Is One More Anti Social Than The other??? ( Archived) (51)

Aug 30, 2009 2:13 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
morgan5: Hi petal good to see you Alot of smokers i know are considerate to non smokers, and will automatically move away. I agree you can't passive drink but the effect of alcohol can still effect the lives of others.

eg, here last week a drunk driver drove his car home, he killed his wife, and 4 people in the car he hit.

May sound a bit extreme, but this kind of thing is happening everyday.


Yes, thats true..

Im a smoker, and I always try and be considerate to non smokers. I have absolutely no problem in going outside for a cig, or standing in a specific smoking area if Im out in a bar.

I drove home once, a long time ago, and shouldnt have done. I felt fine, as we often do, and felt perfectly capable of driving, but ended up driving my car over the side of the road and ended up with a dislocated shoulder and the front of the car hanging over the edge of a 10 foot ditch. I scared myself so badly that I have NEVER drunk and driven again, and will NEVER DO SO AGAIN. Taught me a good lesson.
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Aug 30, 2009 2:15 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
nite morgan wave
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Aug 30, 2009 2:25 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
petalbabe: Yes, thats true..

Im a smoker, and I always try and be considerate to non smokers. I have absolutely no problem in going outside for a cig, or standing in a specific smoking area if Im out in a bar.

I drove home once, a long time ago, and shouldnt have done. I felt fine, as we often do, and felt perfectly capable of driving, but ended up driving my car over the side of the road and ended up with a dislocated shoulder and the front of the car hanging over the edge of a 10 foot ditch. I scared myself so badly that I have NEVER drunk and driven again, and will NEVER DO SO AGAIN. Taught me a good lesson.



Honestly as I hate to even tell this tho I can be honest , Showing that I have been there, I have been in about 5 accidents from alcohol and the first was MEDICATING after my Brothers Murder, I rolled a JKeep 4 times end over end, and was in Critical Cond, at 16, I DO KNOW what it does,,,,


I am proud to sat taht I still have not had one Drink in Almost 6 yrs.....


And put Cicarettes down after smoking for 35 yrs, almost 5 months ago quit smoking, Hi Petal, nice to see u wave cool teddybear
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Aug 30, 2009 2:26 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
morgan5: Thank you for posting Laura and i am sorry for your loose

I to think a drink when you go out is fine and it is the habitually drinkers are a huge problem.

I smoke and do enjoy it but if for some reason i can't, it doesn't bother me.

I do feel that Smokers have become social lepers, to the extent business's are suffering because of it which i disagree with, when Alcohol is causing so many problems within society


I hear you, M.

Yes smokers are put in a hard position at work and in public places.

But I think, some of it was necessary because a lot depends on a person.

Some smokers have respect for others, some don't.

My father never smocked in a house or around us kids.

But what about this kind of approach towards others?
My daughter has a friend, this girl had such a hard time growing up with her father smocking around her everywhere: in a house, with her in a car when driving. All the time.
She was vomiting every time they where in a car, she tried covering her face with a sweater or whatever was handy, but her father would tell her to stop this show.
She is 23 today and having respiratory problems.
The girls were very good friends (still are), I was in car with them only once, even I felt noziated(sp.).
Never let my child to ride with them after that.
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Aug 30, 2009 2:26 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Honestly as I hate to even tell this tho I can be honest , Showing that I have been there, I have been in about 5 accidents from alcohol and the first was MEDICATING after my Brothers Murder, I rolled a JKeep 4 times end over end, and was in Critical Cond, at 16, I DO KNOW what it does,,,, I am proud to sat taht I still have not had one Drink in Almost 6 yrs..... And put Cicarettes down after smoking for 35 yrs, almost 5 months ago quit smoking, Hi Petal, nice to see u


Hi Larry!bouquet

Good to see you too, my friend..wave
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Aug 30, 2009 2:41 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
petalbabe: Hi Larry!

Good to see you too, my friend..



Thank you PetalBabe, I allway enjoy seeing you , and ole Friend, that I can Relate to, I am a little sore, I laid my Motorcycle down a Day ago, and felt like a wild woman got a hold on me, Ha, Just wishful thinking, Just a few scratches tho.... slipped on some Gravelrose hmmm hug


Miss seeing uwink
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Aug 30, 2009 2:58 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
I was alerted at 1.30 am this morning by my neighbour he had found my daughter lying out of it at the bottom of our flats,he carried her up to me an she was completely comatose..puking everywhere I spent the night watching out for her,she was out with 7 of my family in a club wen she felt light headed an went outside where she got a cab home she cant remember anythin after that..her drink had been spiked in the club...thankfully she is fine but what a scare ..think she will think twice about her aclohol now
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Aug 30, 2009 3:00 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
TartanK
TartanKTartanKGlasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 333 Posts
I don't want to have smoke in my face, but I'd prefer that to some drunk wanting to kick the living daylights out of me for no reason.
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Aug 30, 2009 3:26 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
I've never yet had a drinker force me to drink alcohol that has already passed through his body.
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Aug 30, 2009 3:52 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
RayfromUSA: I've never yet had a drinker force me to drink alcohol that has already passed through his body.




Me either,barf barf barf barfdancing


I am just trying to Take all my Evils, and Make Them Positivesteddybear teddybear comfort
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Aug 30, 2009 3:57 PM CST Is One More Anti Social Than The other???
likeshoes5
likeshoes5likeshoes5Passaic, New Jersey USA3 Threads 432 Posts
let the people drink and smoke.. we have more million of them...wink
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