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Oct 26, 2009 1:19 PM CST last moments with special one...
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
how things go with u ,when u notice that he or she is gonna died soon?what memorable things u can do to make him or her happy before he close his eyes?
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Oct 26, 2009 1:27 PM CST last moments with special one...
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
krisha: how things go with u ,when u notice that he or she is gonna died soon?what memorable things u can do to make him or her happy before he close his eyes?


I let him know that it was okay to go, and that I'd always love him, and kissed his lips...and later than day he did finally let go so he'd have peace and be free of suffering...10/13/2007, RIP Gene.

All you can do is let them know how much you love them, share memories if you have time, and let them know it's okay for them to leave. Even if they don't seem to be aware of what's going on because of drugs they're on, they do know. Hearing is the last sense to go. bouquet
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Oct 26, 2009 1:30 PM CST last moments with special one...
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
druidess6308: I let him know that it was okay to go, and that I'd always love him, and kissed his lips...and later than day he did finally let go so he'd have peace and be free of suffering...10/13/2007, RIP Gene.

All you can do is let them know how much you love them, share memories if you have time, and let them know it's okay for them to leave. Even if they don't seem to be aware of what's going on because of drugs they're on, they do know. Hearing is the last sense to go.


hi drudes,just remember this dayhug i know he is happy and have peace,were ever he isbouquet teddybear
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Oct 26, 2009 1:36 PM CST last moments with special one...
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
krisha: hi drudes,just remember this day i know he is happy and have peace,were ever he is


Oh, I know that too, Krisha. And so do I, finally. This year has been full of my letting go of him the rest of the way and finally being in a good enough place to be ready for a serious relationship. I'll always remember him, miss him, and love him...I wouldn't have a heart if I didn't...but I don't dwell on it anymore. I've finally started to live, and enjoy, my life as a single woman. wine

teddybear
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Oct 26, 2009 1:44 PM CST last moments with special one...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
druidess6308: Oh, I know that too, Krisha. And so do I, finally. This year has been full of my letting go of him the rest of the way and finally being in a good enough place to be ready for a serious relationship. I'll always remember him, miss him, and love him...I wouldn't have a heart if I didn't...but I don't dwell on it anymore. I've finally started to live, and enjoy, my life as a single woman.
oh i wanna give you a hug hug hug hug
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Oct 26, 2009 1:46 PM CST last moments with special one...
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
druidess6308: Oh, I know that too, Krisha. And so do I, finally. This year has been full of my letting go of him the rest of the way and finally being in a good enough place to be ready for a serious relationship. I'll always remember him, miss him, and love him...I wouldn't have a heart if I didn't...but I don't dwell on it anymore. I've finally started to live, and enjoy, my life as a single woman.


thanks hun,there is time we try to find his personality to others but we couldnt,right?i am ready too just thoughts for himteddybear
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Oct 26, 2009 1:46 PM CST last moments with special one...
In response to: how things go with u ,when u notice that he or she is gonna died soon?what memorable things u can do to make him or her happy before he close his eyes?

let them know you are with them for their last long journey bid them farewell in a loving manner and be strong for themhug hug
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Oct 26, 2009 1:48 PM CST last moments with special one...
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
caspatch: let them know you are with them for their last long journey bid them farewell in a loving manner and be strong for them
hug hug
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Oct 26, 2009 1:50 PM CST last moments with special one...
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
morgan5: oh i wanna give you a hug
Back at ya, Morgan. And a few for all of those who have lost anyone they love. hug hug hug hug

Good thread, Krisha, for those who may not have faced this yet to learn from those who have been there.
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Oct 26, 2009 1:50 PM CST last moments with special one...
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
I don't feel so well, suddenly... I think I'm dieing... laugh
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Oct 26, 2009 1:54 PM CST last moments with special one...
costagirl
costagirlcostagirlCosta Calida, Murcia Spain6 Threads 688 Posts
Grandepensees: I don't feel so well, suddenly... I think I'm dieing...


CPR coming your way

grin
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Oct 26, 2009 1:55 PM CST last moments with special one...
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
costagirl: CPR coming your way


wave ...Huh,uh oh I mean crying ...
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Oct 26, 2009 2:01 PM CST last moments with special one...
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
druidess6308: Back at ya, Morgan. And a few for all of those who have lost anyone they love.

Good thread, Krisha, for those who may not have faced this yet to learn from those who have been there.
I think every day of the Grandaughter i never met, she is so beautiful in her pictures I can't even look at them
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Oct 26, 2009 2:09 PM CST last moments with special one...
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
hug sad flower
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Oct 26, 2009 2:09 PM CST last moments with special one...
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
Druidess, that was for you...
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Oct 26, 2009 3:05 PM CST last moments with special one...
caspatch: let them know you are with them for their last long journey bid them farewell in a loving manner and be strong for them
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Oct 26, 2009 3:05 PM CST last moments with special one...
morgan5: oh i wanna give you a hug


Me too.
teddybear teddybear
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Oct 26, 2009 3:08 PM CST last moments with special one...
Been there done thatmyself and now I've turned over a brand new chapter and turning new pages in my life.
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Oct 26, 2009 3:11 PM CST last moments with special one...
gopi59
gopi59gopi59chennai, Tamil Nadu India20 Threads 2 Polls 260 Posts
krisha: how things go with u ,when u notice that he or she is gonna died soon?what memorable things u can do to make him or her happy before he close his eyes?


Just know that they have just moved on to another world....but are with you even now......just reach out an connect.......you can feel them and get messages and guidance..........try it.......hug
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Oct 26, 2009 3:14 PM CST last moments with special one...
gopi59: Just know that they have just moved on to another world....but are with you even now......just reach out an connect.......you can feel them and get messages and guidance..........try it.......


so true.hug hug
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