Meddling mother-in-law ( Archived) (46)

Apr 21, 2009 10:37 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
How do you handle mother in law who is sticking her nose in.Do you wash your hands off? What would you do?


roll eyes
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Apr 21, 2009 10:40 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
politly tell her to stay out of ur marriage but still care about her coz she is family
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Apr 21, 2009 10:47 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
sasseez: politly tell her to stay out of ur marriage but still care about her coz she is family


surposing she always takes upon herself becoz she is strong willed e.g she does not respect your parenting and takes things the wrong way
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Apr 21, 2009 10:49 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
lol sounds like most mother in laws lol just politly acknowledge what she is saying but just ignore her advice lol
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Apr 21, 2009 10:52 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
unless her responce is reasonable and her advise is good then listen of coarse
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Apr 21, 2009 10:58 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
sasseez: unless her responce is reasonable and her advise is good then listen of coarse


she is picky.She sees you not equal to her son.she does not respect you to some extent.Again she is attached so much to her son, and even if you discuss with your husband about her behaviour, he dosen't bother.
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Apr 21, 2009 11:01 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
well like i sugested b4 nod polotlitly but just let it go and get on with it. She seems the type if u argue she will get worse
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Apr 21, 2009 11:01 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Dmire: How do you handle mother in law who is sticking her nose in.Do you wash your hands off? What would you do?


Straight up...tell het to f.uck off and mind her own business.
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Apr 21, 2009 11:05 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
sasseez: well like i sugested b4 nod polotlitly but just let it go and get on with it. She seems the type if u argue she will get worse



That means you are ready to live your life as her prisoner

crying kiss
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Apr 21, 2009 11:10 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
nah just keeping her quiet and getting on with ur life
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Apr 21, 2009 11:13 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
rocketqueen
rocketqueenrocketqueengeelong, Victoria Australia23 Threads 1 Polls 2,003 Posts
Dmire: she is picky.She sees you not equal to her son.she does not respect you to some extent.Again she is attached so much to her son, and even if you discuss with your husband about her behaviour, he dosen't bother.


well thenyou disciss the issues with your hubby then if not addressed ignore him and her.....
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Apr 21, 2009 11:15 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
sasseez: nah just keeping her quiet and getting on with ur life

I agree, with you.I discussed this topic today in a group and this was the verdict of the majority .
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Apr 21, 2009 11:18 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
rocketqueen: well thenyou disciss the issues with your hubby then if not addressed ignore him and her.....


thumbs up

But then no peace of mind yet you need your space
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Apr 21, 2009 11:22 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Dmire: How do you handle mother in law who is sticking her nose in.Do you wash your hands off? What would you do?


........Simple 'Shoot her'.....problem solved......grin doh thumbs up ....Only Joking...second option..'Run'......because it aren't going to get any better....only worse......grin

J.D
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Apr 21, 2009 11:28 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
virgiomonkey: ........Simple 'Shoot her'.....problem solved...... ....Only Joking...second option..'Run'......because it aren't going to get any better....only worse......

J.D


rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 21, 2009 11:39 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
It is a universal fact that "in-laws" are actually "out-laws" so give her a polite hearing and then just go about doing exactly the opposite.
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Apr 21, 2009 11:47 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Karma3: It is a universal fact that "in-laws" are actually "out-laws" so give her a polite hearing and then just go about doing exactly the opposite.


..What.!!!!...Are you for real..?????.A 'polite Hearing'....doh...Bloody Hell....if you do that...she never leave and she never stop 'Whining'.....Whoa....Do you mean... 'Out Laws from Hell'....... laugh

J.D grin
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Apr 21, 2009 11:55 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
get hert to babysit as often as possible
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Apr 21, 2009 11:56 PM CST Meddling mother-in-law
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
at her house
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Apr 22, 2009 12:00 AM CST Meddling mother-in-law
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
virgiomonkey: ..What.!!!!...Are you for real..?????.A 'polite Hearing'.......Bloody Hell....if you do that...she never leave and she never stop 'Whining'.....Whoa....Do you mean... 'Out Laws from Hell'.......

J.D


I'm for real alright. Indian society is still very much into living in joint families so we do not have the luxury of having our mothers-in-law 'leave' or 'stop' their whining. We gotta grin and bear it, then give our husbands hell in the bedroom. laugh
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