Never felt this way before... ( Archived) (24)

Nov 25, 2009 9:08 PM CST Never felt this way before...
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
I met a guy recently...like last week. From our very first talk there was just something about him that I like. I dont remember the last time I felt so happy. He makes me smile. We have since talked with each other using a web cam..and same thing...Is this the strangest thing youve heard? I dont think I can now trust myself..my judgement seems to be clouded..HELP!help dunno moping moping
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Nov 25, 2009 9:18 PM CST Never felt this way before...
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
Thank you..

Im trying to be careful... but I feel that Ive been sad for such a long time that finding someone ..anyone...who made me smile was def..gonna have this effect. I dont want to run this guy away..but also dont want to plunge into anything either.hmmmmmmoping moping moping moping
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Nov 25, 2009 9:23 PM CST Never felt this way before...
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
Take it slow, don't build yourself up for a let down. It can work sometimes but few and far between. Think with your head and not the heart. GLwine
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Nov 26, 2009 8:18 AM CST Never felt this way before...
fortyeleven
fortyelevenfortyelevencooma, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 26 Posts
Good luck............ being sad is so draining. sigh I wish you all the luck with him bouquet
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Nov 26, 2009 8:36 AM CST Never felt this way before...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Forget being careful! Just go with it and enjoy the ride. Open up your heart and show it to him.
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Nov 26, 2009 11:13 AM CST Never felt this way before...
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
Good for you!!! Let yourself be happy but just be careful. hug
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Nov 26, 2009 11:17 AM CST Never felt this way before...
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
hug enjoy it while it lasts as last it may. Go with the flow and just enjoy each day at a time comfort
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Nov 26, 2009 3:00 PM CST Never felt this way before...
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
Thank you all very very much for your replies and encouragement.
It seems that things here just move alot faster than i expected them to and I was just blown away.
I will put a foot foward at a time and try not to jump in.

Thanks guysteddybear teddybear teddybear
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Nov 26, 2009 4:45 PM CST Never felt this way before...
Gowanheart
GowanheartGowanheartGULFPORT, Mississippi USA3 Threads 570 Posts
I find that when my heart and my brain differ, my heart is capable of talking my brain into the most improbable things.

Having said that, I have survived the silly things my heart has talked me into doing (not so silly as to be sued or arrested, of course!---ususally just costly in time or money). Sometimes things have panned out, sometimes not.

Try not to do anything more expensive than he is willing to do--and when something does not seem quite right, slow down a bit and check it out.

Speaking from experience. Best of luck!!!!


heart beating
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Nov 26, 2009 10:20 PM CST Never felt this way before...
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
Thank you very much for your advice. Gowanheart, so far he has offered to make the first trip to meet. A good start? confused
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Nov 27, 2009 3:20 AM CST Never felt this way before...
911gypsy
911gypsy911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada17 Threads 1,343 Posts
Never like a guy more than he likes you......uh oh
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Nov 27, 2009 4:37 AM CST Never felt this way before...
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Follow your heart darlin,,, cos if you dont, he may have been that one that was suited for you..

Best of luck...bouquet
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Nov 27, 2009 5:44 AM CST Never felt this way before...
Southmiami1234
Southmiami1234Southmiami1234Tampa, Florida USA9 Threads 175 Posts
IF he made you smile, that's your guy !
But take it slow, watch your heart but don't lose your mind.
It's good that you are going to meet, that shows his interest.
Go one step forward as he shows his step to you too.
Enjoy the ride, this initial romance.
Wish you the best for both

wine wine wine

heart beating heart beating
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Nov 27, 2009 6:46 AM CST Never felt this way before...
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Boban1: I put a spell on you
cause youre mine

You better stop the things you do
I aint lyin
No I aint lyin

........................ ...............


How did you know one of my favourite songs? wow thumbs up Sometimes you surprise me, Mr Boban... laugh

To the original poster: sounds fantastic, that's the way I make conclusions about men - the way they make me feel is the best "diagnostic tool". And do NOT worry about what else you should do, say, etc!!!
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Nov 27, 2009 6:56 AM CST Never felt this way before...
hayley666
hayley666hayley666drogheda, Louth Ireland3 Threads 22 Posts
be careful get to know him a bit better it sem that you dont seem to much about him only that he make you smile, be care ful wish you the best of luck
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Nov 27, 2009 7:48 AM CST Never felt this way before...
RLML48
RLML48RLML48Charleston, South Carolina USA2 Threads 288 Posts
kissmedeeply: Everything is realitivity new right now..and of course you feel all kinds of emotions..becareful..its nice when someone makes you laugh and feel good again..

Study him..the way he talks..say things..if you feel something just doesnt feel right..then ask him..that is the only way to know each other..

Take it one step at a time..and i hope all goes well with you..
thumbs up
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Nov 27, 2009 6:18 PM CST Never felt this way before...
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Big_John: Forget being careful! Just go with it and enjoy the ride. Open up your heart and show it to him.
wow Show What to him ? laugh

Just kidding BJ. I kind of agree to a certain point. confused Hmmmm. Careful with the feelings.
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Nov 29, 2009 8:02 AM CST Never felt this way before...
sassysexy
sassysexysassysexyWarsaw, Mazovia Poland6 Threads 1 Polls 62 Posts
Thanks for all your replies...and most of you are right...my judgement is pretty clouded. Dating online is really really challenging. He does want to meet me and BTW..he is living in Europe and Im working in Asia.I would rather us meet sooner or later to decide if there is a real spark between us. Now everything is great and lovey dovey..but we cant know until we meet. I will try to be carfeul with him. Thanks very very much for your advice.applause
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Nov 29, 2009 8:07 AM CST Never felt this way before...
DonDon67
DonDon67DonDon67Columbus, Georgia USA19 Threads 2 Polls 692 Posts
It is just like face to face, just stay true to who you are and watch yourself. In 4 days I will be married and it all happened right here on good ole cs. God bless you and yours and good luckpeace
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Nov 29, 2009 8:21 AM CST Never felt this way before...
Sundown40
Sundown40Sundown40Houston, Missouri USA4 Threads 1,418 Posts
drbombay: Take it slow, don't build yourself up for a let down. It can work sometimes but few and far between. Think with your head and not the heart. GL


Dr. B...you hit the nail on the head with this post! Well said!! thumbs up thumbs up

Too easy to let your heart get in the way and cloud your vision so you don't see the storm coming.

I honestly hope it works out for you...believe everyone needs to find love and happiness...just be careful and protect your heart hun. hug teddybear
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