serene56: hi asleep .. I get what you're saying here, of course. All us gals have em and it's just up to the individual what they want out of this site -if you put em out there, of course you're going to get reactions from guys. It's just a flirty thing, I guess and some women like the attention
Very true, no different from going on a night out on the town dressed to impress.
AsleepInNJOPCherry Hill, New Jersey USA2,862 posts
serene56: hi asleep .. I get what you're saying here, of course. All us gals have em and it's just up to the individual what they want out of this site -if you put em out there, of course you're going to get reactions from guys. It's just a flirty thing, I guess and some women like the attention
I just think there's a time and a place for everything .. if I have a date with someone I already know, I might "let the girls out" a bit but to me, if you hang em out for all and sundry, you're inviting attention - and not necessarily from the type of guy you had in mind
LaVerdad: Ironically some people here who do flash the flesh wonder why they get bogged down with email with lewd content, moaning and groaning why they are attracting the wrong type of person.
Well said, LaVerdad explicit threads/posts also invite that sort of attention.
serene56: Well said, LaVerdad explicit threads/posts also invite that sort of attention.
Who needs it
Another good point. I generally stick to the people I know in the forums as I find these are good folk. Any unwanted attention I might receive because of posting I just simply delete and block. If I find the content to below the belt then I will report that profile. People must be more careful and realise it is as bad on here as in the real world, and can be just as fun, thoughtful and interesting too. Read the rules and investigate what online dating and friends is all about.
In response to: usually show disdain for men who post pics of their chests calling them pigs or dogs yet we see many ladies of CS letting those babies hang out not leaving much to the imagination. what gives? what's good for the goose is good for the gander? turn about fair play?
LaVerdad: Another good point. I generally stick to the people I know in the forums as I find these are good folk. Any unwanted attention I might receive because of posting I just simply delete and block. If I find the content to below the belt then I will report that profile. People must be more careful and realise it is as bad on here as in the real world, and can be just as fun, thoughtful and interesting too. Read the rules and investigate what online dating and friends is all about.
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gee i wonder why? you've been postig for 24 hours.