Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again. ( Archived) (102)

Sep 23, 2009 9:41 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
HJFinAZ: I don't "fall" in love, I CHOOSE to love or not love..


Oh no! If I'm going to risk it, then it's all or nothing! I'm a slow learner but up to lately it's beem too much nothing and very little all!laugh
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Sep 23, 2009 9:44 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Godsgift: Oh no! If I'm going to risk it, then it's all or nothing! I'm a slow learner but up to lately it's beem too much nothing and very little all!


Check out the word "utopia"...wink
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Sep 23, 2009 9:45 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
"To love, is to risk not being loved in return."grin
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Sep 23, 2009 9:45 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
snuggs99: Would you please explain your reference to "instant idiot".


I lose all rationality and emotional self preservation. It really is like a mental illness with me. I seem to change. Hard to explain!I bocome very soft and very defenceless which can be hard if the lady involved is looking for He Man!dunno
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Sep 23, 2009 9:45 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
We learn in life very early that if you put your hand in the fire and it gets burnt to not do it again

Unfortunately if you want to love you also have to risk getting burnt wine
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Sep 23, 2009 9:48 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
kaikoivu
kaikoivukaikoivutampere, Western Finland Finland16 Threads 217 Posts
thats right, cant stop breathing, when being still this young!
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Sep 23, 2009 9:51 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
almera03: We learn in life very early that if you put your hand in the fire and it gets burnt to not do it again

Unfortunately if you want to love you also have to risk getting burnt


And that I'm afraid is the point of this post! I really thought I'd given up on this stuff! Once more into the breach dear friends!blushing
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Sep 23, 2009 9:51 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
love we cannot control when you fall you fall, being afraid is not really an option it just hits and you are under it's spell
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Sep 23, 2009 9:54 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
caspatch: love we cannot control when you fall you fall, being afraid is not really an option it just hits and you are under it's spell


True, but I'm a past master at building walls around myself. Nothing gets in and nothing gets out!And everybody gets the blame!
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Sep 23, 2009 9:55 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
snuggs99
snuggs99snuggs99Dover, New Jersey USA8 Threads 329 Posts
Godsgift: I lose all rationality and emotional self preservation. It really is like a mental illness with me. I seem to change. Hard to explain!I bocome very soft and very defenceless which can be hard if the lady involved is looking for He Man!



I'm going to let your explanation go but I don't have any idea what you're talking about. Thanks for trying.
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Sep 23, 2009 10:04 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
why be afraid love is a great feeling when you want to be with them always, your mind is always on them, you hurt when they hurt and you can't wait to see or hear from them
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Sep 23, 2009 10:08 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
wolyrra
wolyrrawolyrraRiga, Latvia470 Posts
I know how to handle loneliness, but can't imagine what to do and how to deal with love. Sometimes it makes me sick and nervous and I just run uh oh
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Sep 23, 2009 10:14 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
TheWriteStuff
TheWriteStuffTheWriteStuffCarrum, Victoria Australia51 Posts
Godsgift: Being in love is great if my memory serves me right but falling out of love can hurt very deeply. I haven't been seriously involved for a long time. So is there anyone else afraid of falling in love?


It's a fear and the most delicious one I can imagine.

Although the fear is there, there is an even bigger fear of never falling in love again.

I know which fear is the stronger...
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Sep 23, 2009 10:18 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
TheWriteStuff: It's a fear and the most delicious one I can imagine.

Although the fear is there, there is an even bigger fear of never falling in love again.

I know which fear is the stronger...


Now that I never even considered, there's two opposing fears and me stuck in the middle. Thanks!handshake
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Sep 23, 2009 10:27 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
im not afraid but just im aware for being hurt again..
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Sep 23, 2009 10:30 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
I can't wait daydream
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Sep 23, 2009 10:34 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Neither can I.daydream
SummerUK: I can't wait
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Sep 23, 2009 10:34 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
SummerUK: I can't wait



gday summerwave regards from pebblesbouquet
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Sep 23, 2009 10:34 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
Godsgift: Being in love is great if my memory serves me right but falling out of love can hurt very deeply. I haven't been seriously involved for a long time. So is there anyone else afraid of falling in love?


I think the question should be 'who is'nt?' Anytime a person loses someone close to them, either by death, divorce or whatever, the physical seperation is like someething being torn off your body. Both your soul and your body are in pain and sometimes, depending on the individual and or circumstances, it can take quite a while to adjust to it.
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Sep 23, 2009 10:37 AM CST Is Anyone Afraid of Falling In Love Again.
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
wixomwizard: I think the question should be 'who is'nt?' Anytime a person loses someone close to them, either by death, divorce or whatever, the physical seperation is like someething being torn off your body. Both your soul and your body are in pain and sometimes, depending on the individual and or circumstances, it can take quite a while to adjust to it.



SO VERY TRUE!! Who wants to repeat that? If you're in a new relationship, you still usually keep that fear in the back of your mind, because the pain can sometimes be unbearable. dunno
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