FreshFilly Forum Posts (100)

RE: long distance/attractions

i met someone from another site some 2 months ago. We have been communicating via phone for the past 6 weeks and in early October i fly to meet with Him. He and i have much in common apart from the distance i don't see any untoward negatives.
How do i handle it?....a day at a time. The communication is very important and phone calls each evening help to "shorten" that distance.

RE: I GOT INTO UNIVERSITY!!!!!!!!!!

That is wonderful....i went back to study last year after a 38 year break and have found it wonderful. Best of luck to You with Your studies

RE: Younger male with an older woman

As a mature/older woman i would not date a much younger man.
A younger man is not going to stick around (even if it became a relationship) as i continue to age.
For instance - a 30yr old Man and myself at 56 now. In 3 and a half years i will be 60, He 33/34 and as i age i become less active in all areas of life. He would certainly be seeking a younger woman in time and my argument is this.....where would that leave me? This is the reason i would only date or be with Men of my own generation.
The thought of a younger would be nice though hehe in the short term - like a few nights tsk tsk...such a naughty girl.

RE: Randomly Post Anything That's On Your Mind.....

i need a huge hug.....from a Man of course lol

RE: ready to give up

RE: How true are the pictures and age people post on net?

i would have crashed through the wall if there had been no escape door or windows
So silly of those who tell fibs about their ages or body type. If and when a "date" is arranged the truth will be standing there....as a lie

RE: CAN YOU FORGIVE YOUR BELVOED'S BETREYAL ?

Forgive Yes, Forget NO....and i for one tread with caution in future, hence no relationship for over 3 and a half years which has been my time for healing and moving forward.

RE: Now, i'm really curious

RE: How long has it been?

Forgotten...been that long

RE: Is it true that western women don't like Pakistani guys?

It is such a pity that in today's society there is still racial bickering.
As a Western woman i would have no problems being with a man if i felt comfortable with him despite his race, religion, colour or country.
In fact i view some Pakistani men to be very attractive as well as some Western men.
Don't worry about the message You received last night from an obvious biggot.

RE: my best friend for 10 years ' the alcoholic ' died today from cirosis of the liver

Obviously You have no compassion about anyone who suffers from this insidious disease. Your comment is appalling woman.

RE: what do you fear most?

most of us do...only some can really admit it.
rejection brings emotional pain...nasty stuff but I have learnt it is a healing pain if i focus on me.

RE: Real Love Question

Points to each....eenee meenee minee moh...and the winner is

RE: Would you date someone with much less formal education than you?

A formal education has got nothing to do with ones feelings and emotions towards another human being.
i have been married 3 times and none of my former husbands had any further education beyound high school.
I never had any further education beyond the first TWO years of high school. However, i have since educated myself in adulthood but that does not give me any status towards finding a date.
Formal education is just that.....education towards career, financial stability.....perhaps!!

RE: bad manners

i don't

RE: The First Impression

My first impressions are usually how confident He is of Himself. Looks are really not important, in my eyes anyway, it is the personality that I find that draws me to a prospective lover/friend.

RE: Let me capture a moment of your life in pictures and videos for all eternity.

Oh wow what an offer..how can a girl refuse
Easy...distance of an ocean or two.

RE: just curious...

i have no idea if i snore....i am usually asleep - on my own

RE: Today i'm going to meet a guy from CS in my country

Have a wonderful date.

RE: just curious...

Flat on my back.....keep Your mind clean....thats how i sleep!

RE: ah f#*k it had enough

i would certainly agree with You on this.

RE: Not Everyone

RE: ladies traveling to meet a guy for the first date

I travelled over 1000kms once and the meeting was not good.
Another time recently I travelled over 500kms and the meeting was great.

RE: How successfull have you been on the site, what has happened so far?.........

I'll second that...nothing but scammers and total waste of my time so far but I will keep at it.

RE: would you be with someone, if they were goodlooking but not that smart?

As a blonde, and i might add intelligent (just passed my last assessments with high marks), i never understood the "dumb blonde" jokes HOWEVER, i personally have a thick skin so have never been offended.

RE: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

Thanks..i certainly needed one today

RE: MEN!!!!

SOME women also shirk their responsibilities when it comes to taking care of their babies/children for many reasons.
Generalizing about Men is really not very fair.
Perhaps a heading of "This Man" would have been more appropriate.

RE: Knowing someone

I also have had contact with people from interstate and some have been really nice Men however, i would never pack up my life and move from my home on a whim. People can and do meet and move but i would think they had spent alot of time getting to know each other first.
Wait until You get the invites to move overseas or, they want to come and live here with You
Hope You find nice friendships here.

RE: little things in life

My cat Bella sitting on my lap or a lovely compliment from someone on the internet.

RE: What u think before sleep ?