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Nov 5, 2009 12:22 PM CST CHEMISTRY
RLML48
RLML48RLML48Charleston, South Carolina USA2 Threads 288 Posts
I thank you for your honest opinion. However, if you are just dating for no special reason, just for having fun, then, of course, chemistry is not important.
SoldierByte: Personally I cannot agree with you on this..
Although I am not seeking anyone now..
I was, and had for a good number of years..
I had found, that a LOT of prospective women
I dated WANTED "chemistry" and for 'things"
to work.. I even found that when things were
"borderline", or even "not quite".. MANY did
not care, and were willing to "settle"..
I'm no expert, and just my opinion..
but if I had to "classify" my experience
at "date" sites..
I'd say MOST are lonly, serious, and ready..
a few are scammers, players, and users..
a small percentage of your basic "professionals"..
and a smidgen of fun seekers and the promiscuious.(sp).
I am sorry to hear you have had such bad luck
and hurt...
MAYBE.. if YOU were more "selective" in your choices
AND did some homework (background check/proof, etc.)
you could avoid the 'troubles' you lament about..
AND..
BTW..
If you send me your credit card numbers..
I'll have "mr. Perfect/ Prince charming at your house PRONTO..!!
---SoldierByte---
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Nov 5, 2009 12:37 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
RLML48: Don't dismiss anything until you get the facts...meet face to face which is the real deal, and you'll never know who he/she is until that moment.


I was hoping to do just that..unfortunately the internet is open to a great deal of misinterpretation!
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Nov 5, 2009 1:27 PM CST CHEMISTRY
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
solsticemoon: I was hoping to do just that..unfortunately the internet is open to a great deal of misinterpretation!


Amen! mumbling
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Nov 5, 2009 1:31 PM CST CHEMISTRY
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
solsticemoon: I agree to a certain extent with this, but I have chatted online with a lot of people and never felt a definite connection with anyone.Yes I've made some good friends and had a laugh but no instant chemistry so to speak.
So what happens if and when you do begin chatting with someone and there is an instant, indescribable sense of just having clicked...Do you keep chatting knowing that you will meet and it may all be an illusion, or do you just dismiss it as an impossibility as if you have not met in RL it can't be real?


No chemistry with me?

My ego is just so TOTALLY deflated!

I think I'm going to cry.............. crying

Women! tongue
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Nov 5, 2009 1:36 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
nottoo2525: Amen!


hey sweetiewave wave
how are you todayhug
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Nov 5, 2009 1:44 PM CST CHEMISTRY
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
solsticemoon: hey sweetie
how are you today


Good thanks.
Think I will start a new thread though about the amen topic. Think it would be a good one. rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 5, 2009 1:50 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
RobertC2: I had a WONDERFUL time............... and it was great meeting not only Nina again, but dragonfly again and YOU for the first time and then later on Sunday my best friend Wendy in Cava del Roga............... we went out for a Chinese and had a pleasant few hours together (she'd been out on a Halloween party as well but wasn't suffering quite as much as you! Ha!)


cabo de roig..just incase any hot spanish ladies are wondering where you went!
what can i say..party all night suffer next day..but I wasnt too bad!
could still handle you sweetierolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tho you seem to have really made a pal with paddy lad!laugh
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Nov 5, 2009 1:50 PM CST CHEMISTRY
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Englishman55: Holidat... is that a type of Spanish Hat... ?


She wasn't wearing a hat.................. but she looked as though she could have hid under one! grin
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Nov 5, 2009 1:51 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
nottoo2525: Good thanks.
Think I will start a new thread though about the amen topic. Think it would be a good one.


go for it darlin..just don't mention religion!laugh thumbs up devil
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Nov 5, 2009 1:51 PM CST CHEMISTRY
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
solsticemoon: cabo de roig..just incase any hot spanish ladies are wondering where you went!
what can i say..party all night suffer next day..but I wasnt too bad!
could still handle you sweetie tho you seem to have really made a pal with paddy lad!


I adore a woman with a gay doggie called 'Paddy' heart wings !
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Nov 5, 2009 1:52 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
Englishman55: Holidat... is that a type of Spanish Hat... ?


Yeh..I'm now having to wear my grovelling hat!moping
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Nov 5, 2009 1:52 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
RobertC2: I adore a woman with a gay doggie called 'Paddy' !


you adore every and any woman u old tart!rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 5, 2009 1:56 PM CST CHEMISTRY
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
solsticemoon: you adore every and any woman u old tart!


but I adore some more than others! batting blushing grin
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Nov 5, 2009 1:59 PM CST CHEMISTRY
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
RobertC2: but I adore some more than others!


Hopefully its the lady whose dog ur holding!tongue
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Nov 6, 2009 12:39 AM CST CHEMISTRY
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
no I've never found this; I think you are mistaken; many peopel think they are finding chemistry but in reality this person never was really that serious from the start. The internet is full of people communicating with several people and then disappearing leaving the other person clueless as to what happened.

Be wary; dating in the real world is still 100 times better than internet dating.
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Nov 6, 2009 12:41 AM CST CHEMISTRY
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
hmmm..chemistrycool people should talk about chemistry only if they "understand" what it really iscool
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Nov 6, 2009 12:44 AM CST CHEMISTRY
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
It is all about perception and looks. Chemistry virtually has nothing to do it.cool
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Nov 6, 2009 2:32 AM CST CHEMISTRY
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
i dont do chemistry.....




..... ever since that high school incident !!!!!


i swear i mixed what the teacher said.....


how was i supposed to know that "ml" did not stand for "Many Liters"???????????????dunno dunno dunno




i still cant believe they flunked me and kicked me out.... they were gonna remodel the building anyways !!!!doh doh doh
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Nov 6, 2009 6:17 AM CST CHEMISTRY
longhairedwoman
longhairedwomanlonghairedwomanRiverhead, New York USA3 Threads 1 Polls 187 Posts
I'm never quite sure what people mean when they talk about 'chemistry;' if it's that instant "Oh man, I want him!" feeling, that rarely happens to me.

There are 2 ways I am attracted to someone: one way is to their physical presence immediately (which is rare), and the other way is when I get to know someone and I begin to care about him. A man who could be considered 'average-looking' can look like the most handsome man in the world to me when I respect and admire him.
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Nov 6, 2009 6:23 AM CST CHEMISTRY
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Have not found any chemistry in a long while - I think it is extinct sleep
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