Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again. (102)
Love is beautiful. 
But when it's gone. It leaves the cruel scars in your heart. ....Me, too. I'm afraid of love someone and being loved.
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sweetowen: If we don't at least fear, we don't feel. Nobody can say they have NO fear of what might happen.
Having that fear is one thing .... letting it control you is something else I wonder how many sit back and hope love finds them because of that fear
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almera03: Having that fear is one thing .... letting it control you is something else
I wonder how many sit back and hope love finds them because of that fear
I wonder how many sit back and hope love finds them because of that fear
I agree with you there. Never let fear control you or take over your life. With me, it's more of a fleeting thought.
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wixomwizard: Then, you are defeated already! Better to stay home and watch the ballgame.
just being a realist H, from past experiences ....
OK, a bit of defeatism can also be read into it I supose.
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Goodd luck!
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In response to: Being in love is great if my memory serves me right but falling out of love can hurt very deeply. I haven't been seriously involved for a long time. So is there anyone else afraid of falling in love?
No, not with the right person, if you let fear rule your life, then you have no life!
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Podit: Love is beautiful. But when it's gone. It leaves the cruel scars in your heart. ....Me, too. I'm afraid of love someone and being loved.
However,I'm not afraid to love another,
or for me to be loved by another.
It's the finding of a true heart
that needs working at.
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almera03: Having that fear is one thing .... letting it control you is something else
I wonder how many sit back and hope love finds them because of that fear
I wonder how many sit back and hope love finds them because of that fear
I think a lot do. Just pull in the draw bridge and don't come back out and for a lot of reasons.
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Godsgift: Yes, we're on a dating site and there's no shortage of potential partners but most of us are still single. Do you never wonder why that is?
I think it's because some of us are here just to meet friends. We're not all looking for a partner.
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snuggs99: I think it's because some of us are here just to meet friends. We're not all looking for a partner.
Whats wrong with being both a friend and lover to your partner?
I think you need to develop the interest and friendship before the relationship can progress! There are countless sites on the web that you can develop friendships on, but I think most are initially attracted to CS is because that's it's a dating site.
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Desertguy49: Whats wrong with being both a friend and lover to your partner?
I think you need to develop the interest and friendship before the relationship can progress! There are countless sites on the web that you can develop friendships on, but I think most are initially attracted to CS is because that's it's a dating site.
I think you need to develop the interest and friendship before the relationship can progress! There are countless sites on the web that you can develop friendships on, but I think most are initially attracted to CS is because that's it's a dating site.
TYPO ALERT
(that it's)
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Godsgift: Yes, we're on a dating site and there's no shortage of potential partners but most of us are still single. Do you never wonder why that is?
I think that for many of us being in a dating site allows us to slowly gain confidence in relationships after the last one failed.
The downside of being in a dating site is that for some it is like being on a ride that they find difficulty in get off.
JMO
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I am Not afraid of Love, I am Cautious tho, as many talk a Good story, But many dont walk it,
So Cautious that it is true, and not just a Game, as the Majority want to Play.... If it is not true Love, or headed that way, Im out!
So Cautious that it is true, and not just a Game, as the Majority want to Play.... If it is not true Love, or headed that way, Im out!
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Well said Hot rod and I agree. It takes time to develop into a into a full blown relationship in which both parties are totally confident in the other, even more so if it is a LDR as both parties involved also have obstacles and commitments in their own respective lives to put in order so as to be able to move ahead in the new direction.But you have to start somewhere
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There isn't to much that scares me anymore and falling in love isn't really one of them.If I do I do if I don't I don't.Simple.
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Desertguy49: Whats wrong with being both a friend and lover to your partner?
I think you need to develop the interest and friendship before the relationship can progress! There are countless sites on the web that you can develop friendships on, but I think most are initially attracted to CS is because that's it's a dating site.
I think you need to develop the interest and friendship before the relationship can progress! There are countless sites on the web that you can develop friendships on, but I think most are initially attracted to CS is because that's it's a dating site.
There's nothing wrong with being a friend and a lover to your partner.
What I meant is, there are people on here who are married, people who have a love interest and some people aren't looking for a love interest. Those people are just here for friendship. I'm not married, don't have a boyfriend and at this point in my life don't want a boyfriend. It doesn't bother me that I'm alone but I do still like to interact with people from all over the world.
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HJFinAZ: I don't "fall" in love, I CHOOSE to love or not love..
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Godsgift: Being in love is great if my memory serves me right but falling out of love can hurt very deeply. I haven't been seriously involved for a long time. So is there anyone else afraid of falling in love?
Petrified.....Terrified.....
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Polarbutterfly: However,I'm not afraid to love another,
or for me to be loved by another.
It's the finding of a true heart
that needs working at.
or for me to be loved by another.
It's the finding of a true heart
that needs working at.
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yes their is that sweetone unfortunately for the last couple of years i have not been able to fall for anyone i am more afraid of not being able to love again than the other