LinnypaintOPKernersville, North Carolina USA14 posts
A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
3 Guys in 2 days............OMG..................
Dont suppose I could have her number could I............
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
I'd say he went out of his way to see her, no matter what they called it. Also, if I found out that the person I liked slept with 3 other people within two days... I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole!!! I'd be afraid of what I may catch.
MjNicesmileBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados116 posts
Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
3 guys in 2 days??? I agree with him. She sounds a bit loose, sorry.
sweetowen: I'd say he went out of his way to see her, no matter what they called it. Also, if I found out that the person I liked slept with 3 other people within two days... I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole!!! I'd be afraid of what I may catch.
Agreed here, Owen.
The guy was driving 3 hours to see her...I'd say he was pretty interested.
chrissst.helens, Merseyside, England UK4,472 posts
but was she interested?and even tho at that point they was only friends did both of them expect things to go further?
i meen what your saying is completly right, but if nether of them at that point was going out with each other then can u still call it cheeting on him?
at the same time like i say 3 guys in that space of time i cant blame the guy for running
druidess6308: Agreed here, Owen.
The guy was driving 3 hours to see her...I'd say he was pretty interested.
3 guys in 2 days???? Would be interested in how she managed that. I don't get 2 guys in 3 years!!!! Tell your friend she lost a guy that many of us would of loved to have a chance with. She was wrong, nothing else to say.
Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
I am sorry about your friend , sounds like she has a problem with keeping her legs closed, he was justified in running the other way, she probably would have cheated on him. Sounds like your friend isn't through being wild and free yet, its to bad sounds like she had a potentially nice boyfriend in the works. Any time you can get a guy to drive 3 hours one way and spend real time trying to get to know you and not trying to get in your pants then there is a really nice guy and she should feel absolutely devestated because nice guys don't just come along very often and they are getting more and more rare to find, thats my story and I'm sticking to it.
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