are we too fussy ( Archived) (35)

Well said. I think what has happened over the years is that some people really have had very good luck finding their soulmate randomly or spontaneously, and that's fantastic. Really. The problem is that, like the romance novels depicting such meetings, they are rare. Sweet, but rare. It's just too difficult in so many ways when a person extends so much trust and then ruined (in many different ways) by the dishonest partner. If I had my way, meeting the right person by chance would be my choice--it sounds so endearing. But the era we are living in is just too dangerous for this. Love, and love at first sight, etc... is perhaps the most marvelous part of Life any of us can hope for. The times have changed and dictated a closer look at these issues of relationships. It's really too bad, but it is a reality. Don't get me wrong-I am extremely happy for the couples who have been able to find it this lovely way, though.

Fussy no .........complicated , difficult , un-decisive , perhaps