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What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"? ( Archived) (67)

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#41
Oct 20, 2009 9:00 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
virgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 posts
reni43: Hm, and what are you doing here on a dating side were you going to meet so many evil women.


.................devil devil devil ....Did I say all Woman.???...No.????..Just as in you.....'Western Evil Manipulating European Woman'....As Seekndestroy so nicely put it....The 'Daughters of Satan'....tongue ...tongue ...

J.D

grin devil
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#42
Oct 20, 2009 9:01 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
virgiomonkey: ................. ....Did I say all Woman.???...No.????..Just as in you.....'Western Evil Manipulating European Woman'....As Seekndestroy so nicely put it....The 'Daughters of Satan'.... ... ...

J.D


Shhh about the Daughters of Satan - you will ruin our image!devil rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#43
Oct 20, 2009 9:02 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
jakeinthebox88
jakeinthebox88jakeinthebox88On A BOAT!, Ohio USA6 Threads 40 Posts
jakeinthebox88OPOn A BOAT!, Ohio USA40 posts
solsticemoon: I'm gonna let u off cos off ur tender age there sonny...


lol I appreciate that hahahaha
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#44
Oct 20, 2009 9:02 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
solsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain4,504 posts
amahlala: Shhh about the Daughters of Satan - you will ruin our image!


hey darlinwave
how are you today
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#45
Oct 20, 2009 9:02 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
virgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 posts
amahlala: Shhh about the Daughters of Satan - you will ruin our image!


....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ....thumbs up ..thumbs up ...hug hug

J.Dgrin devil
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#46
Oct 20, 2009 9:03 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
solsticemoon: hey darlin
how are you today


wave Hi Sweetie! Doing fanfarkintastic! How's U?hug
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#47
Oct 20, 2009 9:04 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
solsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain4,504 posts
amahlala: Hi Sweetie! Doing fanfarkintastic! How's U?

aww you know how it is ..a bit of arguing here n a bit thererolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#48
Oct 20, 2009 9:05 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
solsticemoon: aww you know how it is ..a bit of arguing here n a bit there


Makes the day soooo much more fun don't it?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing devil
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#49
Oct 20, 2009 9:06 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
solsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain4,504 posts
amahlala: Shhh about the Daughters of Satan - you will ruin our image!


so speakin of the daughters of satan...what u doin for halloween...maybe we shud all go n see Robert?rolling on the floor laughing
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#50
Oct 20, 2009 9:08 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
amahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA8,314 posts
solsticemoon: so speakin of the daughters of satan...what u doin for halloween...maybe we shud all go n see Robert?


MMM! Halloween is a happy time! Scaring small children and grown men! Passing out candy and laughing! Great time! Not sure what I'm doing but I know I WILL be having fun (psst...save bail money) back soon!wave
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#51
Oct 20, 2009 9:15 PM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
caspatch
caspatchcaspatchgalena, Missouri USA83 Threads 1 Polls 3,832 Posts
caspatchgalena, Missouri USA3,832 posts
when the kids were little she stayed home, i worked two jobs and we had a good life when the kids got older she wanted to go to work, which she did but that was her money, i felt it was my place to provide, and the kids were teens so they helped around the house
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#52
Oct 21, 2009 7:18 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Inthewoods: If I was younger and had kids, my wife would be a stay at home mom. My own Mother took a break from her job to raise my brother and me. I would not be into day care at all. Listen to Dr. Laura, thats the way I feel. kids need to be raised by there Mother, not some day care worker...and I do not care if you don't agree with me.
thumbs up and that is what i am doing raising my little boy at home
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#53
Oct 21, 2009 7:23 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
hopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA6,660 posts
popcorn nerd typing
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#54
Oct 21, 2009 7:36 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK8,237 posts
amahlala: Honestly, who cares? What ever happens to work for what ever situation is what is best. I've worked and supported the household while my ex stayed home with the kids. I've stayed home with the kids while my ex supported the household. It's all good...kids were happy that's all that matters in the end.
I agree I done both as well.

At the time I had the children my husband earned more and it made sense for me to be home, pus they were my children i wanted to be one that looked after them, if you can't accept the cryin,changing diapers etc why have children in the first place.

They grow up soon enough, I would do anything to have them small again. wine
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#55
Oct 21, 2009 7:50 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
Aquarina
AquarinaAquarinaChennai, Tamil Nadu India4 Threads 191 Posts
AquarinaChennai, Tamil Nadu India191 posts
It depends on the couples' comfort and their financial status, especially it's wise to be occupied to love each other better, as a mild distance while working helps the couple to want each other.

Being qualified,eligible and fast is the mode of new generation. so it's a yes to break the dependancy and be there to help each other in need. cool angel
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#56
Oct 21, 2009 7:51 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
kissmedeeply: and that is what i am doing raising my little boy at home
we own our home..no morgage no debts..and one bill hydro..

So for me to stay with my little boy at home is not a problem
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#57
Oct 21, 2009 8:09 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
Yes I know it takes two people to make the kids and that's a given.Duh LOL!!!!

I guess you could call me a traditional mother just like my mother was.I was a stay at home mother and chose to do so and was proud to do so.There was no way that my sons were going to become latch key kids or be taken care of by a daycare.I felt my work at home was just as important as what my sons father did.

I most certainly didn't sit home all day watching soaps or just plain sitting on my butt all day as some men seem to think some women do.I may not have brought a pay check home but I felt my job was equally important.
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#58
Oct 21, 2009 8:26 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
jakeinthebox88: Some call it traditional values, others call it a cage.

I happen to think it's a 50-50 split--it took both of you to make the kid(s), it should be a mutual effort to raise them.

Thoughts?

Comments?

Threats?


I think it's up to both people in a relationship. My parents considered it a 50/50 split that dad worked and mom took care of the house and raising us kids, but that's because dad was gone 4-5 days a week as a pilot, and his income was sufficient to provide for the family well without additional income. Mom wanted to work, btw, and dad didn't allow it because he wanted her home when he was home, and her income would have thrown them into a higher tax bracket without bringing in enough income to make it worth it. I think she considered it a cage.

Don't get me wrong, I love my dad, but I think he should have allowed her to work. He did allow her to be involved heavily with her church as a Trustee and to be involved in things like quilting groups once we were older.

If I dated a man who had a high enough income to support the household on his own, I'd want a choice about working, not a demand that I be home all of the time, and not a demand that I work too. I'd need the respect of choice, because I'd most likely choose not to work so that I could focus on my studies, until I was done with school.
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#59
Oct 21, 2009 8:30 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
NebraskaNubee: I'LL TAKE HEAT FOR THIS ...BUT MOMS ...SHOULD STAY WITH THE
KIDS AT LEAST TILL THE GO TO SCHOOL...

...THATS WHY SO MANY KIDS ARE TROUBLED TODAY!


Actually, I agree with you on this. I did my best to do that, and was able to do so until my older son was two, but my younger son was still nursing when I was forced to return to work. However, they still had a stay-at-home parent in their father, and he was the more domestic one of us anyway, so it worked out well. wine
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#60
Oct 21, 2009 8:35 AM CST What do you think of "The man works, the woman stays at home!"?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
hollandgirl: My thoughts completely it sounds like staying at home mom can
watch tv al day and she is not thought of as working?
Hello?
Every man who thinks like this should play mom for a month.


Agreed, Jenny. Though my mom did watch her soaps, she also worked hard taking care of us and the house, which is why my father considered it a 50/50 partnership. Financial decisions were mutual, and he considered she did her part to earn the paycheck as well.

Good to see you, lady. hug
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