Gas Lighting & Relationships (24)
Lighting your gas in the beginning of a relationship is best left to rednecks!
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Always lead with you head,then when things prove outlet your heart take the lead! 
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sassy49senior: As I learn more about this very important person in my life whom I call ME, I am still amazed at the things I experienced to get to this point in my life. Still more to learn. I feel such a dark side that is now gone and I know I will never be put in this position again. Gentlemen and Ladies, if you are in this type of a situation, get out, don't stay and let someone convince you that you are stupid or crazy, etc.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
Sweetie I know how you feel I was in a relationship like that and I got out of it 3 years and I never look back and I am in a much better place now.
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Relationships work best when both can see where they are and where it is going. Use electric lights in the future.
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sassy49senior: As I learn more about this very important person in my life whom I call ME, I am still amazed at the things I experienced to get to this point in my life. Still more to learn. I feel such a dark side that is now gone and I know I will never be put in this position again. Gentlemen and Ladies, if you are in this type of a situation, get out, don't stay and let someone convince you that you are stupid or crazy, etc.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
This is just what I was going through with my wife. She had me convinced all things were my fault, that I was the one who was wrong. Once I got by myself, I started to wake up. She is the one who is seeing a therapist and is on medication. She is doing alot better, thank god. It's good to know that I'm not crazy, or am I?
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In response to: As I learn more about this very important person in my life whom I call ME, I am still amazed at the things I experienced to get to this point in my life. Still more to learn. I feel such a dark side that is now gone and I know I will never be put in this position again. Gentlemen and Ladies, if you are in this type of a situation, get out, don't stay and let someone convince you that you are stupid or crazy, etc.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
the exact same thing happened to me, but i didnt get out in time. i was fully convinced of everything he said for years. I trusted him, becuase he was 33, and being older, i thought he knew best. it left me scarred for life, pysically.
Im so glad someone has put this up, if you see the signs, get out. before your convinced there are no signs to be seen....
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GalwayGirl89: the exact same thing happened to me, but i didnt get out in time. i was fully convinced of everything he said for years. I trusted him, becuase he was 33, and being older, i thought he knew best. it left me scarred for life, pysically.
Im so glad someone has put this up, if you see the signs, get out. before your convinced there are no signs to be seen.... great post sassy
Im so glad someone has put this up, if you see the signs, get out. before your convinced there are no signs to be seen.... great post sassy
T/Y I was seeing a therapist at the time and she would tell me I needed to leave this man. Then he would convince me to tell him what the therapist said and then would say how crazy she was. I finally quit seeing her. I am completely fine with who I have become and with the help of a wonderful person I know I am ready for that next road to travel. Either alone or with a special someone. Whichever the case may be.
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RillyNiceGuy: Lighting your gas in the beginning of a relationship is best left to rednecks!
anybody got a match ?
anybody ?
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buzzy: This is just what I was going through with my wife. She had me convinced all things were my fault, that I was the one who was wrong. Once I got by myself, I started to wake up. She is the one who is seeing a therapist and is on medication. She is doing alot better, thank god. It's good to know that I'm not crazy, or am I?
Glad to read she is seeking help. Being alone helped me to focus on many things that were not right in that situation.Now I am content and ready to move on.
Yes Buzzy you are a crazy lovable guy, stay that way.
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Big_John: Relationships work best when both can see where they are and where it is going. Use electric lights in the future.
Very well said John. I needed to take off the blinders and now I am looking at life in all ways not just straight down the middle.
BTW Good to have you back darlin'
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desmond: Sweetie I know how you feel I was in a relationship like that and I got out of it 3 years and I never look back and I am in a much better place now.
Hi Sweet Man, Good to see you. Glad you got away. I also am feeling much better and ready for what life brings my way.
Now when are you going to stop by for coffee and chat
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sassy49senior: T/Y I was seeing a therapist at the time and she would tell me I needed to leave this man. Then he would convince me to tell him what the therapist said and then would say how crazy she was. I finally quit seeing her. I am completely fine with who I have become and with the help of a wonderful person I know I am ready for that next road to travel. Either alone or with a special someone. Whichever the case may be.
seems we've been living parallell lives, our story's are very similar.
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RillyNiceGuy: Always lead with you head,then when things prove outlet your heart take the lead!
T/Y Len, Very good advice. Flower Power in the morning
ME FIRST
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sassy49senior: Very well said John. I needed to take off the blinders and now I am looking at life in all ways not just straight down the middle.
BTW Good to have you back darlin'
BTW Good to have you back darlin'
Thanks.
We never know what type of person we are getting involved with during the early stages of a relationship. We tend to see only the best parts of a person and usually the person is on their best behavior.
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sassy49senior: Hi Sweet Man, Good to see you. Glad you got away. I also am feeling much better and ready for what life brings my way.
Now when are you going to stop by for coffee and chat
Now when are you going to stop by for coffee and chat
Sweetie thanks for the great thread and I am so happy you are in a better place now
You post made me stop and reflect on what I been through and I yhave learned alot now I know what I am really looking for and I am in not rush to find it as long as I have family and friends like you that care then I am a blessed man And I love to have coffee and a chat with you anytime wonderful lady
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desmond: Sweetie thanks for the great thread and I am so happy you are in a better place now You post made me stop and reflect on what I been through and I yhave learned alot now I know what I am really looking for and I am in not rush to find it as long as I have family and friends like you that care then I am a blessed man
And I love to have coffee and a chat with you anytime wonderful lady
And I love to have coffee and a chat with you anytime wonderful lady
You are absolutely fantabulous Des. Also very blessed to have your friendship. Door is always unlocked. pop in anytime.
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Big_John: Thanks.
We never know what type of person we are getting involved with during the early stages of a relationship. We tend to see only the best parts of a person and usually the person is on their best behavior.
Good Advice..We never know what type of person we are getting involved with during the early stages of a relationship. We tend to see only the best parts of a person and usually the person is on their best behavior.
... Alcohol doesn't mix well in relationships. A great time can be had with out it to.
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sassy49senior: As I learn more about this very important person in my life whom I call ME, I am still amazed at the things I experienced to get to this point in my life. Still more to learn. I feel such a dark side that is now gone and I know I will never be put in this position again. Gentlemen and Ladies, if you are in this type of a situation, get out, don't stay and let someone convince you that you are stupid or crazy, etc.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.
I can empathise with you. Married for 12 years. I accepted this as well, went to counselling etc. finally the last year i decided to keep a journal so that i could verify if i was crazy or not.
Wasn't till the marriage ended that i was able to regain my self respect and my own identity. wouldn't go back for anything. Finally like who i am again, and am very happy. That is why i put in my profile something to the effect of looking for a man with self confidance.
Sassy, i am sending you a bouquet for moving on with your life.
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gooddogman: Good Advice..... Alcohol doesn't mix well in relationships. A great time can be had with out it to.
Nice companion you have there young man. I do agree as far as
the alcohol situation. However in my last relationship neither one of us drank but words can be very addicting at times. I am still a lady who likes to look for the good in people, but also get to know them somewhat before moving in the way I did in such a short time.
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As I learn more about this very important person in my life whom I call ME, I am still amazed at the things I experienced to get to this point in my life. Still more to learn. I feel such a dark side that is now gone and I know I will never be put in this position again. Gentlemen and Ladies, if you are in this type of a situation, get out, don't stay and let someone convince you that you are stupid or crazy, etc.
GAS LIGHTING- The other person may deny that certain events occurred or that certain things were said. You know differently. The other person may deny your perceptions, memory or sanity.
I was in that type of relationship not too long ago but was also in denial. I really believed when he told me I imagined some of the things I would talk to him about. Then he would say maybe I needed to be checked into the mental ward for a few weeks. Not a good way to feel.