Tired Of Being A Victim (35)
Petrolina: Nobody ever gets the chance to choose where their parents are from or where they are born - I certainly didn't get that chance!
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
sad to see u go, but why do u care about those who think that u are a scammer! u know yourself and confident u are a good person, don't let others bring u down by their weird thoughts.
Till when will u keep avoing and running away from these people? just ignore them.
Lady be proud of your parents no matter what, why do i have this feeling that u would rather belong to another nation/race.
Everyone is unique, u have things that others don't have for sure.
If u still decide to leave
good luck with that and hope u find happines one day 
------ This thread is Archived ------
Petrolina: Nobody ever gets the chance to choose where their parents are from or where they are born - I certainly didn't get that chance!
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
Petrolina ,don't go because of others opinion ,don't let them see u down,be proud by yourself and don't forget those who hate other persons they hate themselves and they are frustrated,so if u decide to go because u want is ok but don't go just because of others.But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
------ This thread is Archived ------
hey,dont think about them,stay here,dont go,dont let the canine people put u down,u know who u are that is the important,okay if they ask u again,return a chili words,dont listen to them,,enjoy and having fun here 
------ This thread is Archived ------
claudya: Petrolina ,don't go because of others opinion ,don't let them see u down,be proud by yourself and don't forget those who hate other persons they hate themselves and they are frustrated,so if u decide to go because u want is ok but don't go just because of others.
yes im with,
hi clauds------ This thread is Archived ------
you can't change who you are and you can't change some peoples minds, but you can hold your head high and ignore the ignorant. others accept you so don't let a few shallow minded ruin your chance at happiness
------ This thread is Archived ------
"Some people are just so shetty!
Be the strong woman that you know
you are.Stand up for what you are.
Stay,it'll be alright.
Wish to make it better for you."
Be the strong woman that you know
you are.Stand up for what you are.
Stay,it'll be alright.
Wish to make it better for you."
------ This thread is Archived ------
Petrolina: Nobody ever gets the chance to choose where their parents are from or where they are born - I certainly didn't get that chance!
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
But leaving proves nothing either - except that you let bullies win. Don't give people that satisfaction. You have a right to be here same as everyone else. You're being here dispels the theory that "all Nigerians are scammers" simply because you are not one. Think about it. I take it you were happy with the site other than the fact that a few people have made you feel bad. Sorry to see you give up so easily but it is your decision.
------ This thread is Archived ------
tainogirl: But leaving proves nothing either - except that you let bullies win. Don't give people that satisfaction. You have a right to be here same as everyone else. You're being here dispels the theory that "all Nigerians are scammers" simply because you are not one. Think about it. I take it you were happy with the site other than the fact that a few people have made you feel bad. Sorry to see you give up so easily but it is your decision.
well i hear also some filipina ladies are scammer too...oh boyy....enjoy thats all
becareful to me cher
maybe i am one of those too
------ This thread is Archived ------
whaaat: sad to see u go, but why do u care about those who think that u are a scammer! u know yourself and confident u are a good person, don't let others bring u down by their weird thoughts.
Till when will u keep avoing and running away from these people? just ignore them.
Lady be proud of your parents no matter what, why do i have this feeling that u would rather belong to another nation/race.
Everyone is unique, u have things that others don't have for sure.
If u still decide to leave good luck with that and hope u find happines one day
Till when will u keep avoing and running away from these people? just ignore them.
Lady be proud of your parents no matter what, why do i have this feeling that u would rather belong to another nation/race.
Everyone is unique, u have things that others don't have for sure.
If u still decide to leave good luck with that and hope u find happines one day
You are only a victim if you allow yourself to become one ------ This thread is Archived ------
People see what they want to see, and think what they want to think. But everybody will not prejudge you. You will see.
------ This thread is Archived ------
you can never control the thoughts, words or actions of other people.....
but you can control your own thoughts, words & actions.....
if you chose to leave this site that would be your own action regardless of who you want to blame.....
staying here is the bold choice.....the one that says you will
control your life & not let others do it for you.....so choose
wisely.....
but you can control your own thoughts, words & actions.....
if you chose to leave this site that would be your own action regardless of who you want to blame.....
staying here is the bold choice.....the one that says you will
control your life & not let others do it for you.....so choose
wisely.....
------ This thread is Archived ------
Petrolina:
Nobody ever gets the chance to choose where their parents are from or where they are born - I certainly didn't get that chance!
Nobody ever gets the chance to choose where their parents are from or where they are born - I certainly didn't get that chance!
You know P., your parents did a grand job on you - you are a beautiful and educated young lady, some of it is their doing one would think.
You should give them
some credit, no?Petrolina: ...
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina
Sorry to see you hurting and leaving,
but I still don't think it's them-tarring-all-of-you-with-the-same-brush case.
You see, you are looking for a committed relationship. But not everyone you come across on the web is cut out for it, or ready for it. Or even find themselves compatible with you. Some people here are looking for years. Unsuccesfuly. And they are not Nigerians. What you'd think their excuse might be?
Unless you are asking for money, it is not a scam.
Period.
If there are any dumb arses out there, who say otherwise, well...
they are just that
- dumb arses.But I still think it's your perception of ppl's perception (
)...------ This thread is Archived ------
P.S. Oh, and wanted to add - your leaving your contact info in public forums does no good to you.
It does not work this way.
It will attract any kind of odd-balls but never a person you'd be happy to communicate with.
It's simply not safe.
It does not work this way.
It will attract any kind of odd-balls but never a person you'd be happy to communicate with.
It's simply not safe.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Laura25: P.S. Oh, and wanted to add - your leaving your contact info in public forums does no good to you.
It does not work this way.
It will attract any kind of odd-balls but never a person you'd be happy to communicate with.
It's simply not safe.
It does not work this way.
It will attract any kind of odd-balls but never a person you'd be happy to communicate with.
It's simply not safe.
"True very true..".
------ This thread is Archived ------
Petrolina,
You have people vanished when they learn where you are from.
Other people have prospective partners vanished when they learn about children, about sick mother in the house, about any phisical condition one is suffering, about pets leaving in, about unemployment, about ...
They are scammers, not you.
You have people vanished when they learn where you are from.
Other people have prospective partners vanished when they learn about children, about sick mother in the house, about any phisical condition one is suffering, about pets leaving in, about unemployment, about ...
They are scammers, not you.
------ This thread is Archived ------
*pets living in
------ This thread is Archived ------
Many women get rejected by men and go on the rampage declaring the men scammers, and nothing to do with Nigerian men scammers. "Nothing like a woman scorned".......
The term scammer is so overused and abused on this site.
The term scammer is so overused and abused on this site.
------ This thread is Archived ------
SensualVixen: Many women get rejected by men and go on the rampage declaring the men scammers, and nothing to do with Nigerian men scammers. "Nothing like a woman scorned".......
The term scammer is so overused and abused on this site.
The term scammer is so overused and abused on this site.
Absolutely it is!
------ This thread is Archived ------
SensualVixen: Many women get rejected by men and go on the rampage declaring the men scammers, and nothing to do with Nigerian men scammers. "Nothing like a woman scorned".......
The term scammer is so overused and abused on this site.
The term scammer is so overused and abused on this site.
If you are talking about CS forums, I've seen approximately equal number of men and women being rejected and mistaking rejection for being used or being scammed.
But in one year on CS I did not see many of these people - not at all;
maybe before my time here, that I wouldn't know.
Also it's usually the same few ppl or an occasional newbie who would drop-in out of nowhere just to complain and would disappear as fast.
Majority here clearly understands the difference from what I see.
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
the way you look
wanting beyond need
More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
Why is this shameful?
The weird and the random facts around the world
men's perspective towards women
your favorite topic?
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,252 Views
34 Comments
Created: May 2009
Last Viewed: 7 hrs ago
Last Commented: May 2009
0 Likes
Related Forums
- the way you look
- wanting beyond need
- More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
- Why is this shameful?
- The weird and the random facts around the world
- men's perspective towards women
- your favorite topic?
- Would you hire this guy - for any job?
But somehow I am caught in a terrible web of evil for being me, every relationship i start seem to end abruptly as soon as i divulge where I'm from.
Its not ending the relationship that hurts it is the fact that some of those who tar all of US with the same brush are not even better people.
If all NIGERIANS, all 150 million of us spread around the world are scammers, would anyone of those who are quick to say we are all scammers survive our attack. Think about that.
I know L. you told me no one would think i am a scammer not even the dumbest one but that has not been my case.
But I ask, can scammers update their photo every time like i have done more than twice since joining?
Can't prove anything, so I'll leave the site since its making me very unhappy and hope that makes SUNFLOWERX AND MYMODELZ happy!!!!
If any of you my forum friends still think you can trust me contact me on ogbiko@yahoo.co.uk
So long.
Petrolina