing,as maybe there was an age thing between them that made them also wait. and after 2 months of weekend travel did your friend want to take things further and the guy wasnt getting the hint so found some fun else where?.If you can talk to your friend will she listen to you. If she wants to be respected by guys,one thing that travels faster than an std is guys telling guys who they can "score" easyerly, then maybe she needs time out from guys for a while,say no,and have some time with her friend-you, if she wants to find one guy she likes then stick with him, forget about the past, thats gone. she needs to think about the now and future and breaking a cycle that is starting to form with her.
you must care about your friend to come on here to ask advise so I hope you can be there for her and she work things out
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Maybe she was a virgin and wanted a little on the job training before she did him.....hey it could happen
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Maybe she was a virgin and wanted a little on the job training before she did him.....hey it could happen
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Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
You didn't really look for anybody's opinion Linnypaint, did you? Casting judgement in OP like that? There can't be 2 diff opinions on what's presented in OP.
But I do have a comment...
First, if they spent their weekends together for some time, it is dating.
Getting to know each other - it's a dating process.
...and a question:
How did the guy know about other 3 guys in 2 days?
P.S. She is justified to do what she wants with her life;
He is justified not to have anything to do with her.
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Laura25: You didn't really look for anybody's opinion Linnypaint, did you? Casting judgement in OP like that? There can't be 2 diff opinions on what's presented in OP.
But I do have a comment...
First, if they spent their weekends together for some time, it is dating.
Getting to know each other - it's a dating process.
...and a question:
How did the guy know about other 3 guys in 2 days?
P.S. She is justified to do what she wants with her life;
He is justified not to have anything to do with her.
But I do have a comment...
First, if they spent their weekends together for some time, it is dating.
Getting to know each other - it's a dating process.
...and a question:
How did the guy know about other 3 guys in 2 days?
P.S. She is justified to do what she wants with her life;
He is justified not to have anything to do with her.
My thoughts exactly.
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joseywales0303: Nope.....slot machines have cherries
Rotten cherries with fruit flies
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certainly no cherries on that one
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Mercedes1: Rotten cherries with fruit flies
or a rotten pit.
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Mercedes1: Rotten cherries with fruit flies
Ugh!!! Thanx for the mental pic.....haha.
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Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
It appears she don't need a boyfriend, just some self respect.
Her loss.
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