Magicians disappear all the time, but as soon as a regular person does it, everyone is all scared. "Tom's gone!" "Is he a magician?" "No." "Then let's print up some flyers!" Paws
Well that is true ... but its still pretty damn painful for me because it just happened ... so I think its also a matter of being compassionate as well. Until you have gone through the experience and realized how helpless you truly are then you would perhaps have more compassion.
No its ok .... like I wrote I was having an emotional moment .... time heals but I'm just not there yet ..... so please try to understand its not that I have a lack of humor by any means .... its just to close for me to be able to laugh yet.
Some people hide their profile quietly. But their absence is noticed because they are well-liked.
Others have a habit of announcing that they are leaving , so that everyone will beg her to stay. Then , after 2 or 3 pages of please don't go , interspersed with "I love you, too" , she decides to stay after all. It's all good comedy.
We all have our favorites. Some we don't care about. So try to indulge the caring ones , one day it may affect you. See , I'm working on it!
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
Yes Dreamer is right, I had to check twice to see it was you, well said, but men do it too you know, go and come back, which makes this tread extra odd
Yeah , men come and go , hiding profiles . Some even come back as a new identity. SEVERAL IDENTITIES !
But I have only seen the "leaving drama" from women , especially one named ----------- *name deleted by moderator* She has said I'm Leaving about 5 times.
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