Girlfriend wants Polygamy ( Archived) (58)

Apr 26, 2009 4:19 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
jeremy_leo: What do you do when the girl you've dated for three weeks says she is interested in dating someone else but still wants to be with you? I'm really confused with this one. I broke it off for the moment, but I'm giving her a chance to figure things out and come back to me.
You did not find a right one for youdunno
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Apr 26, 2009 4:21 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
mrpete
mrpetemrpetebath, Wiltshire, England UK3 Threads 21 Posts
jeremy_leo: What do you do when the girl you've dated for three weeks says she is interested in dating someone else but still wants to be with you? I'm really confused with this one. I broke it off for the moment, but I'm giving her a chance to figure things out and come back to me.


get rid mate,if she likes you that should be enough,
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Apr 26, 2009 4:21 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
ali110: You did not find a right one for you


The most logical post to date....

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Apr 26, 2009 4:24 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
azdesperado72
azdesperado72azdesperado72Flagstaff, Arizona USA6 Threads 155 Posts
Run like the wind!
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Apr 26, 2009 4:25 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
gozoman2: The most logical post to date....
This is factthumbs up comfort
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Apr 26, 2009 4:28 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
zeuoss
zeuosszeuossdundalk, Louth Ireland1 Posts
It so simple tell her to sling her hook delete her number she is setting the agenda on how she want to treat you for the rest of your days i think you she is selfish and if she had real feelings for you she would not be comtemplating see other guys .
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Apr 26, 2009 5:05 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
jeremy_leo: What do you do when the girl you've dated for three weeks says she is interested in dating someone else but still wants to be with you? I'm really confused with this one. I broke it off for the moment, but I'm giving her a chance to figure things out and come back to me.


Bro it`s only life

so give it a try ( think biger , a 3-some)

grin
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Apr 26, 2009 5:27 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
Charles55
Charles55Charles55figueras, Catalonia Spain1 Threads 5 Posts
She's a slag - Dump her!
jeremy_leo: What do you do when the girl you've dated for three weeks says she is interested in dating someone else but still wants to be with you? I'm really confused with this one. I broke it off for the moment, but I'm giving her a chance to figure things out and come back to me.
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Apr 26, 2009 5:30 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
gozoman2: On the contrary.....

I threw in this scenario since it appeared that all those posting took it for granted that the girl in question was a trollop and all seemed eager to suggest so.....

Refer to my first post on the issue....never assume anything unless you have the whole picture....

we only got the version of the op....


so.. you did assume in your scenario that the girl was feeling strangled as much as the other posters assumed that the girl in question was a trollop, correct? doh
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Apr 26, 2009 5:32 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
So, it’s been 6 hours already. Did you call her back and rodeo the night away, or did you do like everybody else here told you, run, fast and you’re now somewhere on the border between Nebraska and Colorado?

Lad, don't play hard to get. Wimmin don't like men who play hard to get grin
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Apr 26, 2009 5:40 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: So, it’s been 6 hours already. Did you call her back and rodeo the night away, or did you do like everybody else here told you, run, fast and you’re now somewhere on the border between Nebraska and Colorado?

Lad, don't play hard to get. Wimmin don't like men who play hard to get


yea (i learned that one the hard wey

grin
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Apr 26, 2009 5:46 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
g33kgurl: so.. you did assume in your scenario that the girl was feeling strangled as much as the other posters assumed that the girl in question was a trollop, correct?


not really....just another perspective that was missing...there may also other not yet discussed...

cool
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Apr 26, 2009 6:14 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
It's been 7 hours now. I'm gettnig worried. He can't really still be running, can he?
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Apr 26, 2009 6:23 AM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
When you say 'dating' what does that mean?

Does it mean, you are going out for dinner and going home separately?

Or are you talking on the phone?

Or are you sleeping together?

Listen darling, work out what you want in a relationship and if you want a person all to yourself, then make that clear.

For me, I have always stated that I wanted my next relationship to be the one I would spend the rest of my life with, so I cut out all this chasing around.

If you had agreed to get married within three weeks, then that is different.

Let her go, she is a single woman, if she wants to have some fun then she can, I fail to see why she is being slain here.

Unconfuse yourself, only you can do that and once you have, then you will be in a much stronger position to decide where you go with this, if anywhere.
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Apr 28, 2009 8:49 PM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
rocketqueen
rocketqueenrocketqueengeelong, Victoria Australia23 Threads 1 Polls 2,003 Posts
if she wants an open relationship i dont see the harm in that
dunno

however if you dont want that say goodbye, simplewink
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May 2, 2009 11:17 PM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
jeremy_leo
jeremy_leojeremy_leoFort Dodge, Iowa USA3 Threads 17 Posts
ladyofthelake: Truth is she is just as confused as you are. You are doing the right thing. If you love something let it go and if it comes back to it was meant to be.


Very well said, and that's the way I feel about it. I can hope that she will come to her senses (at least that's how I look at it) and will only date one guy (me I hope). If not, at least I'm ready for the slap in the face now.
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May 2, 2009 11:19 PM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
jeremy_leo
jeremy_leojeremy_leoFort Dodge, Iowa USA3 Threads 17 Posts
CaptainBeirutIII: So, it’s been 6 hours already. Did you call her back and rodeo the night away, or did you do like everybody else here told you, run, fast and you’re now somewhere on the border between Nebraska and Colorado?

Lad, don't play hard to get. Wimmin don't like men who play hard to get


We have been taking our time on everything. I'm trying to not emotionally suffocate her and as far as I know, she hasn't spent anymore time with the other guy since last weekend. (as far as I know anyways)

I'm not trying to play hard to get, but I'm trying to make myself realize that I do tend to suffocate people with affection when I care about them. Eventually she will have to get used to it. I can't change who I am, and I LOVE to show my affection. :)
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May 2, 2009 11:54 PM CST Girlfriend wants Polygamy
BlueSkyJ
BlueSkyJBlueSkyJWoodland Hil(near Los Angeles), California USA2 Threads 229 Posts
three weeks is not that long.....did you have an agreement
on a mutually exclusive relationship?.....If not than she owes
you nothing in terms of an explanation as she is just dating & you
are simply one of her dates....but if you expect more out of that
relationship than you need to let her know....my feeling is that your first instinct was the correct one....Let her go or you'll get dragged along & hurt in the end...
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