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oranges2applesheaven, Montana USA15 Threads 1,032 Postslets say you are married, and have a decent job. your spouse has there own business and it seems to be doing quite well. you live very comfortably. one day after leaving work you remember you forgot to do something, upon getting home you go in to call work and over hear your spouse making a drug deal on the phone when you pick it up, you confront them and find out there business is crap, all your money and things have come from drugs. how do you feel, and what would you do? 
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oranges2apples: lets say you are married, and have a decent job. your spouse has there own business and it seems to be doing quite well. you live very comfortably. one day after leaving work you remember you forgot to do something, upon getting home you go in to call work and over hear your spouse making a drug deal on the phone when you pick it up, you confront them and find out there business is crap, all your money and things have come from drugs. how do you feel, and what would you do?
You obviously have to drop the drug business..because if you get caught, you will not only loose everything...but also your freedom!!
Crazy scenario!!
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oranges2apples: lets say you are married, and have a decent job. your spouse has there own business and it seems to be doing quite well. you live very comfortably. one day after leaving work you remember you forgot to do something, upon getting home you go in to call work and over hear your spouse making a drug deal on the phone when you pick it up, you confront them and find out there business is crap, all your money and things have come from drugs. how do you feel, and what would you do?
That would be HER business... As long as mine was legit, I wouldn't worry about it... I mean, from your scenario, it seems she's been doing it for quite some time and if she hasn't been caught, that means she's pretty good at it.
Why destroy a sure thing?
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In response to: lets say you are married, and have a decent job. your spouse has there own business and it seems to be doing quite well. you live very comfortably. one day after leaving work you remember you forgot to do something, upon getting home you go in to call work and over hear your spouse making a drug deal on the phone when you pick it up, you confront them and find out there business is crap, all your money and things have come from drugs. how do you feel, and what would you do?
I would separate myself from her and anything involving her. Should anyone ask about her, you simply say, "Who?"
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moral delima's never have a one stop simple solution.and they should never come from barely informed third parties.
i'll opt out of it and be a fence sitter.
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oranges2apples: lets say you are married, and have a decent job. your spouse has there own business and it seems to be doing quite well. you live very comfortably. one day after leaving work you remember you forgot to do something, upon getting home you go in to call work and over hear your spouse making a drug deal on the phone when you pick it up, you confront them and find out there business is crap, all your money and things have come from drugs. how do you feel, and what would you do?
I would forget about my crappy work and join her in the
drug business .....
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i do know a person who had this happen to her. not exactly the same but the basics are the same. poor gal,i won't even mention her internet dating
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For me it would certainly raise a trust issue, if i didn't know about this, what else didn't i know about??
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morgan5: For me it would certainly raise a trust issue, if i didn't know about this, what else didn't i know about??
for sure, i don't see how you could live with someone in that much deceit and not have a clue something was not right. i guess some couples just aren't really involved with one another
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oranges2apples: for sure, i don't see how you could live with someone in that much deceit and not have a clue something was not right. i guess some couples just aren't really involved with one another
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morgan5: you and me both
now what have we learned?
speak up sooner? stay more involved? a blend of some magical formula? what do you think you got out of the realization?
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oranges2apples: now what have we learned? speak up sooner? stay more involved? a blend of some magical formula?
what do you think you got out of the realization?
what do you think you got out of the realization?
i think each relationship will need different things. try not to be suspicous, but pay attention and don't let yourself be fooled again. trusting yourself, might be the key?
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that is really difficult situation,talk your spouse and discuss about this,until the things are quiet it better to stop.once the police authority knows,family will be in big trouble..all of u..kids will sacrifice too.
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oranges2apples: now what have we learned? speak up sooner? stay more involved? a blend of some magical formula?
what do you think you got out of the realization?
Thing i learnt was people will treat you as you allow them too, seeing it as a weakness, so i guess i don't take the crap anymore and will speak up sooner and try to find a solution/compromise what do you think you got out of the realization?
Also have learnt i don't 'need' a man in my life to be happy, its great if its the right person but a living hell if it isn't
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reelman90: Go for a long walk in the woods with your spouse...........
Now your talking.... whats hers its mine ....
whats mine is only mine ....
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I would be devastated. I am not into drugs, so there is the first problem for me. Then there is the trust and honesty issue. Clearly the line has been crossed here. No, I am not perfect, but I would want out of this situation.
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