CAN YOU FORGIVE YOUR BELVOED'S BETREYAL ? (144)
handsonesamgreenford, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 444 PostsARE WE READY TO FORGIVE OUR PARTENER'S BETREYAL?
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Nope
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MEDTECH662: Nope
EVEN IF YOU LOVE HIM?
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handsonesam: ARE WE READY TO FORGIVE OUR PARTENER'S BETREYAL?
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Sommerauer71: He has not betrayed me.
THAT'S GOOD
YOU MUST LOVE YOU FOREVER
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Trust is the most important thing in a relationship to me. If it is lost I don't believe I could ever get it back. So for me the answer to your question is NO.
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If I've been betrayed the love would be gone.....and so would I.
handsonesam: EVEN IF YOU LOVE HIM?
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Big_John: Trust is the most important thing in a relationship to me. If it is lost I don't believe I could ever get it back. So for me the answer to your question is NO.
GOOD POINT
SO WE NEED TO CHOOSE THE HONEST PARTENER
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MEDTECH662: If I've been betrayed the love would be gone.....and so would I.
OK
I UNDERSTAND
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I could make myself sound so much more appealing than what I will ultimately appear to be, but my honest answer is NO. I don't forgive the betrayal. I am well over it and it is ancient history now, but I don't forgive him. Why should I? To relieve his guilt? To be the "better" person? No, this is not how I feel and I never will. I don't deal with him any differently than I would a woman friend or any other person who was a part of my life. Betrayal is betrayal. He is, as the expression goes, now "dead to me"...I have no idea where he is or what he is doing. I don't think of him, but when a question such as yours is raised, he is the one I think of...from more than 10 years ago. The fact is that I didn't deserve what he did, and I know this clearly, from my own thinking and from discusssions with good friends.
No, I don't forgive him...not that it matters in any way, shape, or form. And I'm perfectly fine with that.
No, I don't forgive him...not that it matters in any way, shape, or form. And I'm perfectly fine with that.
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handsonesam: GOOD POINT
SO WE NEED TO CHOOSE THE HONEST PARTENER
SO WE NEED TO CHOOSE THE HONEST PARTENER
Having your partner know how important trust is to you is very important. I believe it helps to keep a person on the right path. Sometimes a person needs to know up front what can be lost.
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Big_John: Trust is the most important thing in a relationship to me. If it is lost I don't believe I could ever get it back. So for me the answer to your question is NO.
I agree.
God supposedly forgives and forgets.
A man can forgive and forget until a woman brings up the past and then the memories of betrayal come flooding back.
A woman can try to forgive and forget, but she is incapable of either.
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Big_John: Having your partner know how important trust is to you is very important. I believe it helps to keep a person on the right path. Sometimes a person needs to know up front what can be lost.
I WAS ENGAGED TO A GIRL . THERE WAS TRUST BETWEEN US BUT SHE BETREYED ME AND TOOK EVERYTHING AND MARRIED TO HER LAWYER
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Big_John: Having your partner know how important trust is to you is very important. I believe it helps to keep a person on the right path. Sometimes a person needs to know up front what can be lost.
I don't disagree with you John, at all. Trust, fidelity is what I offer and what I expect in return.
But I cannot say that I will not ever forgive them, I may not be with them, but I may forgive them.
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RobertC2: I agree.
God supposedly forgives and forgets.
A man can forgive and forget until a woman brings up the past and then the memories of betrayal come flooding back.
A woman can try to forgive and forget, but she is incapable of either.
God supposedly forgives and forgets.
A man can forgive and forget until a woman brings up the past and then the memories of betrayal come flooding back.
A woman can try to forgive and forget, but she is incapable of either.
AS HUMAN BEINGS CAN WE DO THAT WE ARE NOT ANGELS ?
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we are human and bound to make mistakes sometimes,so my answer is yes,but not more than once
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I would forgive her then forget her... Or should I???
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If it's all over what is the point on staying hurt, forgiveness will release that hurt and allow you to move on
So I say, yes, forgive and move on
So I say, yes, forgive and move on
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abbiye: we are human and bound to make mistakes sometimes,so my answer is yes,but not more than once
THE BETREY KILLS LOVE AS I TRUSTED HER , LOVED HER IN RETURN FOR THAT STAPPED ME IN MY HEART MY OPINION NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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cameraman: I would forgive her then forget her... Or should I???
GOOD POINT OF VIEW
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