Interesting to me is how a person thinks they can use the photo of another member and expect not to get called out. A member emailed me and sounded like a great guy and his photo was nice too. After responding to the email, I came across another profile and there was the same photo of the same man. However, the second profile had more than one photo and it was obviously his real photo. If you are going to be dishonest like that, you will not have much luck finding anyone...If you don't want to show your real face, DO NOT POST A PHOTO!
Gr8fulRN: Interesting to me is how a person thinks they can use the photo of another member and expect not to get called out. A member emailed me and sounded like a great guy and his photo was nice too. After responding to the email, I came across another profile and there was the same photo of the same man. However, the second profile had more than one photo and it was obviously his real photo. If you are going to be dishonest like that, you will not have much luck finding anyone...If you don't want to show your real face, DO NOT POST A PHOTO!
I guess I need to delete the pic of Tom Sellick I have posted then..
Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
Gr8fulRN: Interesting to me is how a person thinks they can use the photo of another member and expect not to get called out. A member emailed me and sounded like a great guy and his photo was nice too. After responding to the email, I came across another profile and there was the same photo of the same man. However, the second profile had more than one photo and it was obviously his real photo. If you are going to be dishonest like that, you will not have much luck finding anyone...If you don't want to show your real face, DO NOT POST A PHOTO!
I had a man e-mail me a while back and he had broken English although he said he lived in the U.S. all of his life. He looked very familiar and it just so happened I was watching T.V. (Entertainment Tonight) and saw him on the Red Carpet at the Oscars. I told him so and I never saw or heard from him again.
Gr8fulRN: Interesting to me is how a person thinks they can use the photo of another member and expect not to get called out. A member emailed me and sounded like a great guy and his photo was nice too. After responding to the email, I came across another profile and there was the same photo of the same man. However, the second profile had more than one photo and it was obviously his real photo. If you are going to be dishonest like that, you will not have much luck finding anyone...If you don't want to show your real face, DO NOT POST A PHOTO!
Hi! I fully understand your concerns. However, you have to understand one thing. We have a few groups of people who behave that way because of various conditions and situations they are in, such as:
Pathological lying Naivety Stupidity or just being terrible as decision makers Sever mental imbalance Freakishness
Ummm, definitely...at the very least. I have confronted the user and blocked him from further contact. I also notifed the member whose photo was used, so that he could be aware of it.
lusciousmile: Hi! I fully understand your concerns. However, you have to understand one thing. We have a few groups of people who behave that way because of various conditions and situations they are in, such as:
Pathological lying Naivety Stupidity or just being terrible as decision makers Sever mental imbalance Freakishness
You are absolutely right. I was reluctant to join for this very reason, but working the shift I work and not being into the bar scene, limits my ability to meet people. I am thinking about cancelling my account here. I would rather be alone than take a chance on getting involved with someone who is dishonest.
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Gr8fulRN: Interesting to me is how a person thinks they can use the photo of another member and expect not to get called out. A member emailed me and sounded like a great guy and his photo was nice too. After responding to the email, I came across another profile and there was the same photo of the same man. However, the second profile had more than one photo and it was obviously his real photo. If you are going to be dishonest like that, you will not have much luck finding anyone...If you don't want to show your real face, DO NOT POST A PHOTO!
Gr8fulRN: You are absolutely right. I was reluctant to join for this very reason, but working the shift I work and not being into the bar scene, limits my ability to meet people. I am thinking about cancelling my account here. I would rather be alone than take a chance on getting involved with someone who is dishonest.
Don't give up! I met someone from here. Even though things didn't work out for us, with the distance and all, you can meet someone genuine here.
I agree, i have met one man that had another photo, a lot younger and much different and when i met him, he was an old fart. then another guy wrote me under another name with no picture and i figured it out. seems like stalking to me. hey fyi i got on plenty of fish yesterday and there are lots of new men on there. i have had so many responses, two invitations for dinner and two phone calls. you might check it out. have a good day
Gr8fulRN: Interesting to me is how a person thinks they can use the photo of another member and expect not to get called out. A member emailed me and sounded like a great guy and his photo was nice too. After responding to the email, I came across another profile and there was the same photo of the same man. However, the second profile had more than one photo and it was obviously his real photo. If you are going to be dishonest like that, you will not have much luck finding anyone...If you don't want to show your real face, DO NOT POST A PHOTO!
I posted this once said hung like a horse...no one believed me but I did get mail....
lonelygirl53: I agree, i have met one man that had another photo, a lot younger and much different and when i met him, he was an old fart. then another guy wrote me under another name with no picture and i figured it out. seems like stalking to me. hey fyi i got on plenty of fish yesterday and there are lots of new men on there. i have had so many responses, two invitations for dinner and two phone calls. you might check it out. have a good day
I met one of those (my first date from the net). He was in reality, about twenty years older, creepy and also had a limp to top it all ( no offense to the physically disabled). I almost called one of my gerontologist friends to feed him super and a tablet.
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