What makes you take the plunge? (194)
good morning laura
yes,its take time to decide,how long i could'nt tell ..maybe it depends to the man who offer to marry me again but i will think many time first..
yes,its take time to decide,how long i could'nt tell ..maybe it depends to the man who offer to marry me again but i will think many time first..
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it would take a very very very special guy to make me say i do again ........ 
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Laura25: Most of us had previous marriage or two that end up in divorce.
A devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?
A devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?
Hi Laura.
I have learned over the years to trust my instincts.
It was because I ignored my instincts that I got married years ago. He proposed after three days. I accepted the day after. I have not repeated the mistake, and have had a few marriage opportunities since.
Yes, I would be comfortable making this decision. It would have to be one heck of a man to make me go down that road again though.
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Hey Laura,if we could sign a contract saying that he would take care of the ironing, i would march him up the aisle pronto..
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Laura25: Most of us had previous marriage or two that end up in divorce.
A devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?
A devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?
A good but difficult question. All I know is that each time it takes a longer period to heal and prepare for trying again ( 2 in my case ) Hopefully 3rd time lucky but when that will be is a serious and lengthy consideration. I would need to know them for at least 1 year and to have lived together, harmoneously. Personally I don't need a marriage certificate to be committed, but if my partner needed it then I would re-consider.P.S. 2nd was a gf, not wife
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krisha: good morning laura
yes,its take time to decide,how long i could'nt tell ..maybe it depends to the man who offer to marry me again but i will think many time first..
yes,its take time to decide,how long i could'nt tell ..maybe it depends to the man who offer to marry me again but i will think many time first..
G'morning lovely Krisha
I agree it depends on the other half,
but if you do know that both of you like each other (or you think you
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saseez: it would take a very very very special guy to make me say i do again ........
Good morning Sas
And if you do want to continue seeing him, but you don't think he is special enough for you to say "I do"? Is it fair to him?
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goodfriend: Hey Laura,if we could sign a contract saying that he would take care of the ironing, i would march him up the aisle pronto..
hi sweety
first No cheating plus if he can cook and ironing too..i hope we can request a new contract with have a rules like we mention
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goodfriend: Hey Laura,if we could sign a contract saying that he would take care of the ironing, i would march him up the aisle pronto..
OK GF, so you can't iron, can't cook ......
What's the deal then ? Can you fix cars and do DIY ....
I can cook and iron .........
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Laura25: Good morning Sas
And if you do want to continue seeing him, but you don't think he is special enough for you to say "I do"? Is it fair to him?
well thats something that we would work out between us .... And if you do want to continue seeing him, but you don't think he is special enough for you to say "I do"? Is it fair to him?
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and i think if i was with a guy long enough for him to want to marry me he would be the man for me any way 
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krisha: hi sweety first No cheating plus if he can cook and ironing too..i hope we can request a new contract with have a rules like we mention
Hey Krisha and Laura, truth is that i would just be happy being together without the marriage,that look of love in his eyes would let me know that married or not we belong together..
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ooh forgot hi laura
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RDM59: OK GF, so you can't iron, can't cook ......
What's the deal then ? Can you fix cars and do DIY .... I can cook and iron .........
What's the deal then ? Can you fix cars and do DIY .... I can cook and iron .........
And i can love beautifully..
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venere08: Hi Laura.
I have learned over the years to trust my instincts.
It was because I ignored my instincts that I got married years ago. He proposed after three days. I accepted the day after. I have not repeated the mistake, and have had a few marriage opportunities since.
Yes, I would be comfortable making this decision. It would have to be one heck of a man to make me go down that road again though.
I have learned over the years to trust my instincts.
It was because I ignored my instincts that I got married years ago. He proposed after three days. I accepted the day after. I have not repeated the mistake, and have had a few marriage opportunities since.
Yes, I would be comfortable making this decision. It would have to be one heck of a man to make me go down that road again though.
Three days!!!!! It's very romantic!
But...
I'd imagine instincts don't kick-in that soon. Lol...
venere08: ...
Yes, I would be comfortable making this decision. It would have to be one heck of a man to make me go down that road again though.
Yes, I would be comfortable making this decision. It would have to be one heck of a man to make me go down that road again though.
I'd imagine you would, yes! ...being a confident woman who knows exactly what she wants.
I'd be lost...
Hi Venere
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After my divorce I always said I'D NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN!
So that tells you what a SPECIAL MAN that Slim is!
So that tells you what a SPECIAL MAN that Slim is!
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goodfriend: And i can love beautifully..
Best answer ......
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In response to: Most of us had previous marriage or two that end up in divorce.
A devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?
None of us are slow when it comes to sizing up the potential mate. But we get so caught up in the excitement. We do not pay attention to the important stuff. So you have to "be still" sometimes. Once you spend enough time with that person, you will know wether you want them with you the rest of your life. JMHOA devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?
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RDM59: A good but difficult question. All I know is that each time it takes a longer period to heal and prepare for trying again ( 2 in my case ) Hopefully 3rd time lucky but when that will be is a serious and lengthy consideration. I would need to know them for at least 1 year and to have lived together, harmoneously. ...
Hello RDM
Good to see a man in this thread - I was about to post a special one on the same topic but slightly modified for guys
RDM59:
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Personally I don't need a marriage certificate to be committed, but if my partner needed it then I would re-consider.
P.S. 2nd was a gf, not wife
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Personally I don't need a marriage certificate to be committed, but if my partner needed it then I would re-consider.
P.S. 2nd was a gf, not wife
I think I can understand not needing a marriage certificate... So you'd wait for her to pop the question?
Doesn't "re-consider" (coming from a man) sound a bit as a favour?
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A devastating experience.
We do know better than taking a marriage proposal lightly.
What would make you to take the plunge and how long you think you need to know them before you say "I do"?
Are you comfortable making this decision?