MEN!!!! ( Archived) (68)

Exactly, which is why I was raised by my father, not because my mother was bad, but that she could not cope.

He won custody of my brother and I, 30 years ago, because my mother was sick and still is.

Amen


Not many that I know of, but there are.

Another common thing -

people (both genders) pamper their egos at a child's expense - that's the ugliest.

Using child(ren) as a tool for manipulating each other when relationship goes sour.

Very honorable of her, Morgan.

It's not always an easy thing to do, but if a child is safe with and can benefit from the other side of the family, that's how it's suppose to be.

That's love - step aside and numb one's ego.

My question is why do women have babies with guys who are not worthy? IT takes two and I think we dont take proper precautions then look at ourselves as victims. We make choices in the heat of passion without look far enough down the road.

I wanted to let it be 'coz I like you, Boban,

but I just can't - bothers me too much when someone's post gets butchered like that...

I believe the OP's question was \/\/\/



Try answering that.









P.S. In my personal opinion, this question should be directed to both genders, not just guys, but it's irrelevant.

Well guys would not be the proper word to use ... It should be Mark, Scott , Tom or what ever. I dont know about all the world but in this country it appears the women can not take care of the babies they have either. Thats why we have aid for dependent children (AFDC) I had custody of my son back in 1978 and never received on dime from his dear old mother. However when I went to work outside of the US I allowed him to live with his mother because I felt Regardless of my feeling about her it was his mother and I didnt want to be the SOB who prevented him from knowing or seeing her. I even sent money to her for him. To keep it short Then after a few years she takes me to court for back child support yada yada yada... SHe never got that but she was awarded monthly payment of $700 until he turned 18 which was only a year. I paid it and she never had any obligations for all the years he lived with me. Justice is one sided in my view ... The child comes first but the man seems to come last.

We are talking here about men they don't care about their child. We are not talking about men they want to be a father.
Probably i did not express myself in the right way my English is not the best But what i meant was that a women shouldn't worry that much about the man who doesn't want to be a father to his child.There are men they are ready to be a father they are ready to take of responsibility to raise a child but those men they leave their child behind they obviously not ready or maybe never be ready or don't want to be a father.Men has been created to make children but not to raise them.
Im not a men hater I personally don't have any problems with men and also don't have children.I meant everything in the positive way.
I won't go any further in this subject because i have a totally different view of fatherhood, family, man and women roll as what the today's society created.
Good advice men should think before they take action.

hey alot of mother's have babies that they can't and/or don't want to take care of too... look at the news... moms are killing their own kids alot more then men are....I think they should just shoot a parent that kills their kid myself... BUT NOOOOOOOOOO we are too liberal for that here...