Kids and Dating ( Archived) (49)

Oct 18, 2009 12:57 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.uh oh
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Oct 18, 2009 2:09 PM CST Kids and Dating
AustinWien
AustinWienAustinWienBrunn am Gebirge, Lower Austria Austria28 Threads 291 Posts
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.
MMMMM Don't you have friends? babysit! Or how about dating during the day?
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Oct 18, 2009 2:37 PM CST Kids and Dating
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.


my kids are more of a problem now they are older....19 an 21..

where you going mum

what time will you be in mum

have you got your key mum..

who are you meeting mum...

will we wait up mum......

but if role reversal here ...confused
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Oct 18, 2009 2:39 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
Looks like it. Haven't found it though.
AustinWien: Mmmm you need the right type of guy i recon
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Oct 18, 2009 2:41 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
Don't tell me that, I'm kinda looking forward of being just me again.
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Oct 18, 2009 2:42 PM CST Kids and Dating
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
reni43: Don't tell me that, I'm kinda looking forward of being just me again.


hey so was I couldnt keep them in a few yrs back now I cant get rid of em...laugh ...thumbs up
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Oct 18, 2009 2:43 PM CST Kids and Dating
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
I understand what you mean, its really difficult.... my daughter left home this summer to go to college in the UK... so now its easier...
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Oct 18, 2009 2:43 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
that's what i'm worried about crying
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Oct 18, 2009 2:45 PM CST Kids and Dating
AustinWien
AustinWienAustinWienBrunn am Gebirge, Lower Austria Austria28 Threads 291 Posts
reni43: Looks like it. Haven't found it though.

Dam shame you live 8,733 km away crying
I'd love to try a Starbucks date !!! with ya
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Oct 18, 2009 2:48 PM CST Kids and Dating
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
reni43: that's what i'm worried about


Ive got the both of them sitting behind me now ,their eyes boring into my back waiting on me moving away from the comp can be very off putting..but they have no chance in here for the night...wink ..wine
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Oct 18, 2009 2:51 PM CST Kids and Dating
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.


Sell them....grin
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Oct 18, 2009 2:52 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
Did you look this up. Hey I plan to visit my homecountry Germany hopefully soon (means in reality 1 to 2 years)maybe we can meet in the middle.heart beating heart wings lips
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Oct 18, 2009 2:53 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
tried that, nobody wanted them, also tried to lose them in walmart, they found me. dunno
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Oct 18, 2009 2:54 PM CST Kids and Dating
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
Boban1: Sell them....


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ..I couldnt give mine away...laugh ..thumbs up
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Oct 18, 2009 2:55 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
I wouldn't either, they are awesome boys. But that doesn't mean that the thought hasn't crossed my mind. LOL
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Oct 18, 2009 2:56 PM CST Kids and Dating
AustinWien
AustinWienAustinWienBrunn am Gebirge, Lower Austria Austria28 Threads 291 Posts
reni43: Did you look this up. Hey I plan to visit my homecountry Germany hopefully soon (means in reality 1 to 2 years)maybe we can meet in the middle.

Kein problem Reni42! Ich warten auf dich! love smitten lips
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Oct 18, 2009 2:58 PM CST Kids and Dating
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
im not saying I wouldnt Im saying I couldnt ...no one would want em...sigh ...
reni43: I wouldn't either, they are awesome boys. But that doesn't mean that the thought hasn't crossed my mind. LOL
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Oct 18, 2009 2:58 PM CST Kids and Dating
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
AustinWien: Kein problem Reni42! Ich warten auf dich!


Ich auch...uh oh


banana banana banana banana
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Oct 18, 2009 2:59 PM CST Kids and Dating
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
Reni, ist eine kurze art fuer Renate. It's a date heart beating hug
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Oct 18, 2009 3:04 PM CST Kids and Dating
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.


We Brits have the answer.

We send the little runty thingies off to boarding school at the age of about six and sometimes let them home on short visits for good behaviour. My brother treated his parents with total contempt when he came home on holidays (vacations) but i was lucky enough to go to a state school once my parents came back to the UK from living abroad.

No problem with dating.

Your kids COME FIRST.

Kids don't want a series of Unvles 'sleeping over' with Mummy.

A decent man will respect this fact.

He can be a friend first and then as the relationship progresses your kids can get to know him; if they both like each other (important for your man to like you kids AND vice versa) you can think about making the relationship more serious.

I've known women whose kids I've really liked and it was no problem as they like me too....... I've also known a woman whose kids I dislike intensely and therefore broke off the relationship.

As long as your kids come first there is no reason why you can't date and also find happiness.

Good luck! thumbs up
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