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Where is your friend's dad? What type of relationship did she have with him?
Often times promiscuity of a girl can be tied to a relationship or lack thereof with a father.
Often times promiscuity of a girl can be tied to a relationship or lack thereof with a father.
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druidess6308: Ouch...yes...but dang, even at my wildest, 3 guys in 2 days would've been too much.
Anyway, I agree that the gal in question has been judged rather harshly, and nobody has the right to judge her, but the OP did ask for our opinions...and when you do that, you have to be prepared for all of them, whether you like them or not.
Btw, since I don't think I ever really did address the final question, or overall question, of the OP, I will now.
Is she justified? Well, that really depends on how she saw the relationship, I guess. There was no commitment, so she was free to do as she liked, but she had to know that it would end any chance of a relationship with him when he found out. And the only way he could have found out was for her to tell him. So, kudos to her for her honesty...unless it was out of vengeance. "I liked you, you didn't sleep with me or commit to me, so I slept with as many others as I could. Nah nah."
I don't blame him one bit for not wanting to see her again, either, though.
Anyway, I agree that the gal in question has been judged rather harshly, and nobody has the right to judge her, but the OP did ask for our opinions...and when you do that, you have to be prepared for all of them, whether you like them or not.
Btw, since I don't think I ever really did address the final question, or overall question, of the OP, I will now.
Is she justified? Well, that really depends on how she saw the relationship, I guess. There was no commitment, so she was free to do as she liked, but she had to know that it would end any chance of a relationship with him when he found out. And the only way he could have found out was for her to tell him. So, kudos to her for her honesty...unless it was out of vengeance. "I liked you, you didn't sleep with me or commit to me, so I slept with as many others as I could. Nah nah."
I don't blame him one bit for not wanting to see her again, either, though.
she didnt tell him actually.....one of our good friends who introduced them told him cause she had no intention of doing so
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exactly, but I wasn't going to say it.
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DazzleYou: Where is your friend's dad? What type of relationship did she have with him?
Often times promiscuity of a girl can be tied to a relationship or lack thereof with a father.
Often times promiscuity of a girl can be tied to a relationship or lack thereof with a father.
Her dad is a really nice guy who loves her to death but i dont think he would ever do something like that
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Linnypaint: Her dad is a really nice guy who loves her to death but i dont think he would ever do something like that
We are all just guessing Linny. Your friend is young I hope that she figures it out before the next time.
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Linnypaint: okay my friend supposedly really liked this guy and she wanted to date him and she thought he could be the "one"
There is no such thing as " the one ". Hollywood has mesmerized people too much...
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Linnypaint: obviously he was interested because he drove 3 hrs and is he at fault for wanting to get to know a person before he jumped into a relationship with that person?
No one is at fault it's a simple case of realized incompatibility.
He's mature, she's still a child. He's going about it the right way...and for the long hall. If she thinks he may have been the one, then why is she sleeping with anyone at all? Look black and white to me.
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Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
i think she was completely justifed by her actions they werent actually dating thats a rude thing to do by all means but she didnt do anything wrong its her dicision but i can see why hes mad to though he likes her alot and he had his heart stomped by her actions but anyway shes alright she was justified
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Linnypaint: A friend of mine was seeing this guy who lived 3 hrs away and drove down to see her every weekend. He's a really nice guy and he really liked her but they weren't dating yet cause he wanted to get to know her first. Well a few days before he came up to see her she slept with 3 guys in a span of 2 days. Now the guy doesnt want to see her again. My friend says she didnt do anything wrong cause they werent offically going out yet......i want to know wut everyones opinion is. Is she at fault here or was she justified?
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She couldnt of been too worried about this guy cause if she wanted a relationship of dating their is no way she would of told him about her 3 tangos
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Mercedes1: She couldnt of been too worried about this guy cause if she wanted a relationship of dating their is no way she would of told him about her 3 tangos
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she didnt tell him....one of our friends did
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Linnypaint: shes almost 20 yrs old. they hung out for like 2 months but only on the weekends. since all this happened she is blaming everybody else for wut happened and she is still sleeping around
Then she obviously has issues. But I'm going to guess you already know that.
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StressFree: There is no such thing as " the one ". Hollywood has mesmerized people too much...
I quite agree, but I will admit at 18 I thought the same way..
Quote:"Okay my friend supposedly really liked this guy and she wanted to date him and she thought he could be the "one"
Well if he's supposed to have been "the one", shouldnt have honesty and reality have had anything to do with their relationship?? ??
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sweetowen: I'd say he went out of his way to see her, no matter what they called it. Also, if I found out that the person I liked slept with 3 other people within two days... I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole!!! I'd be afraid of what I may catch.
If driving 3 hours to see someone every weekend is not being interested, dating, I don't know what is!
druidess6308: Agreed here, Owen.
The guy was driving 3 hours to see her...I'd say he was pretty interested.
The guy was driving 3 hours to see her...I'd say he was pretty interested.
If driving 3 hours to see someone every weekend is not being interested, dating, I don't know what is!
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Linnypaint: she didnt tell him....one of our friends did
Im so glad one of your friends told him..
I can remember my son being taken for a ride and I had to keep my mouth shut for 2 years untill finally he seen the light..
Im so glad this guy listened to your friend as my Grant was dumping mates that he grew up with who dared try and talk sense into him
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DazzleYou: Where is your friend's dad? What type of relationship did she have with him?
Often times promiscuity of a girl can be tied to a relationship or lack thereof with a father.
Often times promiscuity of a girl can be tied to a relationship or lack thereof with a father.
Good call,and food for thought as well.......and you have hit on a very sensitive nerve,some my teenage Daughters friends haven't got a Father figure in there life's.....and as my Daughter puts it....Haven't got the Fathers Guidance and opinions on relationship issues....well said
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ok...first of all...she showed her true self...if a person is realy interested in someone...they wouldn't be looking around...no she didnt do anything wrong..cause she wasnt dating him...but she would never give him the respect that he is seeking from a woman....so here is a question back...what on earth did she expect him to react?lol he will find someone that he is seeking...and she will continue to party...right?
hope this helped ya out...
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hope this helped ya out...
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GreenTassels:
Well if he's supposed to have been "the one", shouldnt have honesty and reality have had anything to do with their relationship?? ??
Well if he's supposed to have been "the one", shouldnt have honesty and reality have had anything to do with their relationship?? ??
I guess?
Then again, people are dishonest or avoid honesty in order to appear a certain way or simply to avoid real talk...
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obviously he was interested because he drove 3 hrs and is he at fault for wanting to get to know a person before he jumped into a relationship with that person?