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Aug 1, 2009 4:01 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
is it ok to direct people how to behave or what to say just because your the OP?

ALSO, if a member posts a thread to try and make sense of a bewildering situation of a disagreement, is that crossing the moral line?? especially if the member no longer has a profile here? so long as there is no naming that person, insults or offensive remarks about the other member is it ok with you to do that?


THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR REPLIESwave
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Aug 1, 2009 4:07 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
wave Don't think i would call it ownership, more like chairing a meeting, if that makes sense.

As for your second question, here I think that is often seen as trying to inflame the situation again, and they generally get locked or removed because they end up a fight. jmo wine
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Aug 1, 2009 4:10 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
Well.. if you are having a conversation with a bunch of people at a dinner party, do you own that?
Can you dictate what can or cannot be said whilst debating your thoughts about the soup of the day?

And what about talking about a friend of a friend of a ect.
If they aren't there.
Whether or not it's proper, doesn't matter at all. It's still done.

Think Einsteins theories.
He's gone, can't defend himself.
So I suppose we shouldn't try and figure out of he was right or wrong huh?

There's no morality about it. Not really.
Carrying on a topic of discussion that a person who isn't around anymore cannot be controlled either.
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Aug 1, 2009 4:12 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
morgan5: Don't think i would call it ownership, more like chairing a meeting, if that makes sense.

As for your second question, here I think that is often seen as trying to inflame the situation again, and they generally get locked or removed because they end up a fight. jmo


wave wine

yes true that about the second question....other people buy in (yes i'm guilty of that) to take sides, and it starts allover again, just between a new set of people fighting over who said whatmumbling laugh
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Aug 1, 2009 4:14 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
oops, short answer
No
and
No.
grin
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Aug 1, 2009 4:15 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
Raven0: oops, short answer
No
and
No.


laugh wine
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Aug 1, 2009 4:15 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
Raven0: Well.. if you are having a conversation with a bunch of people at a dinner party, do you own that?
Can you dictate what can or cannot be said whilst debating your thoughts about the soup of the day?

And what about talking about a friend of a friend of a ect.
If they aren't there.
Whether or not it's proper, doesn't matter at all. It's still done.

Think Einsteins theories.
He's gone, can't defend himself.
So I suppose we shouldn't try and figure out of he was right or wrong huh?

There's no morality about it. Not really.
Carrying on a topic of discussion that a person who isn't around anymore cannot be controlled either.
and people referr this to something other than "Real Life".....laugh
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Aug 1, 2009 4:16 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
velvetUG: yes true that about the second question....other people buy in (yes i'm guilty of that) to take sides, and it starts allover again, just between a new set of people fighting over who said what
Its a jungle out there baby.comfort wink
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Aug 1, 2009 4:17 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
jessejess47: and people referr this to something other than "Real Life".....

real what now?
What's that?
tongue
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Aug 1, 2009 4:20 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
velvetUG: yes true that about the second question....other people buy in (yes i'm guilty of that) to take sides, and it starts allover again, just between a new set of people fighting over who said what
Think we all do it, human nature wine
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Aug 1, 2009 4:26 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
Raven0: real what now?
What's that?


rolling on the floor laughing laugh thumbs up
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Aug 1, 2009 4:27 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
rodolpho: Its a jungle out there baby.


are you tarzan?? me jane..........sweet mary janecool
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Aug 1, 2009 4:28 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
morgan5: Think we all do it, human nature



yer....i'm just too bloody self righteous for my own goodlaugh

BTW, has anyone seen my soapbox?????????doh
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Aug 1, 2009 4:29 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
jessejess47: and people referr this to something other than "Real Life".....


oh no...........my real life aint like what goes on here
laugh





uh oh
for now at least
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Aug 1, 2009 4:31 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
velvetUG: are you tarzan?? me jane..........sweet mary jane
Im a joker, Im a smoker , Im a midnighttoker...

playin my music in the suuuhuhuhuhunlaugh
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Aug 1, 2009 4:34 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
velvetUG: is it ok to direct people how to behave or what to say just because your the OP?

ALSO, if a member posts a thread to try and make sense of a bewildering situation of a disagreement, is that crossing the moral line?? especially if the member no longer has a profile here? so long as there is no naming that person, insults or offensive remarks about the other member is it ok with you to do that?THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR REPLIES


What is the question here???
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Aug 1, 2009 4:36 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
Boban1: What is the question here???


does the OP have the right to tell people what to say in their thread??

and also if a member posts a thread because of a dispute with another member, is that ok, even if insults arent thrown or the opposing member named??drinking
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Aug 1, 2009 4:38 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
velvetUG
velvetUGvelvetUGmelbourne, Victoria Australia9 Threads 1 Polls 763 Posts
rodolpho: Im a joker, Im a smoker , Im a midnighttoker...

playin my music in the suuuhuhuhuhun


you should be rastamon, not dutchman!!smoking
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Aug 1, 2009 4:39 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
velvetUG: does the OP have the right to tell people what to say in their thread??

and also if a member posts a thread because of a dispute with another member, is that ok, even if insults arent thrown or the opposing member named??
Don't think you can tell them what to say, but ok to try and diffuse a situation. bouquet
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Aug 1, 2009 4:40 AM CST threads~does the Op own a thread?? do they have the right to direct people around in it??
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
velvetUG: does the OP have the right to tell people what to say in their thread??

and also if a member posts a thread because of a dispute with another member, is that ok, even if insults arent thrown or the opposing member named??


No one own`s anything around here


and Yes its ok


(how you insult some one tels me more about you then the other person )
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