Lack of interest on CS ( Archived) (63)

Jul 11, 2009 9:10 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
poppycat1: I have had both situations and its the same as real life, people come and go. At first I did think, should I ask why they dont respond but there have been people I have stopped responding to so now I dont feel you have to justify anything - unless its inappropriate, then I would block - now I assume we didnt have a connection so.......next please....

Dont look back go forward. Never forget not everyone on here is genuine and maybe they stop communicating when you are getting close to finding out they are fake!!

Happy hunting


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Jul 11, 2009 9:10 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
goldstone: You are no fun anymore...


rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 11, 2009 9:12 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
poppycat1
poppycat1poppycat1Lagos, Faro Portugal74 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: Banks are now closed due to an underwhelming interest level.



Its a good job we dont all have the same views and interests.......go follow another thread more suited to you if this is boring you.beer
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Jul 11, 2009 9:19 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Big_John: I blocked myself once, but then I forgave me and now everything is okay between us.


Now I have lost interest in the Thread also.
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Jul 11, 2009 9:22 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Big_John: Now I have lost interest in the Thread also.


Gee thanks John...not that I wasn't feeling bad already!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

You people slay me!
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Jul 11, 2009 9:24 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
azucarmorena: Gee thanks John...not that I wasn't feeling bad already!



You people slay me!


I haven't killed a lady in quite a while.... normally I just bored them to death.
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Jul 11, 2009 9:24 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
Big_John: I haven't killed a lady in quite a while.... normally I just bored them to death.
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Jul 11, 2009 9:26 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Big_John: I haven't killed a lady in quite a while.... normally I just bored them to death.


Well okay thats not homicide...it is manslaughter!

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Jul 11, 2009 9:31 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
azucarmorena: I wish I could block some of my personalities...they are way to pushy sometimes!


........'Noooooooooooo'...Really.....laugh I would have never have thought of you been... 'Ahem'...'Cough'....'Cough'....'Pushy'.....Oh, had a real nice,so tender 'Lamb' roast dinner last night ,with home made mint sauce too....soooooooooootongue tongue


J.Dgrin devil hug
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Jul 11, 2009 9:34 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
virgiomonkey: ........'Noooooooooooo'...Really..... I would have never have thought of you been... 'Ahem'...'Cough'....'Cough'....'Pushy'.....Oh, had a real nice,so tender 'Lamb' roast dinner last night ,with home made mint sauce too....sooooooooooo J.D
It was your fault jdrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing devil
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Jul 11, 2009 9:36 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
virgiomonkey: ........'Noooooooooooo'...Really..... I would have never have thought of you been... 'Ahem'...'Cough'....'Cough'....'Pushy'.....Oh, had a real nice,so tender 'Lamb' roast dinner last night ,with home made mint sauce too....sooooooooooo J.D


You are so greedy scold

I have no lamb in my fridge. No mint sauce. All I have are bottles of liquor.'

Time for a drink!
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Jul 11, 2009 9:42 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
azucarmorena: *throws sheep at you*


I'm all sheep-shape now then. grin cool
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Jul 11, 2009 9:44 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
poppycat1: Its a good job we dont all have the same views and interests.......go follow another thread more suited to you if this is boring you.


The irony is if it bored me I wouldn't post at all. Consumer confidence has definitely dropped with that comment, and now the FED will have to lower interest rates even more to keep the thread going.
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Jul 11, 2009 9:46 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
Galactic_bodhi: The irony is if it bored me I wouldn't post at all. Consumer confidence has definitely dropped with that comment, and now the FED will have to lower interest rates even more to keep the thread going.


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crawls into a hole hole
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Jul 11, 2009 10:36 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?

Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?


I had one man on here who did that to me, went silent for a long time, acted weird, etc. We're still friendly on here, even email each other occasionally. No hard feelings.

I had another who turned out to not be all that he seemed, and he has left for now. I don't know if he'll come back or not, and what will happen if he does. But again, I have no hard feelings. I'm not one to hold a grudge. I have learned to guard my heart more, especially if it's going to be a while before we get to meet in person. wine
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Jul 11, 2009 10:37 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
druidess6308: I had one man on here who did that to me, went silent for a long time, acted weird, etc. We're still friendly on here, even email each other occasionally. No hard feelings.

I had another who turned out to not be all that he seemed, and he has left for now. I don't know if he'll come back or not, and what will happen if he does. But again, I have no hard feelings. I'm not one to hold a grudge. I have learned to guard my heart more, especially if it's going to be a while before we get to meet in person.


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Jul 11, 2009 10:38 PM CST Lack of interest on CS
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
poppycat1: I have had both situations and its the same as real life, people come and go. At first I did think, should I ask why they dont respond but there have been people I have stopped responding to so now I dont feel you have to justify anything - unless its inappropriate, then I would block - now I assume we didnt have a connection so.......next please....

Dont look back go forward. Never forget not everyone on here is genuine and maybe they stop communicating when you are getting close to finding out they are fake!!

Happy hunting
thumbs up That is also always a possibility.
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Jul 12, 2009 1:00 AM CST Lack of interest on CS
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?

Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?



Happened to me in a sense. I looking back, feel as though I handled it the wrong way in just disappearing. I think it leaves them with a void in a sense of maybe they did something wrong, which in a sense is wrong to have someone think. I think a good start would be toning down the content of what you discuss with them and in what context you discuss it as well.

It's really a tough situation because it leaves you feeling as if you falsely led them on, which in a sense, is all you do if you continue to seem more serious than what you are.

In a way there really is right way, except be careful of their feelings. Although I maintain a friendly relationship with the person I had this encounter with, I know in a sense, I handled it very wrongly at the time. It doesn't always end up as well.

But again, I would just recommend that the content & context of the conversations you have get toned down that way they can get the message, even if it is subconsiously.

Should they not get the message however, then there does come a time when you need to be clear about your intentions and be more blunt.

Hope this helped a little.

~JMO~
-Rich-
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Jul 12, 2009 1:02 AM CST Lack of interest on CS
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
Da10th: Happened to me in a sense. I looking back, feel as though I handled it the wrong way in just disappearing. I think it leaves them with a void in a sense of maybe they did something wrong, which in a sense is wrong to have someone think. I think a good start would be toning down the content of what you discuss with them and in what context you discuss it as well.

It's really a tough situation because it leaves you feeling as if you falsely led them on, which in a sense, is all you do if you continue to seem more serious than what you are.

In a way there really is right way, except be careful of their feelings. Although I maintain a friendly relationship with the person I had this encounter with, I know in a sense, I handled it very wrongly at the time. It doesn't always end up as well.

But again, I would just recommend that the content & context of the conversations you have get toned down that way they can get the message, even if it is subconsiously.

Should they not get the message however, then there does come a time when you need to be clear about your intentions and be more blunt.

Hope this helped a little.

~JMO~
-Rich-


Just to add, it wasn't intentional, just things came up in my personal life, tat interferred with what I do online. I just should have made more of an effort to have had some sort of contact.
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Jul 12, 2009 1:05 AM CST Lack of interest on CS
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?

Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?


Okay, I totally don't get it. Why are you asking this question?
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