Am I Just So Naive? (107)
symbolistartist: Hey just emotionally careful yaknow! Us women, we're sensitive and impressionable... you need to know that...
yeah, you are right...
emotionally careful.....for women are prone to fall very fast.
lei1020: It was a rather abrupt and unexpected. I was doing nothing that day and I was online here in CS.
We talked on Skype afterwards and he asked me if I wanted to meet him at that exact date.
He's kinda new here in our place so he said he doesn't have that many friends here apart from his work colleagues. I don't know what I was thinking so I agreed to meet him in the afternoon. We decided to meet at some coffee shop and talked and talked......
We parted ways and he was sending me messages and would even call me to say that he really wanted to meet me again so I told him that I liked that too.
Then we went out to watch the movies. He was pretty sweet all through out.
The third date, we went out to dine and walked on the park.
Nothing happened except that we kiss......
Then I didn't hear anything from him again.....
I was thinking that maybe, he is confused or what? But then, if he is not so sure, I hope he tells me and not leave me hanging.
We talked on Skype afterwards and he asked me if I wanted to meet him at that exact date.
He's kinda new here in our place so he said he doesn't have that many friends here apart from his work colleagues. I don't know what I was thinking so I agreed to meet him in the afternoon. We decided to meet at some coffee shop and talked and talked......
We parted ways and he was sending me messages and would even call me to say that he really wanted to meet me again so I told him that I liked that too.
Then we went out to watch the movies. He was pretty sweet all through out.
The third date, we went out to dine and walked on the park.
Nothing happened except that we kiss......
Then I didn't hear anything from him again.....
I was thinking that maybe, he is confused or what? But then, if he is not so sure, I hope he tells me and not leave me hanging.
Well did you really like him? Envision a future with him? Otherwise; a waste of time and energy... but then who am I to say really... I still don't understand men... and I'm already middle aged!
symbolistartist: Well did you really like him? Envision a future with him? Otherwise; a waste of time and energy... but then who am I to say really... I still don't understand men... and I'm already middle aged!
At first, I didn't because he is not what I really have in mind but as we talked, I saw a different man or so I thought.
It's too early to say that I envisioned a future with him but I would be a hypocrite to say that I would really love to spend more time with him.
It's not really meant to be.
lei1020: yeah, you are right...
emotionally careful.....for women are prone to fall very fast.
emotionally careful.....for women are prone to fall very fast.
I think both you and Sym are confusing human reactions that are equally applicable to males and females. And it would be bad to turn this into a women vs men/ men vs women thread.
If you didn't do anything wrong...
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
lei1020: At first, I didn't because he is not what I really have in mind but as we talked, I saw a different man or so I thought.
It's too early to say that I envisioned a future with him but I would be a hypocrite to say that I would really love to spend more time with him.
It's not really meant to be.
It's too early to say that I envisioned a future with him but I would be a hypocrite to say that I would really love to spend more time with him.
It's not really meant to be.
Oh goodness I know the feeling... and don't mind Liakos he's just not getting the female sympathy thing... no bashing men here Liakos! This is about Lei's feelings not yours! Hm, well then maybe you can send him an SMS and ask straightforwardly what he wants. Men DO need straightforward questions (gleering at Liakos). It really is true. And then you'll know.
liakos: I think both you and Sym are confusing human reactions that are equally applicable to males and females. And it would be bad to turn this into a women vs men/ men vs women thread.
not really....
just basing on my experience..... I may have had bad experiences with men but that doesn't mean that I will not try again. I know that I will find the man for me..... Life is taking a risk you know. You'll never know until you try.....but then....enjoy while at the same time, be cautious
cristina: If you didn't do anything wrong...
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
Though have to say this is very good advice too. What's your gut instinct? He isn't really worth the trouble, right?
lei1020: not really....
just basing on my experience..... I may have had bad experiences with men but that doesn't mean that I will not try again. I know that I will find the man for me..... Life is taking a risk you know. You'll never know until you try.....but then....enjoy while at the same time, be cautious
just basing on my experience..... I may have had bad experiences with men but that doesn't mean that I will not try again. I know that I will find the man for me..... Life is taking a risk you know. You'll never know until you try.....but then....enjoy while at the same time, be cautious
Tough equation though. 'Cause either you give them the benefit of doubt and then your'e "in" or you stay callous and might as well kiss it goodbye... Dunno
symbolistartist: Though have to say this is very good advice too. What's your gut instinct? He isn't really worth the trouble, right?
Of course not!
NEXT!
cristina: If you didn't do anything wrong...
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
His silence*
Ok I'm obviously learning something here... oh wait... I seem to recall... a number of silent men. Yeah well they were NOT worth the wait. That's for SURE. 
news flash!
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.
to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.
to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
lei1020: news flash!
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
Oh heck that's my trauma all over, freaking dèjà vu!!! Yuk, good it's over now!!! Better luck next time eh?
lei1020: news flash!
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
It feels bad right now, I know...but keep on keeping on....okay?
lei1020: news flash!
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
received an e-mail from him just right now....
he said everything was happening so fast and that he is sorry..... he doesn't want to see ma again.to you, M--- I don't give a damn! Good that it's over before it really started.
Weirdness disguised in existential problems may arise...
I really can't accept that from srangers...
cristina: If you didn't do anything wrong...
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
I think you should forget him!
If he is a normal adult, he should tell you what is what. He is not normal. I really hope he won't come back to you after he's reading this just to take more of your concern.
He's silence means he is not able to continue...for whatever reason. Now, is that a way of ending it? Either:
1- He has no posture
2- He things you deserve no consideration.
You should be good enough to not take him.
he sent an e-mail already....just a couple of minutes ago.
i will forget him now and move on
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It definitely is ALWAYS his loss!! NEVER forget that! Then you'll be ok...