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Jun 6, 2009 12:54 PM CST MEN!!!!
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
Laura25: I wanted to let it be 'coz I like you, Boban,

but I just can't - bothers me too much when someone's post gets butchered like that...

I believe the OP's question was ///
Try answering that.
P.S. In my personal opinion, this question should be directed to both genders, not just guys, but it's irrelevant.


I know that i twisted her words,and made a rude coment.

Why??

Iv reizt my son sins he was 6- months old.handshake
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Jun 6, 2009 12:56 PM CST MEN!!!!
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Sommerauer71: Tater...

I know you wanna stick up for dads and I have too, but that is not because I am against mothers either.

So put your gun away.


uh un....... you can't make melaugh tongue
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Jun 6, 2009 1:00 PM CST MEN!!!!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Tater: uh un....... you can't make me


No I can't, I can only attempt to reason with you.
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Jun 6, 2009 1:01 PM CST MEN!!!!
Fallenangel74
Fallenangel74Fallenangel74southern, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 879 Posts
now now kids ...laugh
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Jun 6, 2009 1:22 PM CST MEN!!!!
FreshFilly
FreshFillyFreshFillySydney, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 100 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?

SOME women also shirk their responsibilities when it comes to taking care of their babies/children for many reasons.
Generalizing about Men is really not very fair.
Perhaps a heading of "This Man" would have been more appropriate.
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Jun 6, 2009 1:31 PM CST MEN!!!!
krisdoja
krisdojakrisdojaColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 126 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?
Um... I think it's all in who you pick... I've got two kids(9 & 8)and me and their mother are friends still to this day and I see them when ever I want. Yeah I'd say it's who you pick... Not saying it's your fault though.
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Jun 6, 2009 1:32 PM CST MEN!!!!
krisdoja
krisdojakrisdojaColumbia, Missouri USA7 Threads 126 Posts
Tater: hey alot of mother's have babies that they can't and/or don't want to take care of too... look at the news... moms are killing their own kids alot more then men are....I think they should just shoot a parent that kills their kid myself... BUT NOOOOOOOOOO we are too liberal for that here...
TY!applause
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Jun 6, 2009 1:34 PM CST MEN!!!!
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
In response to: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?



It takes two RESPONSIBLE adults to know when they're
committed and,committed not only to eachother
but,also committed to having children.
Bringing a baby into this world takes responsibility.
However,relationships can and do change;you just
can't tell if the relationship will be successful.
It takes loving and responsible parents to ensure the
well being and security of a child."

IMO
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Jun 6, 2009 1:40 PM CST MEN!!!!
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Laura25: Right.

And if you you don't think I am cute enough anymore, just dump it...


Good for you Laura! You ask a Neanderthal and you get a Neanderthal's response.hug teddybear bouquet
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Jun 6, 2009 2:47 PM CST MEN!!!!
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Sommerauer71: Right.

I really did read that. Didn't I?

Yes some women do make poor decisions, but who is to know a person may turn out to a thug?

It is the night for narrow minded bigots tonight, me thinks.


I have to agree Sommer.

I am shocked, truly. So shocked I have come out of hibernation briefly.

Hope you are well my darling.


hug
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Jun 6, 2009 2:53 PM CST MEN!!!!
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Jan1305: I have to agree Sommer.

I am shocked, truly. So shocked I have come out of hibernation briefly.

Hope you are well my darling.


Not just here Jan, go to the thread that is 15 pages long..

I am thank you and how you are lovely? Good to see you back.
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Jun 6, 2009 2:56 PM CST MEN!!!!
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?


Value.


They don't value others enough to sacrifice for them. Of course we know it's not really a sacrifice, as true meaning in life is found through service to others.


The same thing that lets them make babies they won't care for,

allows them not to care for them.
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Jun 6, 2009 2:57 PM CST MEN!!!!
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?
Here I am raising my two kids by myself no fault of my wifes, real men care for thier children, the rest aren't real men.wink
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Jun 6, 2009 3:54 PM CST MEN!!!!
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Good4U2: Well guys would not be the proper word to use ... It should be Mark, Scott , Tom or what ever. I dont know about all the world but in this country it appears the women can not take care of the babies they have either. Thats why we have aid for dependent children (AFDC) I had custody of my son back in 1978 and never received on dime from his dear old mother. However when I went to work outside of the US I allowed him to live with his mother because I felt Regardless of my feeling about her it was his mother and I didnt want to be the SOB who prevented him from knowing or seeing her. I even sent money to her for him. To keep it short Then after a few years she takes me to court for back child support yada yada yada... SHe never got that but she was awarded monthly payment of $700 until he turned 18 which was only a year. I paid it and she never had any obligations for all the years he lived with me. Justice is one sided in my view ... The child comes first but the man seems to come last.
thumbs up exactly....
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Jun 6, 2009 4:23 PM CST MEN!!!!
romanticman4u
romanticman4uromanticman4ubrainerd, Minnesota USA11 Threads 7 Polls 494 Posts
Good4U2: Well guys would not be the proper word to use ... It should be Mark, Scott , Tom or what ever. I dont know about all the world but in this country it appears the women can not take care of the babies they have either. Thats why we have aid for dependent children (AFDC) I had custody of my son back in 1978 and never received on dime from his dear old mother. However when I went to work outside of the US I allowed him to live with his mother because I felt Regardless of my feeling about her it was his mother and I didnt want to be the SOB who prevented him from knowing or seeing her. I even sent money to her for him. To keep it short Then after a few years she takes me to court for back child support yada yada yada... SHe never got that but she was awarded monthly payment of $700 until he turned 18 which was only a year. I paid it and she never had any obligations for all the years he lived with me. Justice is one sided in my view ... The child comes first but the man seems to come last.
Wow Good4u2 you got boned by her and the court system, didn't you bring this up in court that she never paid all those years, sorry you went through that but you can say you did more then your part, when all is said and done the most important person will remember that, your son. your a good man good4u2handshake
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Jun 6, 2009 4:28 PM CST MEN!!!!
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?
takes,two to tango,know who your goin,to the dance with 1st.
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Jun 6, 2009 4:34 PM CST MEN!!!!
sambhava
sambhavasambhavaVasteras, Vastmanland Sweden3 Threads 1 Polls 584 Posts
Now go and tell that to all those "parents" out there who begin damaging the health of their children from the day they enter this world (and in many cases even BEFORE!). Where shall we start... Mass poisoned trash food and drinks, passive smoking, mercury in their teeth, fluoride, computer games, EMR (esp. cordless!), toxic skin products, antibiotics, religious conditioning and all the rest of the garbage babies are continually exposed to in this world! All said, I think I'd make a very responsible father to any child (although I'd STILL like to have a nanny to take care of the little nightmares!).
morgan5: having a baby is the responsibility of both parents,it's not about the male not getting any attention anymore and frankly it that was the attitude of my partner i would wonder which one was the child.

It is a life changing experience for both, and a baby needs alot of care and attention.

It should be about understanding,partnership, communication and supporting each other. jmo
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Jun 6, 2009 4:40 PM CST MEN!!!!
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
sambhava: Now go and tell that to all those "parents" out there who begin damaging the health of their children from the day they enter this world (and in many cases even BEFORE!). Where shall we start... Mass poisoned trash food and drinks, passive smoking, mercury in their teeth, fluoride, computer games, EMR (esp. cordless!), toxic skin products, antibiotics, religious conditioning and all the rest of the garbage babies are continually exposed to in this world! All said, I think I'd make a very responsible father to any child (although I'd STILL like to have a nanny to take care of the little nightmares!).

well at least we can see you love kids... you know most people who don't like animals and/or kids are worthless human beings, but shall we give you the benefit of the doubt?????????????barf
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Jun 6, 2009 4:42 PM CST MEN!!!!
Wednesday74
Wednesday74Wednesday74Central, Florida USA3 Threads 1 Polls 813 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?


Women do this too...roll eyes
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Jun 6, 2009 4:49 PM CST MEN!!!!
ch71sha
ch71shach71shaRoy, Utah USA3 Threads 95 Posts
kandiistarz: Why do guys make babies they can't take care of?
I mean they will love you, marry you, and give you the world! even talk about having babies but wen the baby gets here, they bail. Whats up with that?


thinking about this and reading some of the posts here and posts regarding nice guys finishing last, can it be this can be just as much as the woman's fault. You have women who only like the "bad" boys they get with them and babies come and they act all surprised Mr. Bad Boy bails. Hey it can be understandable that the Nice Guy doesn't make your boat float. I mean if your going to sail into the eye of the hurricane make sure you have the life preservers.
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