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Jun 4, 2009 7:45 PM CST MEN!!!!
kandiistarz
kandiistarzkandiistarzhemet, California USA2 Threads 10 Posts
Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?
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Jun 4, 2009 7:46 PM CST MEN!!!!
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?


not all of us do!!!
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Jun 4, 2009 7:56 PM CST MEN!!!!
kandiistarz
kandiistarzkandiistarzhemet, California USA2 Threads 10 Posts
pikengren: not all of us do!!!
im sorry, I didn't mean that for all men! I just ment that about the guys who do. and really i was just asking if they get scared or something?
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Jun 4, 2009 7:59 PM CST MEN!!!!
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
aw man, i wish i could even speculate. i would say though, that the reasons may vary from guy to guy.
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Jun 4, 2009 8:01 PM CST MEN!!!!
ch71sha
ch71shach71shaRoy, Utah USA3 Threads 95 Posts
kandiistarz: im sorry, I didn't mean that for all men! I just ment that about the guys who do. and really i was just asking if they get scared or something?


I think I have said this before in a thread when people generalize "men"

A real man takes care of, supports, provides, loves, his children. A man who doesn't do this is not a man, that would be a boy you are dealing with.
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Jun 4, 2009 8:03 PM CST MEN!!!!
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?


Some men will say anything to get some of that sweet pie ..dunno

I'm sure it has something to do with a complete lifestyle and realtionship change after birth too........ but you're right - no excuse for not being responsible ..scold
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Jun 4, 2009 8:06 PM CST MEN!!!!
DonDon67
DonDon67DonDon67Columbus, Georgia USA19 Threads 2 Polls 692 Posts
it comes down to respondsablty,some like it others run away screaming.and matureity,they don't want it or need itpeace
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Jun 4, 2009 8:22 PM CST MEN!!!!
ihateusernames
ihateusernamesihateusernamesForestville, Maryland USA2 Threads 375 Posts
In response to: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?
. I think it gets too real for a lot of them. Children change your life forever, and some men don't handle that well.
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Jun 4, 2009 8:24 PM CST MEN!!!!
kandiistarz
kandiistarzkandiistarzhemet, California USA2 Threads 10 Posts
Thanks everyone! it just has to do with a relationship my friend has with her husband!
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Jun 6, 2009 5:58 AM CST MEN!!!!
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kandiistarz: Thanks everyone! it just has to do with a relationship my friend has with her husband!
This happened to my daughter, when the baby was 9 months he was out the door, still wanted to live the single life with his friends and could not handle the responsibility.

But you can't generalize, not all men are like that
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Jun 6, 2009 6:03 AM CST MEN!!!!
Italy101
Italy101Italy101union, New Jersey USA19 Threads 4 Polls 420 Posts
Not all of us..... The one's that do have insecurity's, depression,anxiety, and other common factors just like women do, when there kid/kids come into the world.....
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?
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Jun 6, 2009 6:05 AM CST MEN!!!!
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
In response to: MEN!!!!


WOMEN!!!!

dunno
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Jun 6, 2009 6:21 AM CST MEN!!!!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Sojourner: WOMEN!!!!


Brilliant!
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Jun 6, 2009 7:10 AM CST MEN!!!!
Darkhorseman
DarkhorsemanDarkhorsemanGladstonia ... it's a strange, Queensland Australia40 Threads 3 Polls 1,304 Posts
I look on it as a service ... I mean, if you think that I am cute enough to bonk you MUST want me to leave a little souvenir ... something that you can remember me by for years to come.
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Jun 6, 2009 7:40 AM CST MEN!!!!
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
Darkhorseman: I look on it as a service ... I mean, if you think that I am cute enough to bonk you MUST want me to leave a little souvenir ... something that you can remember me by for years to come.



You're too much!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 6, 2009 7:45 AM CST MEN!!!!
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Darkhorseman: I look on it as a service ... I mean, if you think that I am cute enough to bonk you MUST want me to leave a little souvenir ... something that you can remember me by for years to come.


Right.

And if you you don't think I am cute enough anymore, just dump it...
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Jun 6, 2009 7:46 AM CST MEN!!!!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Laura25: Right.

And if you you don't think I am cute enough anymore, just dump it...


Great response.
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Jun 6, 2009 7:51 AM CST MEN!!!!
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Sommerauer71: Great response.


We lived, know by now - life is as simple as that.

And OP, a young girl, curious... aww, whatever, nothing much to add.


G'morning, Sommer. bouquet
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Jun 6, 2009 7:54 AM CST MEN!!!!
Darkhorseman
DarkhorsemanDarkhorsemanGladstonia ... it's a strange, Queensland Australia40 Threads 3 Polls 1,304 Posts
Its ALIVE ... (2008_film)
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Jun 6, 2009 7:54 AM CST MEN!!!!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Laura25: We lived, know by now - life is as simple as that.

And OP, a young girl, curious... aww, whatever, nothing much to add.G'morning, Sommer.


Indeed.

It was a crap post.

It is as simple as that.

Morning to you too, Laura.

bouquet
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