I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.
AustinWienBrunn am Gebirge, Lower Austria Austria291 posts
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.
MMMMM Don't you have friends? babysit! Or how about dating during the day?
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.
my kids are more of a problem now they are older....19 an 21..
Ive got the both of them sitting behind me now ,their eyes boring into my back waiting on me moving away from the comp can be very off putting..but they have no chance in here for the night... ..
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.
AustinWienBrunn am Gebirge, Lower Austria Austria291 posts
reni43: Did you look this up. Hey I plan to visit my homecountry Germany hopefully soon (means in reality 1 to 2 years)maybe we can meet in the middle.
reni43: I have two kids and find it really hard to juggle Kids/Dating. That is one of the reasons I haven't dated in a long time but now I getting out there and it seems almost impossible.
We Brits have the answer.
We send the little runty thingies off to boarding school at the age of about six and sometimes let them home on short visits for good behaviour. My brother treated his parents with total contempt when he came home on holidays (vacations) but i was lucky enough to go to a state school once my parents came back to the UK from living abroad.
No problem with dating.
Your kids COME FIRST.
Kids don't want a series of Unvles 'sleeping over' with Mummy.
A decent man will respect this fact.
He can be a friend first and then as the relationship progresses your kids can get to know him; if they both like each other (important for your man to like you kids AND vice versa) you can think about making the relationship more serious.
I've known women whose kids I've really liked and it was no problem as they like me too....... I've also known a woman whose kids I dislike intensely and therefore broke off the relationship.
As long as your kids come first there is no reason why you can't date and also find happiness.
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