Meddling mother-in-law ( Archived) (46)

Apr 22, 2009 12:03 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Karma3: I'm for real alright. Indian society is still very much into living in joint families so we do not have the luxury of having our mothers-in-law 'leave' or 'stop' their whining. We gotta grin and bear it, then give our husbands hell in the bedroom.


...................rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing .....Yes...I know, have some very good Indian Friends here in New Zealand....and you are spot on...nice meeting youhandshake grin

J.D
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Apr 22, 2009 12:03 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
FreshFilly
FreshFillyFreshFillySydney, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 100 Posts
Dmire: How do you handle mother in law who is sticking her nose in.Do you wash your hands off? What would you do?

HEHE I had one of those "mother-in-laws many years ago but i solved the problem for good laugh I divorced her son rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing yay banana True Story!!
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Apr 22, 2009 12:03 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Karma3: I'm for real alright. Indian society is still very much into living in joint families so we do not have the luxury of having our mothers-in-law 'leave' or 'stop' their whining. We gotta grin and bear it, then give our husbands hell in the bedroom.
Karma long time no see teddybear
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Apr 22, 2009 12:06 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
virgiomonkey: ................... .....Yes...I know, have some very good Indian Friends here in New Zealand....and you are spot on...nice meeting you

J.D

Nice meeting you too.cheers
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Apr 22, 2009 12:07 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
virgiomonkey: .........Far to late...its already program into your 'system' already sxc666...... .....Hmmmmmmmm....there might be some Hand Grenades coming my way.....

J.D




>>>>>>>>>>>>> Gets bow and arrow out of back pocket. Aims at JD..


>>>>>>>>>>>Fiiiiiirrrre. Bullseye. grin giggle
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Apr 22, 2009 12:10 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
FreshFilly: HEHE I had one of those "mother-in-laws many years ago but i solved the problem for good I divorced her son True Story!!


In your view, would it help if the couple moves away from the mother in law vicinity and start their live somewhere else?
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Apr 22, 2009 12:14 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Dmire: In your view, would it help if the couple moves away from the mother in law vicinity and start their live somewhere else?


........Yep....like a different 'solar system'....yes, I can that one working quite well actually.....grin grin thumbs up

J.D
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Apr 22, 2009 12:18 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
FreshFilly
FreshFillyFreshFillySydney, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 100 Posts
Dmire: In your view, would it help if the couple moves away from the mother in law vicinity and start their live somewhere else?

In our experience that is EXACTLY what we did moved states..it was our life not hers...i am not mother-in-law bashing however, this one was from another planet!! Sad the marriage did not last though...it was not really a joke as i portrayed before...i just have a great sense of humour in our behaviour as human beings.
I hope it works out for You one way or the other whatever You decide with Your husband.handshake
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Apr 22, 2009 12:21 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
virgiomonkey: .....Correct ,Tina well always have her Famous 'Whip' beside her......J.D pulls out another arrow from his rear behind...Ouch...Ouch....



J.D


Heck! Talk about a customised 'quiver' - do you keep your arrows in there all the time or only when you go hunting??laugh
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Apr 22, 2009 12:22 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
From what I have seen and listened to. It seems there are more problems with the meddling mother in law if it is their son, not so much their daughters as daughters usually stand by their Mum and are closer.


There is a saying.

A Daughter is a Daughter for the rest of your life.

A Son is a Son until he takes a wife.



dunno
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Apr 22, 2009 12:22 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
virgiomonkey: ........Yep....like a different 'solar system'....yes, I can that one working quite well actually.....

J.D


I have no culture predujice to those who lives in one house with ancestors.What are your views concerning this set up?
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Apr 22, 2009 12:28 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
sxc666: From what I have seen and listened to. It seems there are more problems with the meddling mother in law if it is their son, not so much their daughters as daughters usually stand by their Mum and are closer.There is a saying.

A Daughter is a Daughter for the rest of your life.

A Son is a Son until he takes a wife.


.........Spot on.....thumbs up hug peace

J.D
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Apr 22, 2009 12:28 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
sxc666: From what I have seen and listened to. It seems there are more problems with the meddling mother in law if it is their son, not so much their daughters as daughters usually stand by their Mum and are closer.There is a saying.

A Daughter is a Daughter for the rest of your life.

A Son is a Son until he takes a wife.


thumbs up

But there are also the mummy son.He can only do things if he consults the mother regardless married or not
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Apr 22, 2009 12:29 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Dmire: I have no culture predujice to those who lives in one house with ancestors.What are your views concerning this set up?


....No problem with at all...as long as there is 'Harmony' and 'mutual respect' from all quarters.....handshake thumbs up

J.D
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Apr 22, 2009 12:29 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
sxc666: Karma long time no see


Hi Tina! wave
How's the baby doing?
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Apr 22, 2009 12:31 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
sxc666: A Daughter is a Daughter for the rest of your life.


Thank God I have 2 daughters!!!yay
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Apr 22, 2009 12:32 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Karma3: Hi Tina!
How's the baby doing?
Very good Karma a gorgeous thing of course...........he has just had his first tooth pop up, 12 weeks old this Friday. heart wings
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Apr 22, 2009 12:32 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Karma3: Thank God I have 2 daughters!!!
I have two Daughters and 1 Son


Uh Oh uh oh uh oh laugh laugh laugh
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Apr 22, 2009 12:33 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Dmire: But there are also the mummy son.He can only do things if he consults the mother regardless married or not


.......Very True....forgot about that one....Hmmmmmm.....Total 'Control Freak' won't let go type of Mother....Yes plenty of those in New Zealand.......

J.D
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Apr 22, 2009 12:34 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
virgiomonkey: .......Very True....forgot about that one....Hmmmmmm.....Total 'Control Freak' won't let go type of Mother....Yes plenty of those in New Zealand.......

J.D

You talking 'native' or 'immigrant'??
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