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Jul 9, 2009 10:47 PM CST First love/divorce
I received a call from my younger sister. After 23 years of marriage, her husband does not want to be a full time parent. He also found a mistress. This is in the Bible Belt of America.
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Jul 9, 2009 10:49 PM CST First love/divorce
Why? He will lose everything, and pay for the nest 10 years +.
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Jul 9, 2009 10:52 PM CST First love/divorce
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
Some people are just dumb. He probably is having a midlife crises,but that isnt the way to handle it.bouquet
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Jul 9, 2009 10:54 PM CST First love/divorce
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
The grass always seems greener....... roll eyes

And then they always come back when it crashes. scold
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Jul 9, 2009 10:54 PM CST First love/divorce
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I received a call from my younger sister. After 23 years of marriage, her husband does not want to be a full time parent. He also found a mistress. This is in the Bible Belt of America.


I don't understand what the "Bible Belt" has to do with it? Are you saying he should be holier than the rest of us because he resides in a certain area of the United States?

I reside in the "I Screw Around Arena", but doesn't mean I do......
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Jul 9, 2009 10:55 PM CST First love/divorce
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
SensualVixen: I don't understand what the "Bible Belt" has to do with it? Are you saying he should be holier than the rest of us because he resides in a certain area of the United States?

I reside in the "I Screw Around Arena", but doesn't mean I do......
oh sure it does
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Jul 9, 2009 10:56 PM CST First love/divorce
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I received a call from my younger sister. After 23 years of marriage, her husband does not want to be a full time parent. He also found a mistress. This is in the Bible Belt of America.


The Bible belt is the belt you were whipped with growing up.
He has likely come to fear his own mortality and wants someone else to take his fear away....like Jesus used to do a long time ago...
cool
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Jul 9, 2009 10:56 PM CST First love/divorce
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
USThumper: Some people are just dumb. He probably is having a midlife crises,but that isnt the way to handle it.


It ain't??confused

Crap, now you tell me..frustrated

Why the hell didn't you tell me 35 years ago when I had a mid life crisis??sigh

The mistress was pretty hot though..devil
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Jul 9, 2009 11:02 PM CST First love/divorce
I don't understand what the "Bible Belt" has to do with it? Are you saying he should be holier than the rest of us because he resides in a certain area of the United States?

I reside in the "I Screw Around Arena", but doesn't mean I do......[/quote
In California it is 50/50 no matter what. I think there are laws there, that mistresses can be sued for the alienation of affection.
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Jul 9, 2009 11:06 PM CST First love/divorce
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
HJFinAZ: It ain't??

Crap, now you tell me..

Why the hell didn't you tell me 35 years ago when I had a mid life crisis??

The mistress was pretty hot though..
I didnt tell you cause I was just a little short of mine then. Sorry, I will try to do better.rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Jul 9, 2009 11:06 PM CST First love/divorce
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I don't understand what the "Bible Belt" has to do with it? Are you saying he should be holier than the rest of us because he resides in a certain area of the United States?

I reside in the "I Screw Around Arena", but doesn't mean I do......[/quote
In California it is 50/50 no matter what. I think there are laws there, that mistresses can be sued for the alienation of affection.


Some laws "there"....the Bible Belt does not have laws. States do and good luck suing, and proving, alienation of affection...if that is what your sister is thinking of doing.
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Jul 9, 2009 11:08 PM CST First love/divorce
most states are no fault states, and the alienation of affection died years ago, not all split 50/50 and i think ny is a tough one for divorce, used to be any way.. used to be in some of the southern states a man would not be convicted for murder if he caught a man in bed with his wife, had to be in his bed tho that was some of the bible belt
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I don't understand what the "Bible Belt" has to do with it? Are you saying he should be holier than the rest of us because he resides in a certain area of the United States?

I reside in the "I Screw Around Arena", but doesn't mean I do......[/quote
In California it is 50/50 no matter what. I think there are laws there, that mistresses can be sued for the alienation of affection.
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Jul 9, 2009 11:08 PM CST First love/divorce
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
nfowler: do we have to it is much more fun picking on you(notice I didn't use funner)



These are public forums Fowler, I am posting my opinions. No need to follow me from thread to thread and replying to everything I post, "picking on me". Believe me I am not that interesting to stalk....
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Jul 9, 2009 11:10 PM CST First love/divorce
SensualVixen: Some laws "there"....the Bible Belt does not have laws. States do and good luck suing, and proving, alienation of affection...if that is what your sister is thinking of doing.

I stand corrected, thanks. Yes, they have have always had the perfect marriage until he retired. Five to eight was not good for him.
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Jul 9, 2009 11:13 PM CST First love/divorce
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I don't understand what the "Bible Belt" has to do with it? Are you saying he should be holier than the rest of us because he resides in a certain area of the United States?

I reside in the "I Screw Around Arena", but doesn't mean I do......[/quote
In California it is 50/50 no matter what. I think there are laws there, that mistresses can be sued for the alienation of affection.


.....What....!!!...You have got to be kidding me.!!!..'The Mistresses can be sued for alienation of affection'.... doh ...Unbelievable.....

J.D grin devil
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Jul 9, 2009 11:16 PM CST First love/divorce
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
USThumper: I didnt tell you cause I was just a little short of mine then. Sorry, I will try to do better.


Thank you..handshake
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Jul 9, 2009 11:17 PM CST First love/divorce
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Being a senile Old Buzzard, all I need now is a "young chick" to help me change my depends.devil
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Jul 9, 2009 11:17 PM CST First love/divorce
steven6611
steven6611steven6611victor Harbor, South Australia Australia3 Threads 672 Posts
Well it happens in Australia & we even have lawsuits here over estates between the partners wife & mistress
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Jul 9, 2009 11:24 PM CST First love/divorce
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
steven6611: Well it happens in Australia & we even have lawsuits here over estates between the partners wife & mistress


Sure it happens. Proving it will be very costly in attorney's fees and then more than likely the judge will not rule for "alienation of affection" but just for the divorce in the end. Very difficult to prove in the United States. Proving the union was so blissful and oh so stable marriage before the mistress entered the picture is very hard to believe in a court of law.
Hard to believe someone, the mistress, has such a power over a man. Obviously, something was happening before the mistress got involved or the husband would not have a roaming eye to begin with, if true.
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Jul 9, 2009 11:30 PM CST First love/divorce
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
virgiomonkey: ..I can not fault one word on what you have said.......Have to ask this question so I can avoid those so called 'Bible states of America'....which states are those......So I can avoid been arrested if I say something wrong....which I guarantee will happen....

J.D



In the United States the Bible Belt is considered most Southern states consisting mainly of Kentucky, Alabama, Tennessee, North and South Carolina, and Georgia. Some include more states depending upon which "Bible" you read.......grin
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