Am I Just So Naive? (107)

May 11, 2009 12:25 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
lei1020
lei1020lei1020Bruxelles, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium1 Threads 24 Posts
Hello!

I am new here at CS and this is the first time I posted on the EU Forums.

I'm quite new on the dating scene and I am still a little bit overwhelmed and confused on what to do. I met and dated a guy from CS last week and I thought everything's fine between the two of us. Now, he doesn't even call or send a message when he used to do that before.

Am I just to dumb or naive or it was just to soon?
dunno Does this happen all the time? I know that it's still early but I feel so disappointed.


May 11, 2009 12:36 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Very brave of you to open your heart like that here!
Welcome to CS.

Are you too naive or is he a criminal?grin dunno

CS guys don't really have a stamp you know? Take the rules of real life to analise men, people. People on CS aren't better.
May 11, 2009 12:46 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
hi Lei ..wave
May 11, 2009 12:47 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
guiriman: hi Lei ..


and Cris .. oppsblushing

lips
May 11, 2009 12:48 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Guiiiiiiicartwheel
May 11, 2009 12:53 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
cristina: Guiiiiiii



hey Cris ... come run away from this raging mahem ... have you drunk tequilla in piazza duomo di milano ever? .. get on a bus ...see you at 10..hug
May 11, 2009 12:56 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
guiriman: hey Cris ... come run away from this raging mahem ... have you drunk tequilla in piazza duomo di milano ever? .. get on a bus ...see you at 10..


Okflirty

giggle

I had Prit Hamburger today...with hot onionslove
May 11, 2009 12:56 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
guiriman: hey Cris ... come run away from this raging mahem ... have you drunk tequilla in piazza duomo di milano ever? .. get on a bus ...see you at 10..


You still going for dinner?hug
May 11, 2009 12:57 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
cristina: You still going for dinner?


dancin babe dancin ...dancing
May 11, 2009 1:00 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
guiriman: dancin babe dancin ...


Okdancing
May 11, 2009 1:04 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
cristina: Ok


I wish it could be real ... I so need a good time ..cheers
May 11, 2009 1:11 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
lei1020: Hello!

I am new here at CS and this is the first time I posted on the EU Forums.

I'm quite new on the dating scene and I am still a little bit overwhelmed and confused on what to do. I met and dated a guy from CS last week and I thought everything's fine between the two of us. Now, he doesn't even call or send a message when he used to do that before.

Am I just to dumb or naive or it was just to soon? Does this happen all the time? I know that it's still early but I feel so disappointed.


umm .. let me see, Lei ... you dated a guy from the net you met last week ...and he disappeared straight after ... typing

I'm off to find the scoundrel ... motorcycle
May 11, 2009 1:11 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
guiriman: I wish it could be real ... I so need a good time ..


I really think you should shake yourself more...with Italian girlspopcorn
May 11, 2009 1:12 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
guiriman: umm .. let me see, Lei ... you dated a guy from the net you met last week ...and he disappeared straight after ...

I'm off to find the scoundrel ...


Latercool
May 11, 2009 1:16 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
symbolistartist: Cool!


thanks for sharinguh oh
May 11, 2009 1:18 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
cristina: I really think you should shake yourself more...with Italian girls


you hit the nail on the head ... metaphorically speaking..laugh

trouble is Italian girls dont do much for me ... I'd take a hot Northern European girl instead anyday ...

you know the prob? ,,,,, too much blah not enough heart beating
May 11, 2009 1:19 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
symbolistartist
symbolistartistsymbolistartistHanko, Southern Finland Finland10 Threads 761 Posts
lei1020: Hello!

I am new here at CS and this is the first time I posted on the EU Forums.

I'm quite new on the dating scene and I am still a little bit overwhelmed and confused on what to do. I met and dated a guy from CS last week and I thought everything's fine between the two of us. Now, he doesn't even call or send a message when he used to do that before.

Am I just to dumb or naive or it was just to soon? Does this happen all the time? I know that it's still early but I feel so disappointed.

Ok, first of all this is exactly what happened to me too. I mean posting something serious then getting all sorts of meaningless jokes. Luckily two things happen: the jokes start to make some kind of sense for the most part, and there ARE seriousminded people who will give you a reasonable answer.

So, since I'm reasonable among a few others here I would say that this is very typical behaviour on any dating site (or off them of course), do not take it personally. People get flakey after dating so and so many... you really need to get to know a person quite well online or IRL in order to avoid this sort of thing. Hm, actually I can't think of much more to say... some guys are nice and some are just airheads with no common sense whatsoever. It's not easy to get a real life date, I think only the lucky few who live in some bigger city can have that luxury. Waiting is the gospel for most here at CS. Welcome to the waiting room!

teddybear
May 11, 2009 1:20 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
guiriman: you hit the nail on the head ... metaphorically speaking..

trouble is Italian girls dont do much for me ... I'd take a hot Northern European girl instead anyday ...

you know the prob? ,,,,, too much not enough


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

May you move to Norway please?roll eyes
May 11, 2009 1:21 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
guiriman
guirimanguirimansouth of milan, Lombardy Italy53 Threads 6 Polls 2,128 Posts
symbolistartist: Ok, first of all this is exactly what happened to me too. I mean posting something serious then getting all sorts of meaningless jokes. Luckily two things happen: the jokes start to make some kind of sense for the most part, and there ARE seriousminded people who will give you a reasonable answer.

So, since I'm reasonable among a few others here I would say that this is very typical behaviour on any dating site (or off them of course), do not take it personally. People get flakey after dating so and so many... you really need to get to know a person quite well online or IRL in order to avoid this sort of thing. Hm, actually I can't think of much more to say... some guys are nice and some are just airheads with no common sense whatsoever. It's not easy to get a real life date, I think only the lucky few who live in some bigger city can have that luxury. Waiting is the gospel for most here at CS. Welcome to the waiting room!


airhead ... moi? ....rolling on the floor laughing
May 11, 2009 1:23 PM CST Am I Just So Naive?
symbolistartist
symbolistartistsymbolistartistHanko, Southern Finland Finland10 Threads 761 Posts
guiriman: you hit the nail on the head ... metaphorically speaking..

trouble is Italian girls dont do much for me ... I'd take a hot Northern European girl instead anyday ...

you know the prob? ,,,,, too much not enough

Nah, I think you secretely like the rants. After all, you tortured yourself with female rants for 11 months... and now you're here, ranting away... You're obviously in denial my dear. Plus there's a lot of heart beating if you can put up with the rants, well apart from that one experience of course... Try, try again, then try and feel like a fool. But don't feel like a fool the first time around. WC Fields. cartwheel
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