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#1
Nov 23, 2009 9:12 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
PolarbutterflyOPunknown, Northwest Territories Canada9,486 posts
Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?




conversing
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#2
Nov 23, 2009 9:16 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?


Probably not.... but there are lots of factors here.

The first being whether she was still emotionally attached to the father. The pure fact that she is still only pregnant would surely suggest the answer is yes. !

Unless I knew the woman beforehand, I would probably not even approach a pregnent woman for the saame reason.

I guess it all depends on the circumstances, but I would want to know more from her, before even considering what my feelings would be on bringing up another mans child.

dunno
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#3
Nov 23, 2009 9:18 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?


Are you pregnant then ???
grin
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#4
Nov 23, 2009 9:18 AM CST Mother to be and single.
fiddler
fiddlerfiddlerinverness, Highland, Scotland UK1 Posts
fiddlerinverness, Highland, Scotland UK1 posts
Yes i would and why not you never know what can happen, i would say its the fathers miss fortune, i am 54 and never had any kidds of my own, but there would have to be a spark between the woman and myslef first, there you go hows that.Joe.
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#5
Nov 23, 2009 9:21 AM CST Mother to be and single.
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
drbombayStaten Island, New York USA5,391 posts
No way!
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#6
Nov 23, 2009 9:22 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
PolarbutterflyOPunknown, Northwest Territories Canada9,486 posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Englishman55: Are you pregnant then ???
Me?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#7
Nov 23, 2009 9:23 AM CST Mother to be and single.
scousedon
scousedonscousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK14 Threads 4 Polls 1,643 Posts
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?


The straight answer for me would be no, not under any circumstance as I know me well enough to know that relationships are difficult (for me) under the best of circumstances. To have to be there through the pregnancy and the emotinal drama attached I would find it too above and beyond my call of duty. Sorry but that is how I feel PB.
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#8
Nov 23, 2009 9:27 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
PolarbutterflyOPunknown, Northwest Territories Canada9,486 posts
I have a friend who lost her husband about
the same time I lost mine and she was pregnant.
I lost my husband when my youngest daughter was just
over a month;at least my daughter got the chance
to be known by her dad;my friend's husband never got
to hold his baby.Thank you for posting and good to see you.

hug
fiddler: Yes i would and why not you never know what can happen, i would say its the fathers miss fortune, i am 54 and never had any kidds of my own, but there would have to be a spark between the woman and myslef first, there you go hows that.Joe.
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#9
Nov 23, 2009 9:35 AM CST Mother to be and single.
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
LusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland1,870 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?


I got asked out a number of times when I was pregnant on my first.

It was blatantly obvious that I was expecting so the question as to whether the guys knew about it just doesn't factor.
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#10
Nov 23, 2009 9:39 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
PolarbutterflyOPunknown, Northwest Territories Canada9,486 posts
scousedon: The straight answer for me would be no, not under any circumstance as I know me well enough to know that relationships are difficult (for me) under the best of circumstances. To have to be there through the pregnancy and the emotinal drama attached I would find it too above and beyond my call of duty. Sorry but that is how I feel PB.


Please clarify,if you can?conversing
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#11
Nov 23, 2009 9:48 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Welderguy007
Welderguy007Welderguy007Barrie, Ontario Canada3 Threads 19 Posts
Welderguy007Barrie, Ontario Canada19 posts
Me personally. NO
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#12
Nov 23, 2009 9:49 AM CST Mother to be and single.
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
SoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?

Personally...???
I been there..
DONE it..
and got four daughters and my grey hair..purple heart
I have my own personal feelings on unwed mothers..
but I believe each and every decision/choice
is an individual one that both parties must
decide/agree, and accept...
Anything else is meer banter, opinion, and conjecture..professor
And as from similiar thread topics..
is MY opinion...
and MINE alone...
Question WAS asked..
I replied...tip hat
---SoldierByte---typing
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#13
Nov 23, 2009 9:50 AM CST Mother to be and single.
scousedon
scousedonscousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK14 Threads 4 Polls 1,643 Posts
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
Polarbutterfly: Please clarify,if you can?


Very simple really. I have the greatest respect for men that would do this but it is not for me. Each has choices to be made and basically I would give a pregnant woman a wide berth as I could not see me getting emotionally involved to begin with.
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#14
Nov 23, 2009 9:52 AM CST Mother to be and single.
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA13,695 posts
SoldierByte: Personally...???
I been there..
DONE it..
and got four daughters and my grey hair..
I have my own personal feelings on unwed mothers..
but I believe each and every decision/choice
is an individual one that both parties must
decide/agree, and accept...
Anything else is meer banter, opinion, and conjecture..
And as from similiar thread topics..
is MY opinion...
and MINE alone...
Question WAS asked..
I replied...
---SoldierByte---


thumbs up Agreed, and none can truly say what they'd do, just what hypothetically they'd do. Funny how a certain person can come along and change your mind...which is why I've learned to never say "never". wine
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#15
Nov 23, 2009 9:52 AM CST Mother to be and single.
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
PolarbutterflyOPunknown, Northwest Territories Canada9,486 posts
Sorry,I meant to say
please clarify about the
emotional drama,on the woman's
part or was that in general?confused
scousedon: Very simple really. I have the greatest respect for men that would do this but it is not for me. Each has choices to be made and basically I would give a pregnant woman a wide berth as I could not see me getting emotionally involved to begin with.
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#16
Nov 23, 2009 9:57 AM CST Mother to be and single.
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?


My small two cents. If I was single and pregnant dating would be the last thing on my mind. There's just so much going on with a woman emotionally and physically at this time and I don't think a man would be a priority at that point - probably afterwards though. JMHO.
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#17
Nov 23, 2009 9:59 AM CST Mother to be and single.
explorador
exploradorexploradorsmall village, Gavleborg Sweden6 Threads 113 Posts
exploradorsmall village, Gavleborg Sweden113 posts
Polarbutterfly: Guys,I was thinking about this last night
and thought would guys date a woman who's
expecting (pregnant) and single?
Your thoughts please?
some people turn on women who are pregnant, when i was pregnant (and married) a guy was following me everywhere, i told him that he had no chance, it made him very very sad.
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#18
Nov 23, 2009 10:02 AM CST Mother to be and single.
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK14,070 posts
explorador: some people turn on women who are pregnant, when i was pregnant (and married) a guy was following me everywhere, i told him that he had no chance, it made him very very sad.


That sounds like he was already very very sad !!
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#19
Nov 23, 2009 10:04 AM CST Mother to be and single.
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK14,070 posts
tainogirl: My small two cents. If I was single and pregnant dating would be the last thing on my mind. There's just so much going on with a woman emotionally and physically at this time and I don't think a man would be a priority at that point - probably afterwards though. JMHO.


You mean you can't multitask and wield a big stick at the same time ...... laugh tongue grin wave
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#20
Nov 23, 2009 10:05 AM CST Mother to be and single.
scousedon
scousedonscousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK14 Threads 4 Polls 1,643 Posts
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
Polarbutterfly: Sorry,I meant to say
please clarify about the
emotional drama,on the woman's
part or was that in general?


I see, well when my ex was pregnant and the horemones started playing havo, it put a strain on the day to day running of our lives, especially hers but we coped together coz we shared this common bond and did all I could to support her changing moods. I am almost certain I could not do this with single pregnant woman. I know my limitations I am afraid. The bonding would not be the same for me.
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