poppycat1: I have had both situations and its the same as real life, people come and go. At first I did think, should I ask why they dont respond but there have been people I have stopped responding to so now I dont feel you have to justify anything - unless its inappropriate, then I would block - now I assume we didnt have a connection so.......next please....
Dont look back go forward. Never forget not everyone on here is genuine and maybe they stop communicating when you are getting close to finding out they are fake!!
azucarmorena: I wish I could block some of my personalities...they are way to pushy sometimes!
........'Noooooooooooo'...Really..... I would have never have thought of you been... 'Ahem'...'Cough'....'Cough'....'Pushy'.....Oh, had a real nice,so tender 'Lamb' roast dinner last night ,with home made mint sauce too....sooooooooooo
virgiomonkey: ........'Noooooooooooo'...Really..... I would have never have thought of you been... 'Ahem'...'Cough'....'Cough'....'Pushy'.....Oh, had a real nice,so tender 'Lamb' roast dinner last night ,with home made mint sauce too....sooooooooooo J.D
virgiomonkey: ........'Noooooooooooo'...Really..... I would have never have thought of you been... 'Ahem'...'Cough'....'Cough'....'Pushy'.....Oh, had a real nice,so tender 'Lamb' roast dinner last night ,with home made mint sauce too....sooooooooooo J.D
You are so greedy
I have no lamb in my fridge. No mint sauce. All I have are bottles of liquor.'
poppycat1: Its a good job we dont all have the same views and interests.......go follow another thread more suited to you if this is boring you.
The irony is if it bored me I wouldn't post at all. Consumer confidence has definitely dropped with that comment, and now the FED will have to lower interest rates even more to keep the thread going.
Galactic_bodhi: The irony is if it bored me I wouldn't post at all. Consumer confidence has definitely dropped with that comment, and now the FED will have to lower interest rates even more to keep the thread going.
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
I had one man on here who did that to me, went silent for a long time, acted weird, etc. We're still friendly on here, even email each other occasionally. No hard feelings.
I had another who turned out to not be all that he seemed, and he has left for now. I don't know if he'll come back or not, and what will happen if he does. But again, I have no hard feelings. I'm not one to hold a grudge. I have learned to guard my heart more, especially if it's going to be a while before we get to meet in person.
druidess6308: I had one man on here who did that to me, went silent for a long time, acted weird, etc. We're still friendly on here, even email each other occasionally. No hard feelings.
I had another who turned out to not be all that he seemed, and he has left for now. I don't know if he'll come back or not, and what will happen if he does. But again, I have no hard feelings. I'm not one to hold a grudge. I have learned to guard my heart more, especially if it's going to be a while before we get to meet in person.
poppycat1: I have had both situations and its the same as real life, people come and go. At first I did think, should I ask why they dont respond but there have been people I have stopped responding to so now I dont feel you have to justify anything - unless its inappropriate, then I would block - now I assume we didnt have a connection so.......next please....
Dont look back go forward. Never forget not everyone on here is genuine and maybe they stop communicating when you are getting close to finding out they are fake!!
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
Happened to me in a sense. I looking back, feel as though I handled it the wrong way in just disappearing. I think it leaves them with a void in a sense of maybe they did something wrong, which in a sense is wrong to have someone think. I think a good start would be toning down the content of what you discuss with them and in what context you discuss it as well.
It's really a tough situation because it leaves you feeling as if you falsely led them on, which in a sense, is all you do if you continue to seem more serious than what you are.
In a way there really is right way, except be careful of their feelings. Although I maintain a friendly relationship with the person I had this encounter with, I know in a sense, I handled it very wrongly at the time. It doesn't always end up as well.
But again, I would just recommend that the content & context of the conversations you have get toned down that way they can get the message, even if it is subconsiously.
Should they not get the message however, then there does come a time when you need to be clear about your intentions and be more blunt.
Da10th: Happened to me in a sense. I looking back, feel as though I handled it the wrong way in just disappearing. I think it leaves them with a void in a sense of maybe they did something wrong, which in a sense is wrong to have someone think. I think a good start would be toning down the content of what you discuss with them and in what context you discuss it as well.
It's really a tough situation because it leaves you feeling as if you falsely led them on, which in a sense, is all you do if you continue to seem more serious than what you are.
In a way there really is right way, except be careful of their feelings. Although I maintain a friendly relationship with the person I had this encounter with, I know in a sense, I handled it very wrongly at the time. It doesn't always end up as well.
But again, I would just recommend that the content & context of the conversations you have get toned down that way they can get the message, even if it is subconsiously.
Should they not get the message however, then there does come a time when you need to be clear about your intentions and be more blunt.
Hope this helped a little.
~JMO~ -Rich-
Just to add, it wasn't intentional, just things came up in my personal life, tat interferred with what I do online. I just should have made more of an effort to have had some sort of contact.
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
Okay, I totally don't get it. Why are you asking this question?
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Dont look back go forward. Never forget not everyone on here is genuine and maybe they stop communicating when you are getting close to finding out they are fake!!
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