i guess you all should consider youselves lucky ,and thank your god that you don't have love cancer. thanks better luck next time. oh and my oppinion if you tried pay sites and free sites, and your still on a site guess what???? you might have cancer or your numb inside. either way, wasted days and wasted nights. tomarrow looks tobe more positive see ya. how about a bannana?
SuzyJThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands214 posts
oranges2apples: that it becomes a cancer that eats you from the inside out
I dont think love is toxic...jealousy, resentment, anger, envy - negative emotions that a person may feel if they dont have and miss love is what turns toxic.
SuzyJ: I dont think love is toxic...jealousy, resentment, anger, envy - negative emotions that a person may feel if they dont have and miss love is what turns toxic.
More of a neurosis than a toxin or a cancer.The cure for unrequited love?...Get laid...It's only symptom relief but time takes care of the rest.
SuzyJThe Hague, South Holland Netherlands214 posts
wonderworker: More of a neurosis than a toxin or a cancer.The cure for unrequited love?...Get laid...It's only symptom relief but time takes care of the rest.
I have had it happen. I was hurt, and I became insecure for a time. However, as with every challenge we face there were lessons to be learned.
The biggest thing for me when it happened, was the point where I realized that I was insecure. My pride was hurt, and too much pride comes from insecurity. Had I been secure with myself, I would not have loved someone so much, who did not love me in return.
That's when I realized the issue was really my own. I needed to do some work on myself. I had to explore where I was in life, and what I was bringing into a relationship.
Then it became easier to see what it was that I wanted in someone else. What's more, by working on myslef, I developed enough self love to know I would only enter into mutually caring relationships.
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