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Jun 4, 2009 3:38 AM CST beware
goergie
goergiegoergieyazoo city, Mississippi USA1 Threads 6 Posts
I don't understand how this works but I just want the ladies here to read this warning: there is a guy here who is just stringing women along. he is telling half truths. i have learned he has really hurt some ladies. So if it doesn't quite feel right stop a minute and take some time. you may be lonely but better that than to have your heart broken. I was lucky and was warned. I had a cry about it. I felt better because I wasn't to give him the change to hurt me. I took that power away from him. I am saying be careful, take your time and if he is moving too fast beware.
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Jun 4, 2009 3:40 AM CST beware
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
send me a mail...I wanna know who this guy is..
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Jun 4, 2009 3:41 AM CST beware
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
thanks for warning,it happen to me but i move past as i can.wine
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Jun 4, 2009 3:41 AM CST beware
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
goergie: I don't understand how this works but I just want the ladies here to read this warning: there is a guy here who is just stringing women along. he is telling half truths. i have learned he has really hurt some ladies. So if it doesn't quite feel right stop a minute and take some time. you may be lonely but better that than to have your heart broken. I was lucky and was warned. I had a cry about it. I felt better because I wasn't to give him the change to hurt me. I took that power away from him. I am saying be careful, take your time and if he is moving too fast beware.


Am so glad you like megrin
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Jun 4, 2009 4:08 AM CST beware
KajunQueen
KajunQueenKajunQueenSomewhere, Louisiana USA18 Threads 630 Posts
I knew something wasn't right with that Boban guy.......


LMAO


bouquet
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Jun 4, 2009 4:36 AM CST beware
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
KajunQueen: I knew something wasn't right with that Boban guy.......LMAO


Something???? something???

What???help
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Jun 4, 2009 4:41 AM CST beware
CaptainBeirutIII
CaptainBeirutIIICaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK95 Threads 1 Polls 1,186 Posts
I too know a guy who's mean all the time and he's done nothing but hurt people.
Just wanted to warn you.
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Jun 4, 2009 4:42 AM CST beware
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
KajunQueen: I knew something wasn't right with that Boban guy.......LMAO


Boban ...... moves fast! laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

think he can be eliminated straight away.drinking drinking drinking
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Jun 4, 2009 4:44 AM CST beware
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
goergie: I don't understand how this works but I just want the ladies here to read this warning: there is a guy here who is just stringing women along. he is telling half truths. i have learned he has really hurt some ladies. So if it doesn't quite feel right stop a minute and take some time. you may be lonely but better that than to have your heart broken. I was lucky and was warned. I had a cry about it. I felt better because I wasn't to give him the change to hurt me. I took that power away from him. I am saying be careful, take your time and if he is moving too fast beware.


Can you give us a hint?
A geographical reference maybe?
Age?
dunno
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Jun 4, 2009 4:45 AM CST beware
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Lagoona and CB3, can you pls let me know also who this creep is thumbs up cheers
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Jun 4, 2009 4:56 AM CST beware
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
There should be somewhere that you can name and shame someone like put there pic up in stocks and throw bad fruit n veg at him/her rolling on the floor laughing
Cant you report these people and have them removed??confused
Finding true friends or love is hard enough without people like this adding to peoples problemsdoh
It's a wonder they can sleep at night but maybe they haven't got morals and get off on hurting peoplevery mad
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Jun 4, 2009 4:58 AM CST beware
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Nah...she didn't mail me...so the dastardly one remains unknown...doh

RDM59: Lagoona and CB3, can you pls let me know also who this creep is cheers
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Jun 4, 2009 5:13 AM CST beware
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
geminiman61: There should be somewhere that you can name and shame someone like put there pic up in stocks and throw bad fruit n veg at him/her
Cant you report these people and have them removed??
Finding true friends or love is hard enough without people like this adding to peoples problems
It's a wonder they can sleep at night but maybe they haven't got morals and get off on hurting people
Probably going to be make myself very unpopular but here goes.

We only get one side of the story on threads like this, where people are saying they get hurt, someone lied to them, cheated on them.

How can we judge? and should we? When we just don't know the whole story. There are always 2 sides.

If someone believes anyone is trying to scam them or broken the rules, isn't it better to use the procedures in place and report it?
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Jun 4, 2009 5:23 AM CST beware
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
morgan5: Probably going to be make myself very unpopular but here goes.

We only get one side of the story on threads like this, where people are saying they get hurt, someone lied to them, cheated on them.

How can we judge? and should we? When we just don't know the whole story. There are always 2 sides.

If someone believes anyone is trying to scam them or broken the rules, isn't it better to use the procedures in place and report it?


Well you haven't upset me because some of what i said you have just repeated.True there are always two sides to the story and sometimes it's not right or wrong it's someones opinion.
But surely ifsomeone is reported frequently the admin will stop or ban these people as long as it's genuine and not malitiouscool
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Jun 4, 2009 5:23 AM CST beware
Morning all or anyone there?wave
We can report people and if mods find that there is reason,the member in ? is booted off. Can't-rules. Shouldn't-logic be able to name people in forums in negative way.Simply because there are some who would lie and put another down for kicks,paybacks or because rejected love. So many nuts in cyberspace.Sometimes on sites I think 3 times about if I should answer a message from person I don't know. Then tthere are some who prefer to get to the phone calls and get things going if they will go anywhere rather fast to me. Maybe it is innocent.Maybe they just don't like to type much and would rather have that voice connectiondunno ,I get that if it is real. Just so many weird or sick people on theses sites,I am maybe overly cautious.dunno confused .
Anyway back to subject,can understand why not naming people in forums in bad way is how it is done. Although I can say I understand a few of you that have good reason tovery mad mumbling about someone you had contact with.
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Jun 4, 2009 5:32 AM CST beware
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
geminiman61: Well you haven't upset me because some of what i said you have just repeated.True there are always two sides to the story and sometimes it's not right or wrong it's someones opinion.
But surely ifsomeone is reported frequently the admin will stop or ban these people as long as it's genuine and not malitious
I have reported to people, with proof they asked me for money and they were removed.

When it's about breaking someones heart that is more difficult, I admit, but how can anyone tell if it malicious or not? Plus it is a risk you take on the internet and I feel we have to take that responsibility ourselves.

I think playing with someones emotions is a horrible thing to do, but things get misunderstood on the internet so easily.
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Jun 4, 2009 5:37 AM CST beware
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
morgan5: I have reported to people, with proof they asked me for money and they were removed.

When it's about breaking someones heart that is more difficult, I admit, but how can anyone tell if it malicious or not? Plus it is a risk you take on the internet and I feel we have to take that responsibility ourselves.

I think playing with someones emotions is a horrible thing to do, but things get misunderstood on the internet so easily.


Does that mean you wont be sending me any money for a drink a week a monday on my birthday?mumbling

That's what i said ^^^^^ cheers

I know what your saying online or via text some things can have multiple meanings.Like when a sentence as got no or misplaced punctuation it can mean a totally different thing.

By and by though cant most people tell when somethings said in jest or when someones serious??
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Jun 4, 2009 5:45 AM CST beware
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
geminiman61: Does that mean you wont be sending me any money for a drink a week a monday on my birthday?

That's what i said ^^^^^

I know what your saying online or via text some things can have multiple meanings.Like when a sentence as got no or misplaced punctuation it can mean a totally different thing.

By and by though cant most people tell when somethings said in jest or when someones serious??
thumbs up yep, and the more you see them post the more you start to understand them.

Prime example, yesterday a thread was started where the Op felt she had been cheated on she was angry, hurting and accusing, today she has started one saying she loves him dunno dunno
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Jun 4, 2009 5:53 AM CST beware
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Damn I must be turning on my computer too late.laugh
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Jun 4, 2009 5:56 AM CST beware
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
goergie: I don't understand how this works but I just want the ladies here to read this warning: there is a guy here who is just stringing women along. he is telling half truths. i have learned he has really hurt some ladies. So if it doesn't quite feel right stop a minute and take some time. you may be lonely but better that than to have your heart broken. I was lucky and was warned. I had a cry about it. I felt better because I wasn't to give him the change to hurt me. I took that power away from him. I am saying be careful, take your time and if he is moving too fast beware.


wave Hi georgie, can you let me know who he is, please? lips
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