azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
Just take what life gives you....I have always lived by that saying....
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
After a while you get used to it...it becomes the norm....one day someone talks to you then they dont....or likewise.....
There is no figuring it out...take it for what it is and nothing more...
You owe nobody anything and they dont owe you anything...
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
Yes I have lost interest with some and yes they have lost interest in me; wait, maybe they never had an interest in me and it was just in my head and not theirs.
The reasons can be many and varied. For me, sometimes I get very busy in life and get overwhelmed and this internet is the first to go. Other times something in the last email message turns me off and I just drop it without any further words being said.
Big_John: Yes I have lost interest with some and yes they have lost interest in me; wait, maybe they never had an interest in me and it was just in my head and not theirs.
The reasons can be many and varied. For me, sometimes I get very busy in life and get overwhelmed and this internet is the first to go. Other times something in the last email message turns me off and I just drop it without any further words being said.
I have only spoken to two men on here in weeks and I think I have now justified at least one man's notion that women my age bore him to tears.
When that happens either way, we just mail less and less until it just doesn't happen any more.
I was thinking only this morning that I either have to leave the site, or kill the notion of ever finding anyone, because there are only maybe one or two men on here that interest me in that way at all, and I know I don't interest them.... In fact men my age on here are getting very scarce, (the ones that aren't scammers, that is).
Speaking of which, all the joy has gone out of even getting mail or having a profile looked at here too, because it is no fun having to disect every word and sentence for clues as to whether it is one of our new breed of scammers........
gingerb: I have only spoken to two men on here in weeks and I think I have now justified at least one man's notion that women my age bore him to tears.
When that happens either way, we just mail less and less until it just doesn't happen any more.
I was thinking only this morning that I either have to leave the site, or kill the notion of ever finding anyone, because there are only maybe one or two men on here that interest me in that way at all, and I know I don't interest them.... In fact men my age on here are getting very scarce, (the ones that aren't scammers, that is).
Speaking of which, all the joy has gone out of even getting mail or having a profile looked at here too, because it is no fun having to disect every word and sentence for clues as to whether it is one of our new breed of scammers........
azucarmorena: Have you ever lost interest in someone who you started communicating with on CS? How did you handle the situation? Tell them? Stop talking to them? Block them?
Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?
hi azucarmorena, where's your nice smile, please put it here
I have no lamb in my fridge. No mint sauce. All I have are bottles of liquor.'
Time for a drink!
.....Actually,now you can faint on this one,I have my faults,but 'Greedy' is not one of them.....And I would gladly 'share' with you.......But you there, and I am here.....A slight problem there....Yes..???...Now please,if you wouldn't mind, can you put your nice 'smiley' picture back on.....
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Have you ever been on the other side of the fence and how did you handle it? Ask why they went silent? Took it for what it is?