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Jul 3, 2009 4:53 PM CST toxic love
oranges2apples
oranges2applesoranges2applesheaven, Montana USA15 Threads 1,032 Posts
have you had so much love not shared that it has turned toxic for you?
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Jul 3, 2009 4:55 PM CST toxic love
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
what do you mean by "turned toxic"? toxic in what way?
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Jul 3, 2009 4:57 PM CST toxic love
oranges2apples
oranges2applesoranges2applesheaven, Montana USA15 Threads 1,032 Posts
that it becomes a cancer that eats you from the inside out
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Jul 3, 2009 4:59 PM CST toxic love
dirko63
dirko63dirko63brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 426 Posts
Scubadiva: what do you mean by "turned toxic"? toxic in what way?


he listen to Toxic
by Britney Spears
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 3, 2009 5:02 PM CST toxic love
oranges2apples
oranges2applesoranges2applesheaven, Montana USA15 Threads 1,032 Posts
i have'nt listened to briney, maybe i should
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Jul 3, 2009 5:18 PM CST toxic love
oranges2apples
oranges2applesoranges2applesheaven, Montana USA15 Threads 1,032 Posts
i guess you all should consider youselves lucky ,and thank your god that you don't have love cancer. thanks better luck next time. oh and my oppinion if you tried pay sites and free sites, and your still on a site guess what???? you might have cancer or your numb inside. either way, wasted days and wasted nights. tomarrow looks tobe more positive see ya. how about a bannana?
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Jul 3, 2009 5:37 PM CST toxic love
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
oranges2apples: have you had so much love not shared that it has turned toxic for you?


Don't allow it to happen, because it just might actually eat you up inside.

You have to move on and find someone who deserves your love....handshake
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Jul 3, 2009 5:40 PM CST toxic love
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
All unrequited love is toxic to some point. In my opinion we all love some more than they will love us. This is just life.
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Jul 3, 2009 6:39 PM CST toxic love
angelface123
angelface123angelface123somewhere, Arkansas USA3 Threads 350 Posts
Big_John: All unrequited love is toxic to some point. In my opinion we all love some more than they will love us. This is just life.


Better to be up front with you than lead you on. Don't u think?
U can't make someone love u. If you could nobody would be alone.

comfort handshake
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Jul 4, 2009 11:14 AM CST toxic love
SuzyJ
SuzyJSuzyJThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands16 Threads 3 Polls 214 Posts
oranges2apples: that it becomes a cancer that eats you from the inside out


I dont think love is toxic...jealousy, resentment, anger, envy - negative emotions that a person may feel if they dont have and miss love is what turns toxic.
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Jul 4, 2009 12:29 PM CST toxic love
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
SuzyJ: I dont think love is toxic...jealousy, resentment, anger, envy - negative emotions that a person may feel if they dont have and miss love is what turns toxic.


More of a neurosis than a toxin or a cancer.The cure for unrequited love?...Get laid...It's only symptom relief but time takes care of the rest.
cool
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Jul 4, 2009 1:11 PM CST toxic love
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
oranges2apples: have you had so much love not shared that it has turned toxic for you?


No, because I have self love, and I reflect that out into the world.

I have experienced a toxic love, but have freed myself from the toxic part of it. I still love him, but I refuse to let it be toxic to me anymore.

You make your choices in this life, and who and how you love can be one of them. Love is not logical, but we can be smart about it. wine
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Jul 4, 2009 1:16 PM CST toxic love
SuzyJ
SuzyJSuzyJThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands16 Threads 3 Polls 214 Posts
wonderworker: More of a neurosis than a toxin or a cancer.The cure for unrequited love?...Get laid...It's only symptom relief but time takes care of the rest.


Nah..never worked for me...
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Jul 4, 2009 1:32 PM CST toxic love
ThePositiveOne
ThePositiveOneThePositiveOnePeterborough, Ontario Canada2 Threads 7 Posts
I have had it happen. I was hurt, and I became insecure for a time. However, as with every challenge we face there were lessons to be learned.

The biggest thing for me when it happened, was the point where I realized that I was insecure. My pride was hurt, and too much pride comes from insecurity. Had I been secure with myself, I would not have loved someone so much, who did not love me in return.

That's when I realized the issue was really my own. I needed to do some work on myself. I had to explore where I was in life, and what I was bringing into a relationship.

Then it became easier to see what it was that I wanted in someone else. What's more, by working on myslef, I developed enough self love to know I would only enter into mutually caring relationships.
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