what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married (10)

Sep 21, 2009 8:13 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
Mulberry4000
Mulberry4000Mulberry4000Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9 Threads 4 Polls 138 Posts
what if never told you the true results after they told you there fear.



how would you react?
Sep 21, 2009 8:13 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
Mulberry4000
Mulberry4000Mulberry4000Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9 Threads 4 Polls 138 Posts
what if they never told you the true results after they told you there fear.
Sep 21, 2009 8:25 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Well assuming you mean, the woman or man you loved was married but not to you and he or she feared they had cancer, mmm no idea cos i have never been there.

dunno dunno confused confused
Sep 21, 2009 8:37 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
Mulberry4000
Mulberry4000Mulberry4000Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9 Threads 4 Polls 138 Posts
gussi: Well assuming you mean, the woman or man you loved was married but not to you and he or she feared they had cancer, mmm no idea cos i have never been there.


hi spot on mate me neither one of my mates is
Sep 21, 2009 8:43 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Mulberry4000: hi spot on mate me neither one of my mates is


I take it you are pretty heavily interested in the lady in question, well like i said never been there so i have no idea how i would react.

bouquet
Sep 21, 2009 10:43 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
passion8
passion8passion8Shropshire, England UK3 Threads 158 Posts
Mulberry4000: what if never told you the true results after they told you there fear.
how would you react?


I would imagine if they haven't told your friend the results, there is a reason.

I have gone through cancer with my husband and found that the initial shock makes people re-evaluate their lives and decide where their priorities lie.

Cancer and treatment can make or break a relationship. Your friends lover probably realised that the security and support of her marriage was more important, than the relationship with your friend. So, if he loves her, he should respect her decision and allow her to come to terms with things in her own way.
Sep 21, 2009 11:38 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
Mulberry4000
Mulberry4000Mulberry4000Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9 Threads 4 Polls 138 Posts
gussi: I take it you are pretty heavily interested in the lady in question, well like i said never been there so i have no idea how i would react.


hi no I am not but my friend is pretty sad really

best wishes
Sep 21, 2009 11:40 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
Mulberry4000
Mulberry4000Mulberry4000Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9 Threads 4 Polls 138 Posts
passion8: I would imagine if they haven't told your friend the results, there is a reason.

I have gone through cancer with my husband and found that the initial shock makes people re-evaluate their lives and decide where their priorities lie.

Cancer and treatment can make or break a relationship. Your friends lover probably realised that the security and support of her marriage was more important, than the relationship with your friend. So, if he loves her, he should respect her decision and allow her to come to terms with things in her own way.


hi sorry you miss understand my friend is not in relatonship with her, just friends thats all.
Sep 29, 2009 6:30 AM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
Ge0rge
Ge0rgeGe0rgeLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 13 Posts
I had an x gf tell me before, when I broke up with her.. that she had cancer, and a year to live, but it was a lie. Pretty sik really. I was in bits...

I don't know what I would do in that situation, I supose if she does have cancer... to do whatever would make her happy
Oct 2, 2009 5:58 PM CST what you do if the woman/man you loved told they may have cancer but she/ he is married
daffodil41
daffodil41daffodil41bristol, Bristol, England UK21 Posts
Probably best for all concerned is to do what needs to be done for the person that has cancer. To ensure that all needs are met, all wants are met, and enrich that persons life as much as possible.
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