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May 3, 2009 9:21 PM CST i need some help?
baby_gurl_48458
baby_gurl_48458baby_gurl_48458mt.morris, Michigan USA14 Threads 131 Posts
I have this guy that i love to death as a friend and we are thinking of meeting and the maybe se where it goes, Here is the problem he is blind and has a lot of scars on his face from the accident that left him blind. i do not go by looks and he has the most beautiful personlity out there. i want to know if any one was in my shoes what would they do?
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May 3, 2009 9:24 PM CST i need some help?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
baby_gurl_48458: I have this guy that i love to death as a friend and we are thinking of meeting and the maybe se where it goes, Here is the problem he is blind and has a lot of scars on his face from the accident that left him blind. i do not go by looks and he has the most beautiful personlity out there. i want to know if any one was in my shoes what would they do?


Well baby gurl you are obviously a beautiful lady on the inside as well as the outside , it shows. Go and meet your friend and just give him your true friendship and see where it will lead.
Or don't as the case may be .

Best of luck bouquet
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May 3, 2009 9:25 PM CST i need some help?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Simple answer.


Follow your heart.
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May 3, 2009 9:27 PM CST i need some help?
starshinebright
starshinebrightstarshinebrightRiverside, California USA189 Threads 1 Polls 6,305 Posts
baby_gurl_48458: I have this guy that i love to death as a friend and we are thinking of meeting and the maybe se where it goes, Here is the problem he is blind and has a lot of scars on his face from the accident that left him blind. i do not go by looks and he has the most beautiful personlity out there. i want to know if any one was in my shoes what would they do?


Go and meet him, or you may miss out on a beautiful friendship! If nothing else develops, then you can hang on to the friendship. You say you love him to death.....I say go for it!handshake cheering
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May 3, 2009 9:27 PM CST i need some help?
baby_gurl_48458
baby_gurl_48458baby_gurl_48458mt.morris, Michigan USA14 Threads 131 Posts
livinglarge: Well baby gurl you are obviously a beautiful lady on the inside as well as the outside , it shows. Go and meet your friend and just give him your true friendship and see where it will lead.
Or don't as the case may be .

Best of luck
well thank you. i will go out with him. because i really like him, he treats me diffenert then any other guy has.
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May 3, 2009 9:27 PM CST i need some help?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
starshinebright: Go and meet him, or you may miss out on a beautiful friendship! If nothing else develops, then you can hang on to the friendship. You say you love him to death.....I say go for it!
thumbs up
i second that!
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May 3, 2009 9:28 PM CST i need some help?
baby_gurl_48458
baby_gurl_48458baby_gurl_48458mt.morris, Michigan USA14 Threads 131 Posts
sxc666: Simple answer.Follow your heart.
well thank you and i will
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May 3, 2009 9:29 PM CST i need some help?
baby_gurl_48458
baby_gurl_48458baby_gurl_48458mt.morris, Michigan USA14 Threads 131 Posts
i am thinking of meet him for dinner and just see how it goes.
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May 3, 2009 9:29 PM CST i need some help?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
baby_gurl_48458: well thank you. i will go out with him. because i really like him, he treats me diffenert then any other guy has.
well then...what are ya waitin' for?...go jump his bones!!...professor grin laugh
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May 3, 2009 9:30 PM CST i need some help?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
jlw45: well then...what are ya waitin' for?...go jump his bones!!...
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 3, 2009 9:31 PM CST i need some help?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
baby_gurl_48458: well thank you and i will
And good luck too you. wine
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May 3, 2009 9:31 PM CST i need some help?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
baby_gurl_48458: well thank you. i will go out with him. because i really like him, he treats me diffenert then any other guy has.


Good for you !!

I am glad that he treats you well and you deserve it .

But you owe him nothing ,as you get back what you put in ,therefore you are even stevens.

Have a ball and see how you feel after the date . Its all about you ,not anybody else thumbs up
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May 3, 2009 9:33 PM CST i need some help?
Wednesday74
Wednesday74Wednesday74Central, Florida USA3 Threads 1 Polls 813 Posts
Sounds like the blindness and scars bothers you. If that's the case then just be honest about it before you hurt someone.

scold
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May 3, 2009 9:34 PM CST i need some help?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
livinglarge: Good for you !!

I am glad that he treats you well and you deserve it .

But you owe him nothing ,as you get back what you put in ,therefore you are even stevens.

Have a ball and see how you feel after the date . Its all about you ,not anybody else
confused her date may have something to say about that, cutie...professor wink rolling on the floor laughing lips teddybear bouquet
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May 3, 2009 9:35 PM CST i need some help?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Wednesday74: Sounds like the blindness and scars bothers you. If that's the case then just be honest about it before you hurt someone.


Yeah you are right .

But I think thats what the tread is about .

Baby gurl deciding if its right for her or not.

A kind of mulling over it I would have thought wave
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May 3, 2009 9:36 PM CST i need some help?
baby_gurl_48458
baby_gurl_48458baby_gurl_48458mt.morris, Michigan USA14 Threads 131 Posts
Wednesday74: Sounds like the blindness and scars bothers you. If that's the case then just be honest about it before you hurt someone.
no him being blind and have scars do not bother me at all. i just do not want to get hurt by him. because we are really good friends.
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May 3, 2009 9:36 PM CST i need some help?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Wednesday74: Sounds like the blindness and scars bothers you. If that's the case then just be honest about it before you hurt someone.


And Wednesday ,

stop waving your finger ,baby gurl is not blind!
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May 3, 2009 9:37 PM CST i need some help?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
jlw45: her date may have something to say about that, cutie...

laugh laugh

No her date just needs to show up , he has no say !!
devil
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May 3, 2009 9:39 PM CST i need some help?
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
If you're friends anyway, then go to dinner as a friend and just see what happens. Worst case, you have a nice dinner with a friend or you have the start of something more. Only you and he will know what is best and what feels right.

Just my opinion
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May 3, 2009 9:39 PM CST i need some help?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
livinglarge: No her date just needs to show up , he has no say !!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ...i forgot...we men are supposed to be the silent majority...professor mumbling

laugh lips kiss bouquet
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